The confrontation was loud as she screamed at her husband for lying and ordering the alleged niece turned daughter should leave the house.....
The husband tried to calm her down while she dived at him and tore his tee shirt and the Chioma was on her knees crying and begging....
‘Woman: did you tell me she was your daughter? Did you tell me she was your daughter? You told me she was your niece, you bloody liar
Husband: please off the camera
Woman: get out!!!! I will not off it and I will post it. You are a devil. People will know you for who you are. You are a devil. Get out of this house! Chioma leave this house ....
Elderly woman sitting by the side: please leave her
From the way the woman was screaming, you will see that it was not a skit.
I wonder how people get in the headspace of putting on their cameras in the heat of a moment.
ReplyDeleteWhen a woman is "hurt", no one should tell her how to "react". She's free to insult or assault, and tear clothes.
DeleteThe only person who should not slap or tear clothes is the man.
That is it, isn't it?
That woman is wicked. The husband did wrong for sure but the way she treated that girl even when the girl was kneeling begging her was very bad.
ReplyDeleteShe asked her own child to go upstairs when the girl was begging on the husband's daughter behalf and she was saying nonsense to that girl.
This man had the daughter even he met you and married you for crying out loud. You get the right to get angry but not to that extent even posting it online. She even tore the man's top
I'm a woman but won't support her act at all
The way u reason sometimes dey vex me..
DeleteA woman has been betrayed,lied to,may countless times,do u know the level of trust and resources she has put into this man and the marriage..
Since he had the child before he met her,so why not tell her then, since u are so sure..
She's angry at them all and have every right to be..
If she wants the child out then they should give her space to heal and decide what to do..
Why did the man lie to her in the first place, is that not betrayal? 😡
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When you experience betrayal from trusted family members, come back.The woman was wicked but allowed a niece to be brought in from Nigeria....smh
Delete@Mrs. Sharon, I understand that she was betrayed, but sometimes controlling one's emotions matters a lot. It could have been handled maturely. She exposed her weakness and that of the husband for the whole to see; that's wrong; she has every right to get angry and display whatever way she wants if she could not handle it maturely at that moment; everything mustn't be about social media.
DeleteThat little girl shouldn't be begging; it's not her fault.
Well, she has since apologized for her reaction, but the deed has been done.
Biz may what happened to this woman happen to you too then we will know how nice you are.
DeleteSharon, the way you reason sometimes baffles me too. Did Biz in any way justify the act of the man? I guess if this was done to you, you will go to CNN for them to broadcast it to the world. Arrant nonsense.
DeleteShe is not at fault. Even if he had the child decades before marrying her, why didn't he tell his wife. Why lie, calling his daughter his niece. That's betrayal abeg.
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For una mind, BIZ na woman.
DeletePerson wey his gang members bin de pin his giveaway make SDK select am.
Na man, we know him.
Argue with your dΠeks or c^nts.
Do you know how hurt the woman was feeling at that moment she knew the truth?
DeleteAbeg stop judging her. He betrayed her
@13:49,you are mad, who's arrant nonsense?
DeleteYes I will beyond CNN to broadcast it..
Go and tell her how to react to a betrayer.. it's will be done to you,so u will behave maturely.. nonsense..
@michohay,she was pain and it's not easy at all,at that moment she can't even control her emotions.. saying she's wicked because of the way she reacted is wrong , ThankGod she came around and forgive..
She was angry at the girl, because she knew he was her dad but said nothing. The deception was on both sides.
DeleteI agree with you .
DeleteShe over reacted.😎
Mrs Sharon, they only draw a line when it's paternity fraud. That's only when it's okay to throw mother and kid out of the house. Hypocrites!
DeleteYou people talk anyhow. If the man had told her from beginning, it would not be like these. Betrayal hurts. Will i blame the woman, hell no. We all react differently when hurt.
DeleteSharon, you are the one that is raving mad. Arrant nonsense
DeleteSuch deception. The hurt in her voice was very painful to listen to. 😔😔😔
ReplyDeleteShe was absolutely heartbroken. I wonder what else the horseband is lying about. Na husband she for pursue comot for house,the liar. Chioma is an innocent child who can go back to Nigeria or stay with her efulefu of a father.
DeleteAs in eehn, very painful to watch. People that have not experienced betrayal from family members will not understand that voice..This type of lies can make someone run mad if you can't control yourself.
DeleteLook at them condoning nonsense, talk is cheap na it's easy to run mouth till it happens to them, and next thing na world scatter
DeleteMiss me with that bs
I sent to the wrong reply
DeleteI was replying BIZ sdk, 🙄🙄🙄
it's wasn't a skit, she later did a follow up video apologizing for her over reaction. She said Chioma and her other children are doing fine.
ReplyDeleteI know her anger/action is justify but why did she post the video in the first place.
DeleteWaaooh, thats a good one. I am still trying to understand why the man had to lie, especially as he had the girl before marriage. Or maybe the lady was not ready to settle down with a minus one man. Again, from the video, it seemed like the woman is in charge of doings financially. A 'responsible man' cannot be pushed around like that, even when he is wrong.
DeleteHey ho,if that's how she feels about it.
DeleteNot skit. The police taken the man out of that home. It's 😢 sad
DeleteThere are things you don't lie about in marriage & this is one of them. I can understand her hurt & pains, she deserves to know the truth.
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I understand her hurt. The part I disagree with is making a video and posting it online. There were witnesses there, so why bring it online?
ReplyDeletePeople should realize by now that the standard for judging human behavior is different depending on the gender involved. The only gender allowed to scream at, disgrace, body shame, call names (horseband, dog band, misogynist etc), the other is the female. The gender that is supposed to receive and accept such abuse(s) is the male gender. The only exception is if the individual involved is a relation.
ReplyDeleteI will not address whatever the issues involved here. I will rather talk about the reaction of the woman.
Whatever it is, this man didn't marry a wise woman. Her character is disgusting!
Hypocrite! That's what u are. Hypocrite!!!
DeleteWomen who commit paternity fraud are shamed all the time. How's this different? It's the woman that was wronged that u are shaming for her reaction and not the one that actually wronged her.
Why am I surprised? Are you not defending Yul over May?
Hypocrisy will bring about your end. Wicked man. The man in the video is a foolish vile excuse of a man who should never be trusted and who doesnt deserve anything good in life
DeleteYou Nigerian Men have killed women for less. I cant count how many verified news stories we have had in the past three months of men burning or stabbing their wives for less.
You selfish thibgs only remember wisdom when you think a women should exhibit it. Yet you go about your daily lives ftom youth to old age with no shred of said wisdom.
Eka Joy, we're saying the same thing. Only women are allowed or even justified in slapping, insulting, tearing clothes, etc.
DeleteThe only time it's not allowed is if the man involved is "our person".
Eka, this can not be compared to paternity fraud. Example of paternity fraud, is someone claiming the child you’ve raised and given your all for years. A child you nurtured from birth, in whom you have invested emotionally, financially and other wise being taken away from your own very eyes. The man betrayed her trust, but she never saw the girl as hers. The girl is even there assisting them.
DeleteI saw another video of her saying she is ok, the children are ok and her hubby has been asked by the police to leave the house for some time.
ReplyDeleteWhat the man did is very bad. You don't hide something as huge as a human being from your spouse. I found her reactions excessive. She should have addressed the issue with her husband and left Chioma out of it, that scene is likely to stick in the girl's memory and could lead to resentment between them in the future, as we know, most Igbo in-laws will hold onto this incident forever, if care is not taken, that marriage is gone forever.
We are entitled to our emotions especially when angry but it's always good to purse, take a deep breath before you react, why video your family issue and send it for all to see, now your body is calm but the whole world will not forget.
The marriage should go. Someone who can do something like that to you, is not worth being married to.
DeleteHmmm… Zaram no annoy me abeg.
DeleteYou are talking about ‘the marriage is over is over if care is not taken’. And talking about in-laws. So in your mind this is a marriage worth fighting for? In your mind, she owes her in-laws anything?
Nna ehn! Nigerian women need a total overhaul in thinking about this marriage thing. Bad marriages are not as important as your parents told you it is.
Anon 14:49- I am sure you are not married yet. The marriage should go yen yen yen. Oshisko
DeleteVery wicked man, and people like him will be shouting DNA test up and down now what is the difference between this evil man and a woman that did paternity fraud now?
ReplyDeleteMy dear, just dey look.
DeleteHumans should just stop lying to one another. it can just be very annoying to find out things from strangers
ReplyDeleteThe people blaming the woman are senseless. Do you think every woman is ok marrying a single father? In that woman's mind, she thought her child is their first child is their both first seed not knowing the man already had a child without telling her and that child is also in the same deceit with her father because she is aware of their whole plans from day1 and canceled it with his dad because you can see how she immediately started begging.
ReplyDeleteYou are the senseless one here because you failed to draw the line. Nobody justified what the man did. He messed up no doubt. But why bringing your family affairs to the social media. If you don’t see anything wrong with that, then take your own family affair to CNN for broadcast to the whole world
DeleteYou're the senseless Efuluefu Mpama.
DeleteMust we all see things from your own point of view?
Ibu ezigbte Eziofia.😵
Ikegwuru😔
ReplyDeleteShe should prepare herself to receive Chioma's mother if she's still alive, that man did her dirty and wasn't really remorseful, the girl might even know from onset, just play along and call me uncle till we fly you out of the country. The deception is deep, she'll live to be scared of that man
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Exactly even Chioma's brother also..
DeleteI don't blame the woman, I blame the Man for lying to her that chioma is his niece instead of his daughter.. chioma is just an innocent child caught up in this mess the woman should please allow her to stay while she deal with the lying husband of hers..
ReplyDeleteThe Chioma was also conniving with her father and actively lying to the woman for personal gain. She is indeed her father's daughter and also guilty of deceit and betrayal.
DeleteEverything cant be resolved on social media. Settle your issues privately.
ReplyDeleteI watched the video the woman was so angry, I blame the man Sha.
ReplyDeleteI watched the video.
ReplyDeleteI blamed the man for not telling her the whole truth, that the girl is his daughter.
But after watching the video and the way the woman behaved, I now understand why the husband didn't disclose the truth to her.
Asking the innocent girl to leave your house same way you asked your husband to leave the house is just too much and shows how wicked you are.
If na man tear woman cloth like that, na domestic violence we go dey hear everywhere now.
Even your elderly mother couldn't talk to you.😏😏
The end time “sidren” will soon come for your head.
DeleteYou mean the innocent girl who lied with her father and continued to deceive her helper?
DeleteThe truth shall set you free.
ReplyDeleteThe marriage will not be the same again..
ReplyDeleteI blame the man for not revealing who Chioma is from the on set..
In marriage you don't hide anything from your spouse...
Madam, what did you gain now that you have posted it online? You don't even know that you have done more damage to your relationship or marriage with this singular act.
ReplyDeleteThat man no try at all. Will she ever trust him again?
ReplyDeleteHer reaction is valid. We all react differently but then asking the little girl to leave wasn't good. I guess she said so out of anger.
The woman is very senseless for posting this online. Trying to buy sympathy and followers with the video.
ReplyDeleteI really want to believe this is a skit as I can see she is on tiktok. If it is not a skit then her mumu is too much. Embarrassing your husband online not for current I fidelity but for hiding an offspring that he probably had before meeting you.
I don't have issues with fighting the husband for lying and betrayal but putting it out is the hight of foolishness and asking the teenager to leave the house and traumatising your kids o top of it.
This video is truly heartbreaking. My only issue is with the woman attacking the innocent girl, Chioma. That poor girl has no part in her father's sins. What pains me even more is the thought that she might be finding out just now that the man she believed to be her uncle is actually her father. This kind of trauma could deeply affect her. Honestly, that man really messed up — what was the point of such an unnecessary lie?
ReplyDeleteMy only annoyance is why bring it to SM? Why do we have to know what you are going through in your marriage? The whole world!! In all of that madness, somebody was recording.
ReplyDeleteInterestingly, she will not leave the marriage after all that shouting.
He never Reach This Stage nahh
ReplyDeleteThey Should Settle It Amicably..
But it's Painful oooo...
Hello iya Boys
If it's true then the man is at fault, why not just come out and say the truth from the beginning.
ReplyDeleteIndeed she should not have brought it to social media. It was a vulnerable situation and she wanted to hurt him as much as he hurt her.
ReplyDeleteI was doubting if the video was real. But after going through the previous videos she posted on tiktok, she seemed like happy woman who loved her life, her husband and kids. And that this was a huge betrayal: she was really hurt. I do not know the way forward for her and her family. It will take her time to navigate and decide.
Wishing all involved peace.
I have a strong feeling that the woman is the breadwinner in the marriage. The house is hers and the man is feeding from her.
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