Thursday In House News

 Waffy Hailings...

THURSDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

How una dey oooooooooooooh.. Congratulations to all the recipients on the Columnists list..I hope your alert came in already?....I will post the next list tomorrow by Gods grace....

The next list will be tagged the Famous five...LOL....make una no mind me oooooooh..I am just having fun with the giveaway and not stressing myself in anyway...

BV Ummu sent me a list and it is from that list i will pick names and if i need other names , i will step out of the list...

The list after this one will be the preachers support list......I already have two pastors who read the blog and they run small churches.. they will be the last recipients if anything is left for them...lol

Its Sunny out here today and i am going for a walk in the sun......If comments slow small, abeg no vexs..I dey come..

Not cooking today...yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay......LOL

A Lady saw me yesterday and said i lost so much weight, i was excited...hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha small eating continues oh.......

FAMOUS FIVE LIST

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Who are the famous five?i will check that Ummus list today....

I wanna ask you a question, you are applying for the giveaway but how are you sure that you have not insulted the giver before in the comment section? watch the way you comment and dont just think its a blog...This is a movement....THINK ABOUT IT!!!

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 PINKYS CORNER

You see ehn, in as much as i hate to support violence against women, so also, i hate to see women misbehave because they also should think before acting.

‎I woke up by God's grace on monday and went straight into the living room to think about life(you know how we men do our things now). Few moments later,i heard two people discussing outside and i was so interested in the discussion, then i peeped through the window and saw it was someone i know. I just enter room, wear my clothe and dash out.

‎The issue is, the first guy was narrating what one of their friend went through in the hands of his wife. He said, the guy who happens to be a tailor(let's say Bode), married a beautiful woman. 

The tailor has an apprentice(say kunle). Kunle's father was dating Bode's wife which was unknown to kunle and Bode. Because kunle has been to his Boss(Bode)house before and has met his wife on several occasions. So, if he had an idea or has seen his father with the lady before, he would have either corrected his father or informed his boss, whichever way.

‎The lady was pregnant and baba tailor was so happy to be called a father as he was expecting the reward of marriage not knowing he wasn't the father of the baby. After  9 months, aunty put to bed and tailor was so so happy. 

The friend said, that day, they both went out to flex because he has been expecting this for close to 3years of his marriage. Not knowing he wasn't the father.

‎On the naming ceremony day, the man came along with some of his friends to claim the child and stopped the Alfa from naming the child stating his reasons. The husband was surprised and everything led to alot. From information (source), Bode was shocked from every event that took place and from all evidences shown by Kunle's father. That was how all secret let loose. 

The man only gave birth to Kunle after which the mother died some years after and since then, he has been wanting to have another child. It was revealed that, baba has been dating this lady even before she got married and she never told baba she was getting married and didn't give info about her wedding. 

Bode was angry at Kunle but he never knew the boy had no idea until everything came out.

‎Presently, the guy finds it difficult giving a chance to anyone and from information, he said he will impregnate anyone and collect his child because he isn't ready for another marriage. Can you see how bad the situation has changed this guy.

‎I feel pity for him and I keep asking myself what this world is turning into. No dignity at all.

‎Ogaooooo

What is going on with women and paternity scam? I dont get it....Why do this? ah ah!!!

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD

If there is one task I don’t enjoy as a wife and mother, it’s planning what everyone will eat every day. It’s tiring. When I was younger and single, I had comfort meals and could eat it every day for months at a stretch.

The fact that I could have the same meal , the same taste every day no matter how chaotic my day was, was very comforting. I once ate beans and plantain from the same vendor for dinner for three months and only stopped because I was way too sick from eating the vendor’s food. I can count the number of times i cooked when i was living alone.

Now I have to make sure that not only are my kids well fed with good meals, but I also have to come up with innovative ways of preparing and serving it up.

I have really been trying my best given how much of a picky eater my sons are, but a recent blood test made me realise how harder I have to try and improve their nutrition. I have been introducing them to new meals, but they are not willing to try out new foods

Even the meal prep for the adults is tiring in the bid to break the monotonousness for them. I am on YouTube a lot trying out food from other cultures.
It’s tiring.

Thank you Stella, I got the alert.God bless you and all my fellow Blog visitors......I hope you people enjoy my column? You can be interactive and engage me...Thank you.

These your boys sef their own too much...ah ah!!!...leave them make hunger catch them well well whether dem go still reject food when dem see am....

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LOVE SPEAKS THROUGH ACTIONS.....!!!
Love is one of the most powerful forces in human relationships, but it doesn't always have to be verbalized. While words are important, consistent and intentional actions often speak louder, building trust, intimacy, and emotional security. True love is demonstrated through selfless acts, thoughtful gestures, and unwavering presence. 

Here’s how you can express love without saying a single word.

1. Be Present and Attentive
In today’s fast-paced world, giving someone your full attention is a rare and meaningful act of love. Love is about being present, not just physically but emotionally and mentally. When engaging with your partner:
Put away distractions like your phone or TV.
Maintain eye contact and listen actively.
Show empathy through nodding, smiling, and responding appropriately.
Your presence assures your partner that they are valued and heard, strengthening emotional intimacy.

2. Perform Small Acts of Kindness
Small, thoughtful gestures show that you are attuned to your partner’s needs and happiness. These little acts accumulate over time, reinforcing love and appreciation. Consider:
Making their morning coffee just the way they like it.
Running errands for them when they’re busy or tired.
Preparing a surprise meal after a long day.
Taking over a task they dislike without being asked.
These everyday efforts show that you care deeply, even in the simplest ways.

3. Use Physical Touch to Express Affection
Physical touch is a powerful non-verbal way to express love. It creates emotional warmth, reassurance, and security. Different forms of touch can communicate various emotions:
A tight hug can provide comfort during tough times.
Holding hands fosters a sense of connection.
A gentle touch on the back can express support and encouragement.
Cuddling releases oxytocin, the "love hormone," reinforcing emotional bonding.
Even small, affectionate gestures can make a huge difference in how loved and appreciated someone feels.

4. Prioritize Quality Time
Spending quality time together strengthens your relationship by creating meaningful memories and deepening your bond. Being intentional about spending time together means:
Engaging in shared activities that bring joy.
Going on spontaneous dates or getaways.
Taking walks, watching movies, or cooking together.
Being fully present during conversations without distractions.
Quality time is not about the quantity of time spent together but the depth of connection formed during those moments.

5. Surprise Them with Thoughtful Gestures
Surprises, no matter how small, show that you’re thinking about your partner even when they’re not around. Some ideas include:
Leaving handwritten love notes in unexpected places.
Planning a spontaneous date or outing.
Buying a small gift that reflects their interests.
Preparing a playlist of songs that remind you of them.
Surprises inject excitement into the relationship and reinforce feelings of appreciation and love.

6. Let Your Body Language Speak for You
Sometimes, love is communicated through subtle body language. A smile, a gentle touch, or even mirroring their movements can strengthen your emotional connection. Other non-verbal expressions of love include:
A warm gaze that shows admiration.
Leaning in when they speak to show engagement.
A reassuring squeeze of the hand during stressful moments.
Playful gestures that lighten the mood.
Your body language can communicate warmth, affection, and emotional support without the need for words.

7. Support Their Dreams and Goals
Encouraging your partner’s ambitions and passions is a profound way to express love. Supporting them can involve:
Attending their events or presentations.
Helping them prepare for an important task.
Offering words of encouragement and motivation.
Taking interest in their hobbies or aspirations.
Your unwavering belief in them builds confidence and strengthens the foundation of your relationship.

8. Pay Attention to Their Needs
Love is often found in the details—those little things that show you truly understand your partner. Being observant helps you:
Recognize when they need a break or emotional support.
Offer comfort before they even ask.
Remember their likes, dislikes, and habits.
Anticipate their needs before they express them.
By being thoughtful and proactive, you show that you care deeply about their well-being.

9. Engage in Acts of Service
Actions often hold more weight than words when it comes to expressing love. Some meaningful acts of service include:
Helping with chores without being asked.
Fixing something they’ve been meaning to repair.
Running errands when they’re feeling overwhelmed.
Taking care of responsibilities when they’re unwell.
Acts of service demonstrate reliability, care, and selflessness, making your partner feel supported and cherished.

10. Respect Their Space and Independence
Love also means understanding when to step back and give your partner the space they need. A healthy relationship thrives on balance. Respecting their need for alone time or personal growth shows that you:
Trust them and value their individuality.
Support their self-care and well-being.
Understand that personal space is essential for a strong relationship.
Giving space when needed strengthens trust and prevents emotional exhaustion.

11. Express Gratitude Regularly
Appreciation is a key component of lasting love. Even small acknowledgments of your partner’s efforts can go a long way in making them feel valued. Ways to express gratitude include:
Saying "thank you" for the little things they do.
Smiling and making eye contact when they help you.
Writing a heartfelt note of appreciation.
Recognizing their efforts in front of others.
Gratitude fosters a positive atmosphere and reinforces love in everyday life.

12. Be Consistent in Your Love
Grand gestures are wonderful, but true love is built on consistency. Showing love daily, through small and consistent efforts, reassures your partner of your commitment.
Ways to stay consistent include:
Checking in on their well-being regularly.
Being dependable in both good times and bad.
Continuing to put effort into the relationship.
Staying affectionate even when routine sets in.
Love isn’t just about emotions—it’s about daily choices that reinforce connection and trust.
Love Without Words is Powerful
Love is an ongoing commitment, not just a fleeting feeling. While verbal affirmations are important, consistent actions build a foundation of trust, security, and emotional intimacy.
At its core, love is about making your partner feel seen, valued, and cherished. Speak through your actions, and your love will be understood in ways words could never fully express. Copied

If you are not in love or have no partner, please save this writeup cos you go need am when time come...some of una no sabi love at allllllllllll..THANK ME NOW

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WEIRDFACTS

-You can't rely on your sense of smell to wake you up in the event of a house fire

-You are under no obligation to be the same person you were a year, month, or even 15 minutes ago. You have the right to grow. No apologies.

-Sometimes, the only reason why you won't let go of what's making you sad is because it was the only thing that made you happy.

-People with smartphones unlock their phone around 110 times each day.

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