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Saturday, April 05, 2025
Saturday In House Gists - Sharing Life's Experiences And The Consequences
Did anything happen to you that shook your Faith or made it stronger? Or was it something that happened that has convinced you that love does or does not exist?
Do you care to share your experiences`???
Do you care to share your experiences`???
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I lived a carefree life in my 20s, drinking, smoking, sleeping around, having abortions, etc. Now I am here looking for how to conceive for
ReplyDeletemany many many many years now. I wish I kept my babies. 😭
Thank heavens I didn't contact bad disease or even worse sef. I am very grateful for that.🙏
Confessing your sin show how remorseful you are,no one is perfect but God mercy keeps us going,may the mercy of God locate you and grant you that you seek for 🙏
DeleteGOD IS A MERCIFUL GOD, keep praying HE will hear and restore you.
DeleteAre you sure your husband’s sperm is okay
DeleteMay God answer all your secret prayers 🙏
DeleteGod will definitely answer your prayers, just keep trusting him. And if you both can afford IVF, why not try it also. All the best.
Delete15:37 very good question
DeleteSee my dear it might just not be your fault,
The only love that exist is the love between a mother and her child/children, every other love na trade by barter.
ReplyDeleteEven love between mothers and their children dey shake.
DeleteCANDY.
I have one here the mum abandoned since she was a child, she left the kids when the husband passed away. please stop this mother and child’s love. That you are fortunate to have a good mother doesn’t make others the same. Some parents are wicked, up till now she hasn’t come back for the kids.
DeleteNot all mothers love their children.Pls stop the generalisation. Do some mothers not sacrifice their children for rituals?
DeleteZaram even mother's love isn't guaranteed. So mothers no send o.
DeletePls speak for urself
DeleteNna ehnnn. Eka, my shock is shocked. What kind of nonsense talk is this now. If you’re not loved at home, please speak only for yourself
DeleteAnon 20:28. You are the one that lacked love that is why you grew up bitter. If your don't like my comment, keep it moving than displaying foolishness.
DeleteI regret giving birth out of wedlock, I've lost a lot of opportunities
ReplyDeleteNow my family hate me, family now see me as a failure
I'm so broke right now
Wish I could turn back the hands of time, I should have listened to prescious wen she warned to end the relationship
Suicide keeps creeping in 😭😭
Take is easy with yourself
DeleteSuicide is never the best option..
DeleteKeep hope alive..
May God come through for you 🙏 🙌
But it's not too late to start afresh.
DeletePlease, always try to block suicide thoughts. Everything will be fine 🤗
DeleteGoldenqueen, it's not been easy starting afresh, after falling from grace to grass,my family have refused to assist me,my friends have left me
Delete2022 was my golden year😭😭
Pls don't under rate yourself, God's purpose for you in life is fruitful and blessed. Don't give up on God dear 🙏
DeleteAdunni
I understand you dear, I wish I can narrate you the hell I, ve been through, and I, m still passing through,but I, m still here. I made a promise to myself not to give up even if I did not end up seeing light at the end the tunnel.So dear, forget those family of yours that hate you, no send them. Hit the street and get any job the one that comes with accommodation, swallow anylittle pride you have and do it. Start from there.
DeletePlease do not kill yourself.
DeletePlease do not kill yourself.
DeleteResigning tested my faith
ReplyDeleteJob hunting made me more spiritual
Being suicidal made me more grateful
Help from strangers made me realise that love mustn't be from a familiar person.
I love you babes.
DeleteThanks DD😊, much love🫶
DeleteIt is well 🤗
DeleteHugs dear, you're a strong woman ❤️
DeleteAdunni
Awww Glowria 🤗🤗🤗
DeleteI lived a very decent and Godly life, as a teenager, i didn’t do all the things girls my age did. It didn’t even appeal to me. As a jss3 student i knew how to wake up in the middle of the night and pray, pray for myself and my education. As a senior secondary school student i knew how to fast and pray. And God came through in my life, i finished uni right on time, went to law school and passed my bar exams once, while serving i had 2 decent men to choose from, i chose one and iv been married ever since to a very good and equally decent man. The thing is, by the special grace of God, anything that is a challenge to people, is usually very easy for me. I think it stems from the decent God fearing life i lived. When i hear women complain about bad spouses, i just silently thank God for His mercies on me cos honestly, it is alien to me.
ReplyDeleteDear young girls out there, it pays to be decent, God promised that anybody that fears Him and abides by His rules, He would make a way out for him from every difficulty. He came through for me, He would surely come through for u.
I know ladies who led decent lives but still ended up with tales of woes. Be happy that your live is a bed of roses, but don't assumes that ladies who have bad marriages or are experiencing challenges didn't lead good lives.
Delete1000 likes 👍 👌
DeleteIt doesn't work out for some with all their decency, but will thatmake you stop being Decent? Naahh. You will just keep pushing whether it work out or not, GOD KNOWS THE BEST.
DeleteHmmm,sometimes life can be very funny.
DeleteI led and still live a decent life as well, got married left the marriage because of infidelity on the part of my ex husband.
DeletePost divorce, I also never slept around or got onto any casual relationship, have had opportunities to remarry, but I was diagnosed of primary ovarian insufficiency, one of the men had a condition that I must take in first before proceeding, I refused, I do not believe in premarital sex, and so those relationships ended.
I've asked a lot of questions why these things happen to me,but life doesn't always pan out the way we want it to. However, even in my weakness, I know God is always faithful.
He will show mercy to whom he will, and he's never late.
Love this 💕 God bless you for keeping the faith 👏
DeleteAdunni
Thanks for this comment, let people know that living a decent life pays. Things might seem difficult sometimes but you already know how to navigate it through the grace of God.
DeleteBinam, not only did she live a decent life according to her, she was decent and also had a personal and constant relationship with God which means she followed his leadings. Sometimes people can be decent but not have a personal relationship or they may even have a relationship with God but won't heed God's voice.
DeleteSome decent ladies who I have seen that when it comes to relationship, do not have high standards for the man they want to marry. God would warn them in the dream they would go ahead and ignore his voice, some would not even pray before agreeing to date any man to ask God what he thinks and even if God replies them they would say maybe it is the devil discouraging them. Some, God will tell them to wait they would be impatient because they are getting older and just pick anyone.
She is giving the glory to God and not herself hence she said "HIS MERCY" what you wrote make it seem like following God is not foolproof meanwhile Some decent ladies though it is not their fault but it could be circumstances, fear, or pressure from family and no support that have pushed them to make wrong decisions but it is not because God words is a lie.
I am happy about her testimony because it encourages in this era where people chant 'who good girl help.'
... your life...
Delete...don't assume...
Binam i am the anon, i never ever said i assume those in bad marriages did not live a decent life. Like the anon above helped me say, i also had a good relationship with God and it paid me, it is still paying me.
DeleteThe way people like you keep preaching that the bad girls always win in the end, making it look like it is pointless heeding to God’s word, there are also people like me, plenty out there and we will continue to tell our story too, atleast, let it encourage someone out there, even if it is ONLY ONE young lady out there that gets encouraged by my story and holds on to God, i would have achieved something good.
I repeat, God does not fail, hold on to Him and you would never regret it.
Anon 15.36 what gas your post got to do with the subject matter at hand? 🤔
DeleteI believe this 💯
DeleteI think me being religious and decent is paving a lot of ways for me
Whenever challenges comes up, I always see God's hands in anything that has to do with me.
Alhamduillah 🤲🤲 is all I say.
Binam don’t mind nonsense talk
Delete17:41, my duty is to express my experiences, how u understand it, is not my responsibility. The ones it is meant for will read and either relate, or pass it on to their younger ones, if it doesn’t benefit you, u can jump and pass. I come in peace.
Delete17:51 the post said "WHAT MADE YOUR FAITH STRONGER"
Deleteso she shared her testimony.
Anon 17:41
Delete"Did anything happen to you that shook your Faith or made it stronger? Or was it something that happened that has convinced you that love does or does not exist?"
You clearly didn't read Stella's post well. Positive and negative stories were asked for.
You ve never known struggle. I am not sure whether to be happy or terrified for you because everybody struggles. It feels like its piling up for the future.
DeleteNaah Robin not everybody struggles. Change ur mindset and ur mentality. Some ppl don’t know struggle in life, some people don’t know poverty. But i get u, when a child is born in a burning house, he thinks the whole world is on fire.
Delete20:28 thank you! I don't know why they want to make her story to sound somehow by fire by force. How do you know she hasn't experienced struggles? It may not even be the way you experienced yours. Some is financial, emotional or health -wise, or mild challenges here and there that gets surmounted easily.
Deleteabeg you all, free the woman and share your own experience about how your own faith has been restored biko.
Anon 15:36, I love your testimony and may it be permanent in Jesus name Amen. And may God also give everyone who still thrive to live holy and follows him diligently while patiently waiting on him despite life's challenges, double blessings for all their troubles. In Jesus's Name Amen.
I regret leaving my old job. I insulted my then short oga that I felt I was better than then got a new job that doubled my salary. Guess what. One of my juniors was promoted as my oga and the guy even short pass my former oga. So I’m basically reporting to another short guy wey I better pass. The thing dey depress me well well sotay I have turned to an alcoholic. Imagine me with all my strong degrees and abroad experience reporting to one useless short man wey get inferiority complex and always wanting to show that he’s the boss. I don suffer o.
ReplyDeleteWhat is your problem with people you are taller than?Or should I say bosses you are taller than?
DeleteL😂😂😂 you will be fine.
DeleteBe humble
DeleteSuch is life...if you knew you would have stayed with your former boss. Anyway, I'd advise you focus on the job, you will be promoted in due time 👍
DeleteAdunni
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DeleteAnd you will continue to suffer by the special grace of God. Your pompous black a$$ will be the end of you.
DeleteWhat kind of 'funny' comment is this...
DeleteBunam which kind prayer be that? Are you a short man by any chance? 🤔
DeleteBinam are you the short oga???
DeleteYou are the problem
DeleteKmt
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Anon 17.47 leave me oo you hear
DeleteI find you rather silly. Who would put you over anybody? You ll be a subordinate till you mature
DeleteE sure me say Binam na egbere na dem very hot tempered entities. See as e dey swear for her papa
DeleteVertically deprived individuals always walk around with a huge mountain on their shoulder and very, unnecessarily grabby and aggressive.... E.g,.Wike,.
DeleteCausing wahala everywhere they go
Till today, I still regret coming on here to ask for financial assistance, when I was at my lowest as a student in a Nigerian university. Omo, some people here took it upon themselves to sabotage the whole thing, even when I have never interfered with what anyone gets here, I was flabbergasted.
ReplyDeleteOne thing I learnt from the whole mess was, your real family and loved ones are not online, they're offline and you see them almost every day. They love you so much and would want to see you win no matter how many times you guys fight. Online bromance doesn't mostly come from the depths of the heart, it's not always real. I had to crawl back into my shell and make contributions when I feel like.
Oh! Dear it's unfortunately to you that you learned it in a hard way
Delete🤗🤗
Oh so sorry about that🤗, I felt the same way too, when new ids were being bashed of recent, but I realized, I shouldn't have asked as a new ID, so it my mistake . Lesson learnt.
DeleteIt's your friends in anonymous troll mode. Fear these girls.
DeleteAnd the boys too.
Black Slimzy went for love, he was rejected, he has been trolling on me particularl chic.
My once loving and caring husband, threw me out of the house for nothing sake, with our 4 month old baby, I'm back to my parents house, My husband is a wealthy man, but he has totally abandoned me and our child. He gives us nothing, the sudden hatred for me is shocking, We are just 1yr into this marriage. It's a long story and it's sudden.
ReplyDeleteMy faith is shoooked, but I know that my child and I will be fine, cause God is not asleep.
So sorry about this, May God come through for you.
DeleteAll will be well
This may not be ordinary
DeleteNa wao o. It's well with you.
DeleteHaa, sorry about this.
DeleteIt's well with you.
Please kindly send in your chronicle for advice. How can a man you call your husband just up wake up one day and throw your things outtt? Your story is half baked..
DeleteAnon 16.35, what did you do? I’m sure your husband is not a psycho to just wake up and kick you and the baby out. Always tell the two sides of the story not just the one that makes you look like the victim.
DeleteThis is the time for you to turn and cry to God.
DeleteThis doesn't look normal.
Sorry dear.
Get a lawyer and demand child support
DeleteYou guys need to get money from these men and don’t burden your parents
Omg
DeleteMaybe the man don do DNA without informing you.
DeleteDo not marry without a good job or a well to do family.
DeleteLook at this unam ikot of a husband now.
Pele poster. Report him to Women affairs for child support
Kai this is sad.
DeleteYou people have no idea how to use the law to get child support?????
DeleteIf you are in Lagos, approach social welfare and get your husband to take up his responsibility. No one wins a medal for suffering the most as a parent. He can't leave your child untrained to be bothering people in the society who trained theirs.
Delete@bachelor that was what I thought at first too. But she says it's a long story so it is likely something else
DeleteI came across a video on the happenings in MFM. My faith is so shattered. I used to attend their power must change hands program, I so much believed in their prayers. I thought I didn’t receive answers because I refused to submit myself to the deliverance program. I didn’t submit because they said that I had to live in the church for the duration of the program..seven days. I chose not to. I believed that I should be able to pray from anywhere and get results. Now I’m seeing videos and hearing about the strong connection between the church and cele. I’m hearing about twosome and threesome. I’m hearing all manner of stuff that has shattered my faith!
ReplyDeleteWhen anyone asks me out, the Holy God is real . Anyone that says God doesn't exists, may God open their eyes to accept him.
ReplyDeleteSpirit lets me see them and what their intentions are. I have been dating Jesus Christ since I was a child. I would fast for days and pray. Even with friends, God will tell me to avoid the bad ones. Funny enough, they always look harmless, but God sees the heart, so I always obeyed.
The first guy was asking me out, then I saw him and a dark-skinned tall lady at the altar in a dream. The pastor asked him if he would take her as his wife; he said yes, but the lady went silent when she was asked a similar question. I instantly knew he was dating someone who would not go ahead with their marriage plans and would break up with him. He told me he was single, but I held on to my dream and warned him to avoid me. Later, like some months later, someone we both know was giving gists about how former friends and asked if I knew Mr. So-and-so had canceled his wedding plans with his fiancée. I was surprised the person said "fiancée," so I asked questions. The person told me they had been dating for close to two years and were engaged, but the lady broke up with him. Mind you, I stopped talking to him months ago, and his relationship was almost two years, which means my dreams were accurate. So I asked if I could see the lady's picture. To my surprise, she was exactly the same person I saw in the dream.
The second guy, God didn't say anything about him. I wondered if God knew he existed at all, but God was busy talking about other people around me. I went ahead because I told myself he is a church boy, so we're good. It was when I entered the relationship that I realized dating him was a mistake. He wasn't an evil person, but he was not the right person for me at all. That was when I realized God didn't give me the go-ahead; I went and pleased myself. Since then, I promised myself if God does not say anything, me sef will look away
Another one, we were talking, and he seemed so sweet. This guy seemed perfect, only for me to dream that I was crying in the dream, shouting that someone had stolen my pounds sterling. Then a police superintendent came to console me and asked me why I was crying. I told him what happened, then he told me to look ahead. I did, only for me to see the guy I was talking to in the dream being dragged and beaten mercilessly by the police constables. He was already stripped naked. The police superintendent told me that is the person who stole my pounds sterling, then I woke up. I knew God was telling me that he would steal my virginity if I continued to talk with him and I would cry so I told myself, "God forbid bad things it will never happen in Jesus name , Amen".. So immediately, I took my phone and was about to block him when his number came in. Mind you, this guy has been disturbing me to come to his hous
Ask God to bring you your husband
DeleteAnon 17:57 God has brought him already. I didn't even know I didn't proofread and I still have a lot to write. Those who write epistles are trying o.
DeleteSo immediately I had the dream I quickly tried to block him but his call came in at the time. Coincidence right? I mistakenly picked the call after exchanging pleasantries the next thing he said was I want you to come to my house. This guy has never ask me to dinner before or ask that we go out somewhere to meet and get to know each other and we were just still getting to know each other on the pnobe . So I was surprised that the first outing was his house. I said your house, I can't come I am still getting to know you? The next thing the guy started to fume. You think I want to hurt you, you think I want to take advantage of you in my mind I was like how did we get from 0 to 360 all of a sudden. Very gentle guy started to attavk me with questions. In my mind, I was like, What I have said now, that was how the guy hung up on and never called again. Good riddance.
DeleteAnother one looked like an angel, very innocent but whenever we hung out and I sleep I will see a black fox chasing, so I blocked him and my friend was like you have come again Josephine the dreamer. I knew God was telling me that he was a cunning, crafty being that could not be trusted but God so good I happened to make a new friend who complained to us ladies that the moment her fiance relocated his best-friend has been disturbing her for a relationship and she was asking if she should tell her fiance. She was scared that the friendship her fiance and the guy has over he years will spoil and her fiance will be hurt. We were all angry that a friend would want to be betray his friend like that. She showed us the evidence of the bad friend. It turned out to be the guy who asked me out months back.
Anyways, to answer your question, Stella, all these made my faith strong in Christ coupled with other life situations that had/s nothing to do with romance(I just chose to talk about romance to encourage others) The only time I had a good dream the first time in my life about a potential suitor was when I finally met my husband. My walk with God over the years and the evidences he gives in real life to support my dreams shows me that God is real and strengthens my faith.
Treat yourself for malaria pls. Warrisalldis
DeleteIt is clear you have the gift of dreams, but did you dream about other people or life situations that came to pass aside from relationships? I will like to hear it.
DeleteYou should go and get yourself checked, Anon, 19:52. She has dreams that were confirmed in real life, yet you wrote that. Funny, lots.
20:42 yes, countless times.
DeleteI will talk about two situations.
My brother and his wife wanted to go to the hospital for scan.
I told him not to waste his money that they would have a baby girl so instead they should give me the money to buy snacks because his wife was carrying a girl child. Before they told me they were pregnant I already saw her pregnant in the dream even though we were in different countries.
They didn't listen and they went ahead to do the scan, well the doctor confirmed it and she later delivered a girl.
Another cousin of mine was in the University so I called him not to open the door when his friend comes over. I saw his friend in the dream bring over a girl and the friend was pleading with my cousin to please let him use his room for fornication. My cousin laughed and told me it already happened a while ago.
He said his friend came to knock his door with a random girl and begged him to use his room for an hour. He said he has already refused.
It turned out the friend shared a room with his coursemate and that one already brought his girl around for the night so he decided to beg my cousin. Can you imagine?
In all, draw close to God and he will draw closer to you.
He said, "I will reveal to you deep secrets in unsearchable places you do not know". He also said, "I will counsel you and watch over you and instructs you in the way you should go".
When I look at how God orders my steps and directs my paths and that of my loved ones, it strengthens my faith. I know no matter what, he has got my back.🥰
Just obey God even though it doesn't make sense, sometimes. It is not easy but it's worth it.
Thanks for letting me share, Stellz
I can relate totally with you I am exactly like you. I dream a lot with great details some times. No strength for long typo but know it that there are people like you that exist and I am one of them.
DeleteMy faith was shooked at some point in my life but I thank God for his mercies, not where I ought to be but I am far better than few years ago.....so my faith is so strong that I know that all will be well again.
ReplyDeleteI have always loved God right from my youth.My love for Christ increased when i sat one day and asked myself where do the souls of the dead go to?How come today we dine, share memories and make merry this minute and the next minute,they are gone.
ReplyDeleteLife is very short and the Devil tries to make us feel as if we may live for ever on earth.No!, everyone will leave this earth either by death or if caught up with rapture( the second coming of Christ).thats why is wrong keeping malice for too long with men.its important we forgive,pls never hold grudge with someone for too long because you never know how long they will be on earth.
Life itself is spiritual and alot are happening in the spirit realm but because of our daily activities and often ignorant,we are too busy to understand these things.
If you desire something so desperately and probably the doctors who are mere mortals gave a negative report, do you know you can change it to positive by simply declaring what you want to see aloud always.constantly keep declaring it all the time,soon your spoken words will work positively with the universe, bringing that which you so desire to pass.but you must live in love and stay away from sinful activities to make these angelic beings who are all around us,work in your favor together with the universe bringing positive results around you.
I remembered year 2022 when we lost everything in a fire disaster. Ah my faith was shook. Like I was angry with God, I stopped going to church and I stopped praying. My only happy place was SDK blog, I come here and laughed away my pains. But one thing surprised me was even when I turned my back at God, he never left because throughout that period we never lack at home, we were still eating like before and bills were paid as at when due. We can't tell how we survived but we survived.
ReplyDeleteGod is God all by himself.
Life taught me to not trust the loyalty of broke people. Dont try to brush up people, keep them at arms length. Those less fortunate friends secretly resent you and will show it once they see an opportunity to level up with you. Mix with your same status people.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you. I kinda married down, and i am somehow an introvert, there is nothing they didnt call me. They said i am arrogant, i don’t like mixing with them cos i feel i am superior, their jealousy was showing. The only peace i got was when i relocated to follow my husband. Now we r cool cos of distance. Since then i learnt the hard way, mingle and relate with people on ur same level, so that some things u talk about won’t come off as bragging.
DeleteYours is friends... My in-laws accused me of looking down on them that's why I don't call etc. Even my parents complain about my calling habits. It's not what am known for.
DeleteI agree with you completely
People will respect you more if rather than showing them the bakery, you give them crumbs from your own table. Maintain slight aloofness to avoid see finish.
ReplyDeleteMan don't settle for potential, they want what you already are. As a woman why then do you want to settle for potential? Marry for the money baby, if it finishes, at least you have experienced wealth. Most 'potential ' guys eventually don't make it
ReplyDeleteHusband full ground and any girl can get married in 2 weeks if she lowers her standard.
ReplyDeleteAnd why should she because of marriage
DeleteSupplements work. High end Supplements I mean. You look better and feel better.
ReplyDeletePls recommend some.
DeletePrayers are good but that doesn't change God's timetable for your life. There will be disorder then. God knew you before you were conceived, meaning he knew about you even when your ancestors were alive. You would be born at a time to fit His plans for continuity and social impact.
ReplyDeleteYou are not better than the other person. Your bagrand (apologies to Mr Gentry), intellect, opportunities, lucky breaks et al are all in your purpose.
ReplyDeleteReincarnation is real.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. Reincarnation exists!
DeleteBefore my niece was born, I saw my paternal grandmother in my dream. She told me she is getting ready to come to us. I saw her again in my dream as a child wearing pampers. I believe in reincarnation.
DeleteYear 2021 and 2022 brought so much pain to my heart. I love my job ànd my child. I have doubt and my faith went down. Still trying to recover and build my faith again
ReplyDeleteTake it one step at a time, it’s okay to feel the disconnection for sometime, what is not okay is staying there permanently. Sending u plenty hugs and beaming positive vibes ur way❤️❤️
DeleteMay God be with you.
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