I honestly feel like giving her a hug!!!
I APPRECIATE all your gifts.
Continue to pray for me.
I am ESPECIALLY severely damaged from the se@ual attack trauma of Ikorodu rd as it’s April 28th (1978) again. It is one of the reasons I never married and just had children. Se@ual violence should not be underestimated. I’m not attracted to a man after over 20 molested me at 13yo in the dark smoked filled night of 4/28/1978. I dont have that hormone called “affection” anymore. It’s the one responsible for love between man and woman.''
''Good Morning Nigerians. I’m receiving a high amount of messages asking to send me gifts to start my life and career over as well as interview and podcast requests from media.
I will not be feeding into any media who never supported, promoted or posted my work and tagged me a mad woman for 11 wasted years in Nigeria. I begged thru fundraising and donations to work for so long because my own father clamped a charm bondage on my career. He never liked me being a journalist.
He never wanted my education to supercede his. I was not in competition with him. I cannot return to journalism as I’ve retired twice and have no interest anymore.
I now live quietly alone in my one room apartment in an unknown location after moving 4 times in 2 years and happy with my peace.
God will lift me up AMEN.
I now live quietly alone in my one room apartment in an unknown location after moving 4 times in 2 years and happy with my peace.
God will lift me up AMEN.
I APPRECIATE all your gifts.
Continue to pray for me.
I am ESPECIALLY severely damaged from the se@ual attack trauma of Ikorodu rd as it’s April 28th (1978) again. It is one of the reasons I never married and just had children. Se@ual violence should not be underestimated. I’m not attracted to a man after over 20 molested me at 13yo in the dark smoked filled night of 4/28/1978. I dont have that hormone called “affection” anymore. It’s the one responsible for love between man and woman.''
You all are forgetting that this woman is not mentally okay and have been known to post untrue stories multiple time's.
ReplyDeleteShow some empathy. Those childhood traumas can lead to mental imbalance. I went through childhood traumas and I understand her perfectly
DeleteThat's so wrong of you to say. If only you knew the level of trauma sexual abuse does to someone, it leaves a deadly mark and trauma that only God can wipe out. May you or your loved ones never witness such.
DeleteEven at that, it's so wrong to say this..
DeleteThis mentally unstable woman, is human being too.
DeletePls show some empathy.
May you get the healing you deserved Kemi
Tabuzz, you are saying the truth. Her precedence leaves one wondering what is truth or folklore when she comes out with shocking stories like this.
DeleteAnd no, empathy doesnt mean you should fling your brain and logic into the gutters. Thats why nigerians get the leaders they get, all emotion, no critical thinking
Anon 14:37..no!!! that's why most Nigerians are so naturally wicked because they don't have emphaty. That's why there is so much killing, corruption, stealing, immorality etc.
DeleteIf only you know what this woman has suffered and bn tru in life.....besides bn raped, she's gone trough unthinkable stuffs esp with her deeply occultist father whose abominable acts upon his children are well known all over ibadan.
DeleteSome things are better left unsaid.
ReplyDeleteThis is irritating to the ear.
DOZZYBEST.
Nothing should be left unsaid. That is the first stage of healing. Those our politician parents did some havoc to some of their children, occultic manner all for power. Kemi needs real therapy to heal completely.
DeleteRape is irritating to your ear? Noted. Thats the same way your pain and hurt will be irritating to the ears of those who count.
DeleteWhy?
DeleteShe should not talk about what she went through?
Omg!
ReplyDelete20 men and at 13!
Only this one experience can damage an individual for life.
Indeed, this trauma at such a young age is enough to damage one for life. Yet, thank God for Kemi bcos she's still standing tall...lucid, beautiful and entirely open about what she went through. This ought to be a lesson to others, if they choose to learn and make it right, going forward.
DeleteIt's enough to make one go mad.
DeleteThose guys are now married may be some.are elders, pastors, imams,etc
Oh my goodness! Molested at 13, a minor? Where were the parents? Come take a hug anty namesake. I'm happy you're at peace with yourself.
ReplyDeleteNa woah! This woman is severely damaged. Her controversial approach in dealing with humans and things came from her trauma. May she find healing
ReplyDeleteHmmm. Msy whatever help you need come your way ma. it's well.
ReplyDeleteIt is well.
ReplyDeleteKai!😭
ReplyDeleteBe Healed Mama 🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
Oh dear, this is traumatic for a teenage girl...big hugs Kemi.
ReplyDeleteI watched her podcast on Edo state killings and she make lot of sense. I wish she can come back to journalism, she's bold.
Stay strong Dr Kemi.
ReplyDeleteI know that sexual abuse is real, and so is rape.
20 Men. May they be miserable for the rest of their lifes.
ReplyDeleteOmg Omg 😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteShe just woke up and realized claiming victim may bring her enough sympathy.
ReplyDeleteAnon 15:06 shut up if you don't have any thing uplifting to say to a wounded soul. May what happened to her happen to your female relatives in Jesus name and may people claim they came up with it. I hate people like you. Doubting or silencing the stories of victims of SAssault. No wonder crime is so rampant ( especially r*pe and kil*ings) and we have so many damaged people walking around. It's because of people like you.
DeleteThe way we curse people eh, have you wondered if that curse will come back to you anon 17:28.
DeleteAnon 17:28 - You are toxic, just read this horrible response to this comment. May what you wish others be returned back to you in multiple folds.
DeleteBTW I do not believe her either.
So she is now now a custodian of truth with this new twist of a victim story? With her many years of misyarning tales? Or they are the hidden results of this victim tales we were never told all these years?
DeleteSorry for people like you ooo
I understand her perfectly well,it will take the Grace of GOD to remain stable if you pass through hell in the hand of your mother/father while growing up. People who grew with a loving parents won't understand.
ReplyDeleteDon't judge people because you were never in their shoe and you don't know their story.This is enough to damage a person for life ,rape is a demon
ReplyDeleteForgive my ignorance and Permit me to ask this ignorant question. What is the daughter of a rich powerful western region politician doing in Ikorodu alone that warrant raping by multiple men? She needs to explain more if not I am not going to believe cock and bull story just because of sympathy .
ReplyDeleteYou should read the whole story. Her late dad was going to Lagos from Ibadan with his entire family to take up a position as Federal commissioner for something (ministers used to be called federal commissioners). The car with her & her late brother ran into students protesting the increase in school costs (against former education federal commissioner Ali) in the famous “Alimustgo” riots of 1978. The rioters turned rapists allegedly molested her & the brother was permanently brain damaged till he died years later.
DeleteRich? He was Horatio's son, never built his own house, living in his father's. He was never in business so his only hope was the inheritance of a man who died in his prime when Nigeria was in infancy and his own salary. He was head hunted to be governor by Adelabu so he didn't sponsor his own election and was in office for only 3 months.
DeleteSome of the activists, politicians and businessmen who will be saying that the country is bad did that to a small girl because they were protesting free food and board Nigeria was giving to them which their parents could not. You can then imagine the kind of heartless evil children they would give birth to, crawling about in blog comments, oozing ignorance.
At age 13🥺
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad
This is sad.
ReplyDeleteIt is Aunty Kemi.
May heal you.
This is sad.
ReplyDeleteIt is Aunty Kemi.
May heal you.
I dont believe her in the slightest.
ReplyDeleteHer dad raped her. Same as another blogger. It is painful.
Deleteyou mean her dad raped her too? after she wad raped by 20 people?how can a 13 yo survive pounding by 20 men? Perhaps its an exaggeration but its still awful nevertheless.
DeleteBelieve Kem Kem at your own peril.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind them, believing her sob story all the time. She was foreign educated the same time with FFK and Bianca when they are free to do whatever they want. Always blaming others for her failures which was as result of too much privileges and freedom.
DeleteI follow for this your disclaimer.
DeleteAccording to her, as a result of what happened to her in 1978, she never married, but just had children (through surrogacy i suppose).
According to her, her father clamped a charm bondage on her journalism career (but not on her pharmacy/pharmacology career).
Hmmn ... hmmn ... hmmmn!
This is horrible! May God heal and take control of her life.
ReplyDeleteThis is so bad. May Lord restore your health and everything you lost
ReplyDeleteAaaaahhh! At 13??
ReplyDeleteThis is wickedness.
Oh wow. You never know what people are going through..let's be kind
ReplyDeleteStella, Gbenshed is not the word to be used. This was assault. Gbenshed implies mutual consent
ReplyDeleteOnce it's a case of SA, you can almost rely on Stella to somehow try to minimise/excuse/normalise it and I can't fathom why. Does she know this is how such headings come across and just doesn't care or is she really in the dark?
DeleteKemi is no likeable personality, in fact, she is guilty of doing the same thing to others but at least, she is human and her allegations should be handled with humanity.