Pastor Funke Adejumo has advised about the right way to have intimacy in their marriages. She advised that women open up to their husband entirely during the act of gbenshing and not see it as something to be ashamed of. They should own up their likeness for gbenshing and not pretend as if it is the job of the husband alone.
She said
“Who told us that women don’t like s*x, I like s*x! If I don’t like s*x how will I have children and you are just pretending you like s*x. African culture have told you, your grandmother have said it
‘a woman should not show that she enjoys s*x, otherwise they will call her a prostitute’.
When the man is touching you, you are happy. so, the first thing is to disbelieve that in your head otherwise you will be causing problems in your marriage. Tell yourself s*x is good, I want my husband. And when you are having s*x with your husband don’t pretend and just be like a missionary. Talk, moan…ohhhhhhh. S*x is good, don’t believe that African mentality. Let’s change it, the devil is using it to destroy marriages because that is the highest level of intimacy.
Tickle your husband, touch him when he is making love to you, when he finishes tell him good job!”
‘a woman should not show that she enjoys s*x, otherwise they will call her a prostitute’.
When the man is touching you, you are happy. so, the first thing is to disbelieve that in your head otherwise you will be causing problems in your marriage. Tell yourself s*x is good, I want my husband. And when you are having s*x with your husband don’t pretend and just be like a missionary. Talk, moan…ohhhhhhh. S*x is good, don’t believe that African mentality. Let’s change it, the devil is using it to destroy marriages because that is the highest level of intimacy.
Tickle your husband, touch him when he is making love to you, when he finishes tell him good job!”
My love for this woman eeh ๐. Always plain with words, no time to mince or sugar coat words ๐..
ReplyDeleteHaving children doesn't mean you like sex๐. And old school missionary ain't the only missionary style. But yeah, I agree with you, moan when having sex. ENJOY IT. Quiet sex is boring.
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DeleteHow person wan even pretend say e no sweet? If xes sweet your body go respond automatically.
DeleteOsundi darling, I see you're with me. ๐
DeleteSMB dearie, present Ma. ๐
Miss Aboki, there are some people that are good in pretending o. But naaaa, can't be me. ๐
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As the yoruba saying goes "Yinni yinni k'eni se mi" ๐
ReplyDeleteMo gba gbe๐๐๐
DeleteAbeg where this church dey? Asking for a friend.
ReplyDeleteThough some women do. This I know for sure. I have been told not once nor twice from different women. ''Great job,'' ''Nice one,'' ''You're fitted,'' etc.๐๐๐
These are the compliment I do hear from those sweet kpekus I strived. I won't lie, they were so sweet. As a man, compliment like this gladden the heart to know someone's daughter is having a good time with you with an earthquake shaking vibration and orgasm.
© TEEJAY
I'm ashamed on your behalf. Must you spew every damn nonsense here. Your type na ' kiss and tell' Teejay.
DeleteSee how you are proud glorifying fornication.
The pastor was referring to married couples. As a single when you fall try and cover up nah till you get there
Your shame dey shame me.
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At your age, you’re proud of your fornication escapades
Mama d mama ๐คฃ Where's the lie? As you're entering Jerusalem, be enjoying the ride mbok ๐๐
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Hello iya Boys
Correct, Sex is to be enjoyed.
ReplyDeleteSex is a pleasurable experience, and it's only natural to express enthusiasm and enjoyment. I don't see why anyone would suppress their pleasure or pretend to enjoy it when they're not. Openly expressing one's pleasure can actually enhance the experience for both partners.
ReplyDeleteThe traditional African mindset around sex was likely shaped by the close living quarters of the past, where loud noises could be a disturbance. However, times have changed, and with greater privacy and shifting cultural norms, people can now feel more comfortable expressing their pleasure. There is nothing wrong in letting your partner know they're doing a great job, a considerate partner will likely appreciate the acknowledgement and return the compliment, fostering a positive and supportive dynamic in your relationship. She made a valid point.
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ReplyDeleteOK Mummy, we yaff hear
"Thank Youuu my Lord and King for doing it" .. LOL
OK ma'am ๐๐๐
ReplyDeleteIt's meant to be enjoyed, so? Carry on!
ReplyDeleteI get her point but I think women and men should open up to their spouse when they don't enjoy the se*. Tell them so that they will improve. I personally would love to be told. I wouldn't like someone pretending to be enjoy it with me when in the real sense I am boring. I don't want to be a boring wife biko. If your satisfaction is a priority to your spouse they will look for how to improve their skill abi na game self for you to always feel good after the do. Normally, I like being plain. I will open up to you if I don't enjoy it,no need faking anything. Abi?
ReplyDeleteYou are female? Are you a tomboy? Cos...
DeleteYou dnt need to tell the women to moan or fake it( 70% of these women moaning sef na FAKE)
ReplyDeleteallegedly oooooooooo
But if you hit the right spot ..... you dnt need to tell before she moan normally
2.. After good knack ,make semo make super deek taste too correct
A girl was telling me vividly that she doesn't moan for broke men during xx I was shocked
Delete13:14, let's assume she fakes the moaning she does for the rich men. She fakes it so they will feel good and give her more money.
DeleteI don't miss her preaching at all.
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ReplyDeleteHahaha ok maama.
ReplyDeleteI thought I've heard it all when my friend told me that her husband always thank her after gbenshing ๐
Anyways, it is absolute right to appreciate or commend a job well done. So as madam is appreciating oga, oga should also do same
Lol, I had an ex that cried after every cum. I mean real cry like a baby. Though it doesn't last more than 2 minutes but a 38 year old man crying o
DeleteWhat if the job no good, like the one i got yesterday.
ReplyDeleteKai this my babe o๐คฆ๐คฆ
DeleteIf the job no good, you tell him too.
Wait till you are married then? Besides I doubt she was addressing those who are single. She isn't preaching fornication, you know.
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DeleteAbionah na ashana.
DeleteGod.
What percentage of marital life is spent having sex? Do your research and you will find out that sex is over-discussed.Marital sex is like condiments/seasonings in marriage. A little here and there is enough!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteGood advice ๐ ๐
ReplyDeleteI always commend my husband everytime we finish and I like the look on his face when he says thank you love after each sex. That makes it more romantic.
ReplyDeleteShe still dey have s*x? Na ? I ask o.
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DeleteIf you look her well well you go see say her eyes no good ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
Okay ma ๐
ReplyDeleteAnon 13.14 comment cracked me real hard
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