"Wisdom will not finish me." That part took me out, but just when I was about to recover, I got to the "wisdom is profitable to direct" part. Wow! Just wow!
The cases she made for her arguments could also be brought forth to encourage polyandry as well; after all, the whole purpose is so that the loads get shared. So when a man isn't feeling up to his conjugal responsibility, another man can step in on his behalf, right? And when the household bills feel stifling and the man cannot keep up to assist and to relieve him of financial burden, another man should be introduced into the mix, right?
Marriage in its truest form is not for selfish people, but what can be done when even the selfish ones want a slice of the pie?
It's not that hard, dear lady.
When your wife or husband is not feeling up to their conjugal responsibility, that is a call to patience and empathy.
Overwhelmed by domestic duties? Then you should learn how to improvise. Seek innovative solutions to support each other and alleviate the stressor.
When your spouse is indisposed, then learn the act of compromise.
Marriage is beautiful and meant to be enjoyed, yet it also serves as a pathway for self-development. Those occasional bumps and curves are designed to refine you into not just a better partner but also a better individual. They are there to help you grow, become more sacrificial, and less self-serving.
It helps you become Christ-like each day by dying to self; after all, marriage is a divine institution.
Polygamy is good in a loving environment and by selfless people. Polygamy is not the problem, we are just in a world where most of us are selfish and toxic( although we don't tend to admit it).
So your husband needs to take another wife for you to be able to focus on your goals, for you to have time to do important things in your own personal life, madam your mentality is so ruined. Tuehh tueeh .
Why are you on the internet? Why did you use a smartphone, tablet or laptop to browse this website and leave this asinine comment? I hope you haven't used cash/money today! I hope you go into the forest to forage for herbs, rather than visit a hospital when you get sick!
Since you're so hellbent on maintaining your traditional ways, why not denounce all the comforts the "white man" has provided?
God will not let me open my eyes and marry a married man, and when I marry, may my husband not marry another wife when I'm still in his house. I have witnessed what polygamy can do. If it is still peaceful in the early stage, then give it time. Problems will still still come. Then, not all women fight side chicks in their monogamous marriage, my own mum did not fight any side chick, my dad was a godly man.
Most of you here cussing and dismissing her post are the same people on other post abusing the sanctity of marriages, complaining about how they're just enduring in marriage and coming up with exit plans...all because you're dissatisfied. There's a reason polygamy has thrived all these years, it has a lot of ADVANTAGES. That the current generation is on a condemnation fad doesn't change that fact. The are lots of peaceful polygamous homes that people choose to ignore. Annoyingly, a lot of practises today are borderline polygamous. Whom are we deceiving?? Address a post on it's merits and demerits not on emotions. I am not necessarily a fan of polygamy but I won't condemn a cultural practise just based on my emotions.
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May you not be used to something that takes away your peace of mind
ReplyDeleteAmen 🙏
DeleteSee her saying 'wisdom will not kill her' 😄.... opposite of wisdom up there.
Adunni
This one's mentality is wrapped. Small time she go comot cloth enter road.
ReplyDeleteWould love to see reactions to her post.. Mtcheew
ReplyDeleteThere are no benefits to the women or children.
ReplyDeleteStella, tell them let them hear.
ReplyDeleteI can never encourage anyone I know to marry into a polygamous family.
"Wisdom will not finish me."
ReplyDeleteThat part took me out, but just when I was about to recover, I got to the "wisdom is profitable to direct" part. Wow! Just wow!
The cases she made for her arguments could also be brought forth to encourage polyandry as well; after all, the whole purpose is so that the loads get shared. So when a man isn't feeling up to his conjugal responsibility, another man can step in on his behalf, right? And when the household bills feel stifling and the man cannot keep up to assist and to relieve him of financial burden, another man should be introduced into the mix, right?
Marriage in its truest form is not for selfish people, but what can be done when even the selfish ones want a slice of the pie?
It's not that hard, dear lady.
When your wife or husband is not feeling up to their conjugal responsibility, that is a call to patience and empathy.
Overwhelmed by domestic duties? Then you should learn how to improvise. Seek innovative solutions to support each other and alleviate the stressor.
When your spouse is indisposed, then learn the act of compromise.
Marriage is beautiful and meant to be enjoyed, yet it also serves as a pathway for self-development. Those occasional bumps and curves are designed to refine you into not just a better partner but also a better individual. They are there to help you grow, become more sacrificial, and less self-serving.
It helps you become Christ-like each day by dying to self; after all, marriage is a divine institution.
Odimma
ReplyDeletePolygamy is good in a loving environment and by selfless people.
ReplyDeletePolygamy is not the problem, we are just in a world where most of us are selfish and toxic( although we don't tend to admit it).
Yimuuuuu
ReplyDeleteSo your husband needs to take another wife for you to be able to focus on your goals, for you to have time to do important things in your own personal life, madam your mentality is so ruined. Tuehh tueeh .
ReplyDeleteWhat I have read this week eh. 🤦♀️
ReplyDeleteE tire me too o 😵💫🤣
DeleteAdunni
God forbid polygamy true true, is those things up there benefits? Chukwu aju 😏
ReplyDelete*are those things
DeleteSelfish men harems and the disaster it brings
ReplyDeleteI like her mind set. It was our traditional practice before the "white man" came with his religion and way of life to corrupt our traditional ways.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you in anonymous mode. Lol
DeleteWhy are you on the internet? Why did you use a smartphone, tablet or laptop to browse this website and leave this asinine comment?
DeleteI hope you haven't used cash/money today! I hope you go into the forest to forage for herbs, rather than visit a hospital when you get sick!
Since you're so hellbent on maintaining your traditional ways, why not denounce all the comforts the "white man" has provided?
God Forbid
ReplyDeleteNonsense
Hello iya Boys
Good for you if you are enjoying it but please don't shove it down our throat Thank you
ReplyDeleteThese are associations of side chicks, second wives, home destroyers etc,this is exactly how they sound to justify the evils they do.
ReplyDeleteAll sorts of characters on Obasanjo's internet
ReplyDeleteOk madam. Werey
ReplyDeleteThe Most Complex B
Polygamy is a disaster waiting to happen.
ReplyDeleteThis is not wisdom madam but delusion.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid is the only thing I have to say
ReplyDeleteNothing wey Musa no Dey see for Gate
ReplyDeleteGod will not let me open my eyes and marry a married man, and when I marry, may my husband not marry another wife when I'm still in his house.
ReplyDeleteI have witnessed what polygamy can do. If it is still peaceful in the early stage, then give it time. Problems will still still come.
Then, not all women fight side chicks in their monogamous marriage, my own mum did not fight any side chick, my dad was a godly man.
What do I even know.
ReplyDeleteMost of you here cussing and dismissing her post are the same people on other post abusing the sanctity of marriages, complaining about how they're just enduring in marriage and coming up with exit plans...all because you're dissatisfied.
ReplyDeleteThere's a reason polygamy has thrived all these years, it has a lot of ADVANTAGES. That the current generation is on a condemnation fad doesn't change that fact. The are lots of peaceful polygamous homes that people choose to ignore.
Annoyingly, a lot of practises today are borderline polygamous. Whom are we deceiving??
Address a post on it's merits and demerits not on emotions.
I am not necessarily a fan of polygamy but I won't condemn a cultural practise just based on my emotions.
There's also the argument that the Bible didn't explicitly condemn polygamy
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