This is a marital case of what was ordered and what was received....LMAO!!!
One of my younger brothers loves fair skinned ladies. That has always been his preference from way back.
So all his girlfriends were fair girls.
However, he is very dark.
Fast forward to when he met his wife, she was fair and beautiful.
We were happy for him when they picked a date for introduction. He got his taste for a wife.
My parents had already met with the girl's family before we all went there for the ceremony proper.
I noticed that the girl's parents were dark skinned, her younger brother too was dark skinned, her elder sister and younger sister were a bit light but not as much as my brother's girl.
In my mind I was thinking the girls in her family took after one of their grandparents in complexion.
After marriage, she got pregnant and delivered their baby girl. I went there, saw my brother's wife and didn't recognize her, she was very dark. I concluded that it was pregnancy that caused it.
Then later, I saw their baby 's one year birthday pictures, she was dark. I concluded that she took after my brother.
Not long after, they started fighting. I started getting calls to settle fight every week(in my next life, I will not come as a first son of the family).
My brother later opened up to me that his wife bleached.
She was originally dark skinned. He said he was already deeply in love with her before he stumbled on her old pictures and saw that she was very dark.
He was in love with her, her fair skin was neat and she was well behaved, so he overlooked it.
She was working and could afford the expensive bleaching products which she used to maintain the skin colour.
After marriage and she got pregnant, it was a difficult pregnancy which made her to quit her job. She couldn't use the products too due to pregnancy and so she became very dark, coupled with pregnancy hormones.
After delivery, her husband 's business was not doing so well, so he focused on the important things in the house, expensive bleaching cream was out of it.
She started pestering her husband to buy her products for her so that she can regain her fair colour and glow as people were asking questions about her colour but she keeps telling them that pregnancy made her dark. Now after one year, she is still dark and it's affecting her self esteem.
Lol. Wahala for who marry fake oyibo .
The man told her he could not afford them. He told her to be patient so that he would raise money for her to start a business and be able to buy her skin products. That was why they were always fighting.
Well he later got a loan for her to start a business.
Presently, she is fair again, she even bleaches her kids skin too. They now have two kids
When I saw it and called my brother's attention to it, he said they were OK, nothing is wrong with their skin. Remember he also loves fair skin.
He complains that he doesn't have any savings, his wife does not contribute anything in the house, he carries all the load. His wife uses her business profits and even capital sometimes to buy bleaching products, jewelries, aso ebi, etc. He even has to help raise the business each time she runs it down, for peace to reign.
I told him to add to his business so that he would have savings. Na you marry slay queen. Do something to improve your finances.
So my brothers, be wise. If she is fair, check her creams, soaps, shower gels, oils, etc. check their prices online and see if your power fit carry am.
Naturally fair skin doesn't need very expensive products to maintain but you see those organic cream and glutathione customers, they will run you down.
Imagine funding bleaching products for your wife and children, you are finished!
I still don't understand the craze for fair skin at all costs.
ReplyDeleteThe damage these bleaching creams cause on the long run(kidney failure,skin cancer,etc) is not worth the trouble.
Love yourself the way you are,for those that have ears to hear.
See those our celebs. When they start seeing small change , the first thing they do is to bleach.
DeleteI saw Jumoke Odetola the other day and was shaking my head. She even has discoloration now
Hahahahahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteReminds me of my neighbor when I was in school. The guy loved fair girls so much. He can give his life for a fair girl. As a student, he dated people's wives back then as long as they were fair and fine.
He later had a strange illness and was taken to his village by his parents. Till we graduated, we didn't hear anything about him. Some said he knacked a wicked man's wife and they showed him pepper.
Fair skin caused his downfall
DeleteHahahahahaha, over finished.
ReplyDeleteI have the tendency of getting fair if I use organic creams but I am very lazy when it comes to creaming(using different products for each body parts) and I love my beautiful creamy chocolate skin, just Shea butter is doing wonders.
It is well with your brother ooo
I am shocked that he doesn’t care about the children being bleached. Will he be able to afford doctor fees if they take down with kidney problems later on. Those children cannot consent to having their skin colour changed, your brother didn’t even try to advocate for their health and welfare. He cannot make light skinned children because he dies not posses the genetics for it, but will subject those innocent children that he made to this physical and mental torture, where they will grow up with skin complex like him.
ReplyDeleteIt's the children I truly feel sorry for, so he will risk even the health of his kids for a facade? He's a terrible human through and through.
DeleteImagine funding bleaching products for your wife and children, you are finished!
ReplyDeleteAfter reading the above I fainted lol
The Most Complex B
The guy dey one chance o.
DeleteNo be small thing. The one I have put to clear hyperpigmentation still d worry me.
ReplyDeleteLol.
ReplyDeleteLadies with low self esteem.
Poster you just shared my brother's story.
When they had the first one, they were bleaching her. When the second one arrived, money no too dey again, only mama still dey bleach. The third and Fourth one enter.
Everyone don turn to blackie.
Kwakwakwakwakwakwa
DeleteLas las everybody don go back to their real skin colour
I am the only fair person in my family and I didn't bleach.....I am very lazy when it comes to using body cream, I will use one small container for over one year
ReplyDeleteI hope the woman stops bleaching her skin and children then mosturize her skin and their instead
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ReplyDeleteWahala for Who Marry Fake Oyibo ooooo..🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteLet Her Keep Bleaching Body Go Tell Her Soonest..
Money He Could Have Save Up To Buy A Better Land..
Organic Cream wey Cost like Wetin I no Understand
Hello iya Boys
Chika how did you know the price? You dey use am abi you don use am before?
DeleteNa wa oooooo
ReplyDeleteFunding bleaching products for his wife and children 😔
I laugh in Spanish 🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteHow long do they think they will be able to maintain this? I pity the innocent kids.
Wayward parent, I must say!. Spending money on frivolities.
Your brother is cr*zy, how can he allow the kids' body to be bleached by his wife who is addictef to bleaching, are they not thinking of the health implication at all? I feel like giving them e-slap from here. Please talk to your brother to exclude the innocent kids from his nonsense fetish.
ReplyDeleteSeriously!
DeleteHe has no backbone to even stand up for the children’s health and safety. If a man cannot tell me something I am doing is wrong and dangerous and to stop it, why the hell would I want to be married to such a person. Two knuckleheads jam married🤦🏾♀️
DeleteHusband and wife no get sense. They fit themselves
DeleteBleaching cream of any kind is bad. The repercussion is waiting at the front
ReplyDeleteHe even allowed the kids to be bleached by their mum, I will just say that he's obsessed with fair skin, I hope he doesn't marry a second fair wife. Na wa
ReplyDeleteThe line that touched me was "in my next life I won't come as a first born"
ReplyDeleteIt's not easy, na u be judge, jury, executioner, therapist, intercessor, daddy of the house, counselor etc.
But I feel it's wrong for the wife to bleach her kids
And one rat was insulting this poster because he asked his brother's wife to call him and that he interferes in his brother's family when it is clear that as the first son, they will always call you to report issues and expect you to settle them.
DeleteThose rats are clearly single teenagers without any life experience.
Let me laugh small 🤣🤣🤣, hmnnnn this is incredible wtf!!! Some people can't even afford 2 square meals this time around while you hustle to buy bleaching creams for your wife who also uses it on the kids. This creams might be disastrous to your family eventually. I know its your choice to have a fair wife but why using the creams on your kids.
ReplyDeletePlease she should stop using bleaching cream on the children.
ReplyDeleteOmo, how long will this habit continue..the marriage will get tiring at some point
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