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There's this guy I met online and he wrote on his bio that he's single and just looking for someone he can have a great conversation with, we clicked and our conversations are going well, until he sent one video to me and I saw him wearing wedding ring....
ADVICE NEEDED
There's this guy I met online and he wrote on his bio that he's single and just looking for someone he can have a great conversation with, we clicked and our conversations are going well, until he sent one video to me and I saw him wearing wedding ring....
I asked him about family, and he told me he never told me he was married, then I told him about his wedding ring, and he said he has been divorced for five years which I don't believe, because I've met a lot of married guy lying to be single, which God always expose them before anything get serious, and I'm not interested in probing or do any investigation about it.
My problem now is that I don't want to engage another woman's husband in a lengthy conversation because I believe someone's partner should be his or her best friend, I want to cut all communications with him or at least reduce it, but he's going through a phase according to him, won't I look like a wicked person if I do so.´??????
You dey OK ? Cutoff contact immediately from this scam!
Abeg end everything jare.
ReplyDeleteThey are always going through a phase. Divorce since 5yrs and still wearing his wedding band, poster can’t you see this guy is a terrible liar. Cut off that communication if not you won’t know when you fall into a ditch
ReplyDeleteSome divorce women wear their bands while still eating out, and they do so for life never remarrying. Wearing the band is no longer an issue. Failure to declare true status is the issue.
DeleteTrue at anon 16:50, I have a cousin that her marriage ended within a year, she's still wearing her wedding ring especially if she's going to her parent's house, she said she doesn't want their neighbours to know that she's divorced.
DeleteJust cut off communications with him, most of them are liars.
Better block him ASAP..they are always going through a phase..that format don old sef..later he's going to start manipulating you emotionally..let him go and see a therapist to help him with the phase..this man is most likely a married man pretending to be single! Cut him off please.
Delete16:50 no man ever wears wedding ring when the marriage is over. Women who do such are doing just to earn the married woman respect so that other married women won't start looking down on them. I still repeat, NO MAN WHO HAS FALLEN OUT OF LOVE STILL WEARS A WEDDING RING except he's a pastor doing it for the sake of his church.
Delete18:05 why are you acting like a toddler?
DeleteYou don't know the rules for man and women are different in Nigeria?
Have you seen a Nigerian man shamed for being divorced? Have you?
Basic common sense should tell you that those who still wear wedding rings are trying to avoid gossip, profiling and ridicule.
Just basic common sense.
Dear Poster, 😂😂😂 You are so funny....Someone lied to you in broad daylight and ''you don't want to be wicked'' when he concocted a so-called divorce phase for you while wearing his wedding ring....
ReplyDeleteYou have fallen for him, my dear; you don't need to go under the cover of ''I don't want to be a wicked person'' by cutting him off...It was supposed to be a conversational relationship and you have developed feelings for him..Kaapish!
If someone lies to you, you don't need to give chances to such people because they do not respect you at all....Move on and don't say he has love-scammed you because he has shown you who he is...
All the best
Truly women get fish brain. Back to back annoying chronicles
ReplyDeleteHehehehehe
DeleteHahahahaha.
With time and reading of chronicles and some comments here, man come understand why some of them dey always squabble with Broda "Etnad" comments.
Abort mission.
ReplyDeletePray for him from a distance if he's going through a phase. If you carry on, he will f### you and clean mouth. Be wise.
Hmmmm!
ReplyDeleteHe isn't divorced, please use your brain oo.
He was supposed to introduce himself as divorced and single.
All the best!
That man is looking for knacks and you’re emotionally investing in him? Na wah, please get a grip of yourself and block the hell out of him, please
ReplyDelete"I want to cut all communications with him".
ReplyDeleteAnty, what are you waiting for? Cut all ties with him since you already know he's likely a married man.
Stop your communications with him. He should find a male friend to communicate with biko.
ReplyDeleteCut him off like the snake that he is!!!! Divorced for five years yet still wearing his wedding ring. Na so dem nice?
ReplyDeleteI don’t know why u are still asking questions like u are in primary school
He is lying, they are always ‘going through a phase’ when you meet them. When i caught mine chatting with one lady, in their chats he was telling her that he was ‘going through a phase’ and she was the only that would give him peace.
ReplyDeleteMy dear sister that is a generic lie they tell you single ladies so that u wud pity them and stick around, the ball is in ur court, me i’m not here to advice anybody not to follow any woman’s husband, even if it’s mine u see, and he gives you face, if u like follow him, but in the end we all lay on the bed we make.
He purposely sent you that video with his ring on and he will manipulate you into accepting him "the way he is". Let that relationship or friendship go. That's how my friend that got married, wanted us to still chat the way we were, when he was single. I told him he is a taboo now. Periodt
ReplyDeleteI think he forgot about the ring. That’s why he was shocked when he discovered she knew he was married
DeleteHe forgot about the ring,that was why he sent the video,it was an error on his part lol..that was how one was lying to my friend that he's single until she noticed an imprint of the wedding ring on his finger..she confronted him and he confessed his wife and kids were not the country..she for enter one chance..go with your intuition poster,that man is married!
DeleteHaunty, can you please Cut him off Now. Block him everywhere. Infact tell him to his face to concentrate on his wife n family. Unless, you sef dey find something...
ReplyDeleteShe don catch feelings.
DeleteI'll advice you cut off any communication what so ever. Which mumu face is he going through, liar!
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ReplyDeleteThe way married men lie these days eeeeh, you can never tell .
ReplyDeleteMadam, cut him off.
You won’t rest until he fuqs you. You better cut off the liar now
ReplyDelete"Won't I look like a wicked person if I do so ??????"
ReplyDeleteAnswer:
You would o!
Truth is bitter.
But it fits being told always.
The truth is that you and the man are well matched - round in round.
Go on.
Do not deprive us of another chronicle.
Is it not our brunch or lunch staple.
Why would we make you short change us by telling you a lie ?????
#Yinmu
A scammer has been spotted
ReplyDeleteThe Most Complex
wait o, how do you folks meet people on this social media sef? me i dey single and i am looking for someone to chit-chat with o.
ReplyDeleteHe lied to you. It's very obvious that he's a married man.
ReplyDeleteHow can he be Divorced for five years and still wears his wedding rings?
Run.
Cut him off, before you regret it.
ReplyDeleteWell, some men are actually going through a phase. I know one personally.
ReplyDeleteHe caught his wife cheating with her ex bf. He didn't want to publicly disgrace her. She's been begging and asking for a second chance. He is not interested in the marriage and they've been separated for 3 years now.
He still wears his wedding band though because of his position in church.
So don't be quick to judge. Confirm that he is actually married before you make your decision
The man you know is still married.
DeleteSeparation is not divorce.
Even in divorce, there are too phases - divorce nisi and, 3 months after, divorce final.
Within the 3 months, the divorce nisi can be cancelled by the court on both parties' agreement and application.
Let him do the needful before starting another phase with another woman.
By the way, I am a man. I do not support adultery (that's the name for it, which I use here).
He's divorced and still wearing his wedding band? Akuko Mike Ejeagha. Poster he's married. Cut ties before you start catching feelings with somebody's husband.
ReplyDeleteMmmmmm...
ReplyDeleteDeep down your gut, I believe you know the answers to the tricks your mind is playing at - something attractive seems to have arrested your senses. Stop breaking your own heart to look like a good person to someone who can’t even tell the truth. You owe no such loyalty to this man, who likely hid the truth and fed you a story laced with emotional manipulation. He didn’t forget the ring - he sent that video to test how much nonsense you’d swallow - entrapment.
Now he’s dangling “I’m going through a phase” like bait for your empathy, hoping you’ll stay soft while he stays shady. You’re not cruel for willing to cut him off - you’re just done playing emotional rehab for a grown man with secrets - a band on his finger - men don't naturally do that. And most likely with lies on his lips? That’s not a man in transition; that’s a man on a mission - to drag you into his emotional swamp.
Don't even think of mentioning love, this is a slow-burning trap. Save your tenderness for someone who shows up clean, not this fellowship of the ring. Walk, block, breathe again. No guilt. Do all with your head high and your soul intact. Let his “phase” pass without dragging you through his storm. Compassion doesn’t have to mean self-destruction. Let him heal with a therapist, not your energy or time. May his drama find a new stage, to cast. Amen!
He should have told about the marriage and divorce if he wasn't lying, poster just cut him off. he's still married
ReplyDeleteYou dey pity that criminal way want use you catch cruise, just dey play. You better cut off another woman husband before her prayers go finish your life.
ReplyDeleteGod has revealed everything to you. What are you waiting for? Please leave
ReplyDeleteHe is a bloody liar, like someone said above me, he forgot to pull off the wedding band, then come up with the "I,m going through a phase yidi yadis"
ReplyDeleteTell him straight to the point you are not interested .GOD will let the right person come your way.
You sound like a nice girl.
Which phase na NEPA staff. Abeg cut him off immediately..
ReplyDeleteDid he tell you he wanted a relationship?? His bio said great conversation and he's been having that. Do you know if that's his coping mechanism?
ReplyDeleteBiko, shift and free the dude.
Carrying your projected expectations to be forming chronicles for someone that hasn't said anything romantic to you.
Humans need social interactions. Set your boundaries and allow people breathe or be clear from onset and not start at all.