Hmmmm....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
GIFTED FLAW
I’m dating well not really dating him yet
He wants me to call him
I struggled with speech as a child,I had delayed speech,I spoke my first words at almost 6 years
GIFTED FLAW
I’m dating well not really dating him yet
He wants me to call him
I struggled with speech as a child,I had delayed speech,I spoke my first words at almost 6 years
As a grown woman I struggle with talking not that I don’t talk I do but If I have my way I will avoid it
You won’t believe I’ve only done voice note just twice in my entire life and in the history of whatsapp voice notes
I don’t like calls but I can text you and reply as soon as I see your message,I don’t leave messages hanging. My mind is sharp smart and articulate,I can remember what you said how you said what you wore when you said and much more......
I’m saying my mind is so developed,I can control outcomes,control what will happen or decide to ignore . My mum knows these ,I didn’t know what it was before now but if I tell her not to step out today she won’t step out even if governor call her. I see things and God helps me,I’ve been warned never to be angry with anyone if not they will die
I’m only saying I think God compensated for my speech by empowering my mind. It’s deep I cant say all here,but I remember what happened when I was a year and few months, I told my mom in details and she wept .it comes like a picture or plays as a film
My man doesn’t know all these,I will never tell him, however he is worried about my speech,talks and calls with him
My strength is in silence,I am stronger and more accurate when I’m quiet. I like him
What do I do?
He asked me to call him recently,he said he wants to hear my voice,my first reaction is panic ,then I struggle I haven’t called him.
Stella can you imagine?
Am I a human being at all simple thing? just call me I am struggling.
I don’t know what to do
Please bvs help me
Advise me If you have been in my situation or know it please tell me what to do
I wasn’t clinical diagnosed though, my parents didn’t have the resource to take me
I grew up and told my mom what business to do and she has so much money now,last time she dashed me 1 million because she wasn’t doing anything before then.....
My dad looks at me strange and a bit worried ,he is worried I don’t talk,in the past he will always flog me for not speaking. When I got angry after several times of beating me he almost died,they told him to leave me
If any battle comes to my family and I go home it stops. One pastor said I should be going home regularly that the covenants of life is in me and it protects my parents and my brothers. Some pastor I don’t know told me,not one not two.
I love this man,I don’t want him angry or offended
I have a flaw,talking is not my strength. I like silence and quietness. I don’t want to lose him, I don’t want to lose myself .
Pls forgive typos a
I’m so worried
Thank you all
You won’t believe I’ve only done voice note just twice in my entire life and in the history of whatsapp voice notes
I don’t like calls but I can text you and reply as soon as I see your message,I don’t leave messages hanging. My mind is sharp smart and articulate,I can remember what you said how you said what you wore when you said and much more......
I’m saying my mind is so developed,I can control outcomes,control what will happen or decide to ignore . My mum knows these ,I didn’t know what it was before now but if I tell her not to step out today she won’t step out even if governor call her. I see things and God helps me,I’ve been warned never to be angry with anyone if not they will die
I’m only saying I think God compensated for my speech by empowering my mind. It’s deep I cant say all here,but I remember what happened when I was a year and few months, I told my mom in details and she wept .it comes like a picture or plays as a film
My man doesn’t know all these,I will never tell him, however he is worried about my speech,talks and calls with him
My strength is in silence,I am stronger and more accurate when I’m quiet. I like him
What do I do?
He asked me to call him recently,he said he wants to hear my voice,my first reaction is panic ,then I struggle I haven’t called him.
Stella can you imagine?
Am I a human being at all simple thing? just call me I am struggling.
I don’t know what to do
Please bvs help me
Advise me If you have been in my situation or know it please tell me what to do
I wasn’t clinical diagnosed though, my parents didn’t have the resource to take me
I grew up and told my mom what business to do and she has so much money now,last time she dashed me 1 million because she wasn’t doing anything before then.....
My dad looks at me strange and a bit worried ,he is worried I don’t talk,in the past he will always flog me for not speaking. When I got angry after several times of beating me he almost died,they told him to leave me
If any battle comes to my family and I go home it stops. One pastor said I should be going home regularly that the covenants of life is in me and it protects my parents and my brothers. Some pastor I don’t know told me,not one not two.
I love this man,I don’t want him angry or offended
I have a flaw,talking is not my strength. I like silence and quietness. I don’t want to lose him, I don’t want to lose myself .
Pls forgive typos a
I’m so worried
Thank you all
Hmmmmmm, you seem to have a gift......Its not OK to discuss most gifts like this...what i will advice you to do is summon up enough will power and call him..........Your power is in your voice and thats why you shield it........
Do not tell him about the gift oh, if it comes to that stage, just tell him that you dont like to talk on the phone cos it hurts your ears and gives you headachePlease interceed on behalf of the women trying to concieve on this Blog reading this your chronicle right now.............
I hope my advice comes in handy
Send him the link to this chronicle
ReplyDeleteNo!
DeleteI disagree with this.
She shouldn't reveal her secrets to him.
But I'm curious about some things.
Those people with special gifts gifted them by God, don't they fall short of the glory when they fornicate?
Like, the strength, the power is still intact and strong like ever before?
Yes, fornication is sin and it doesn't excuse whether you do it with just one person or more.
This question has been lingering in my mind like forever.
@bitchandslut, each gift has its own grace. There are some gifts that when you fornicate, it won't affect you but some immediately you think of fornication, you start receiving punishment.
DeletePoster, don't tell him about your gift yet, but try as much as you can to talk to him and tell him you hardly talk but prefer chatting.
Bitch, when they fornicate they begin to lose some of their powers. Ppl that have special gifts like hers when you talk to them u realise that there are so many things they avoid in life that ordinary ppl do, and once they indulge at least for that short period they lose the powers till they stop and repent and align themselves again. Ofcourse they are human sometimes they would fall short but they don’t do that for long, not like the people that would come out openly and be telling you that ah! They cannot stay without sex wt their bf oo,, like consistently dwelling in sin.
DeleteBitch and Slut, the gift is default. It can't be taken away but there are two things that play here. You know, the holy spirit cannot dwell in a filthy environment (sinful body) right. It's in the bible. So , when we soil our body, the holy spirit leaves the body and demonic spirit comes in to use the gift for Satan's purpose. The person will still be speaking in tongues and prophecying but those prophecy are not from the holy spirit. They are from the evil spirit. I have forgotten the next thing I wanted to explain. I am busy please.
DeleteDear poster, despite your gifts you don't have a problem. Do you know why I said this? God will never give you a gift that will bring sorrow to you. Yes, a gift may make you sacrifice something like your time or privacy but not sorrow. When your life partner comes, your gift of silence will not scare him away except God doesn't want you to marry!
DeleteI talk. I am not afraid of talking infront of people but I prefer to be behind the scene. I prefer texting over calls. I prefer reading over listening to things. I hate voice notes. Write it down. I hate listening to news,but I read newspapers and books in a flash. I know my preferences but I don't allow it to interfere in other options when absolutely necessary.
Do not allow this person to make you uncomfortable. Take your time. Tell him, you prefer to chat. But at your own prompt, call him briefly. If he understands and respect your preferences, with time tell him about your delayed speech. Leave about your gifts. Then see his reactions afterwards.
Don't allow what you can't do interfere in what you can do! God can NEVER allow a cross that you cannot carry !
@Miss Aboki This is not a good idea please. The guy could use it to manipulate her.
Delete@Stella wow. So thoughtful of you for asking her to intercept for the women trying to conceive.
That's so sweet.
@Bitch, the gifts and callings of God are without repentance, so says the bible, thats why Saul was still able to prophesy even when had ordered the killing of David...a gift is never a yardstick for righteousness...even demons have gifts, the full measure of righteousness is the fruit of the spirit.
DeletePoster don't reveal it to Him.
DeleteHearken to Stella's please even those that needs good business to do
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Dear Poster, You are surely gifted...My guess is you have Asperger's syndrome (l will advise you go for the diagnoses)...
ReplyDeleteThe truth you will have to compromise when it comes to communicating with someone you want to know. Hence you also need to see a therapist...
I agree with Stella to not share your gift and uniqueness to him yet until you see that he has respectfully earned it and he is mature enough to handle it... You have a gift of sèance and clairvoyance to be nurtured carefully...
I wish you all the best 👍
Aren’t you autistic poster?.
DeleteShe's most likely Autistic. Speech is compromised but her powers of observation and memory is enhanced. I know one like that atl work.. Doesn't forget a thing: complete with dates and all.
DeleteConcerning the issue@poster...get someone to probably support/stand by you and Make The Call. You need to step out of the boundary you've created for yourself and in a way, he's actually trying to help you with those requests.
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Like Nike, Just Do It
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ReplyDeleteExplain to him by messages without these details here that you prefer communicating by written words, and that you both progress, the calls will be more frequent. Then make efforts to call at your on will and time. The stress from talking is lesser if you initiate the calls at your convenience. You can also control calls you make by prefacing time limits.
ReplyDeleteAwwww this is so beautiful to read. I pray God gives you wisdom on how to handle relationship with the opposite gender. I would suggest that you calm down, take deep breaths and place the call. Start with lesser times, then move on to longer call times but be careful, do not feel too free and relaxed to give away infos.
ReplyDeleteGod’s Grace 🙏
You are gifted Poster. Please get angry at all the bad leaders in this country. They all need to die for Nigeria to be free and be great.
ReplyDeleteYes Poster please listen to this advice..
DeleteIt’s there a way we can reach you too..A lot of us are confused in life and have tried some many things but it’s seems unsuccessful…Please you can use your divine gift to help some of us in this blog…May God make a way for you
Yes there are many like that if you are a Christian pray more so that God that helped Moses with Aaron will send an aron to you who will help you in this ministry .God speed in Jesus name
ReplyDeleteDo you have a speech impediment? Like, do you stammer. I stammer, so I avoid speaking situations but I am usually chatty with people I am familiar with. Don't you get chatty with people you are close to? What gets you really scared of speaking? Are you not able to enunciate words properly?
ReplyDeleteYou have to open up to your man. I think your man's love language is words of affirmation. He is not going to get this from you, so I think it's best you open up to him.
What about in person
ReplyDeleteDo you have same problem talking in person
Maybe ask him to plan to meet
Pleas pray for me to find a great husband 😁
Wow! This world is deep.
ReplyDeleteSending you hugs all the way from Abuja…it’s going to be alright
ReplyDeletePlease pray for me for conception..
ReplyDeleteYour gift is rear and beautiful,I pray it's helpful for you in life..
Explain to him that u are not a talking type,he may understand..all the best
May The Lord Bless Bless Your Womb With Multiple Babies In Jesus Mighty Name I Pray AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
DeleteHello iya Boys
Amen amen
DeleteAmen and amen to that prayers
DeleteMe is on the line for twins
Amen for you Sharon.
DeleteMay God hear your prayers, Mrs Sharon..
DeleteWell, poster.
ReplyDeleteYou will have to compromise if you truly want to be in a relationship and or get married some day.
You cannot go speechless with your partner, friends, co-workers et al.
And you will still have your children to deal with in the future.
You just have to give it a try.
Maybe you should try reading aloud when you are alone.
Is Your Man Please Explain To Him..
ReplyDeleteAm Sure He Will Understand if He Loves You..
Please Abeg if You Read This Blog Always..
Abeg Pray for Me For All Those BV Anons To Stop attacking Me wronging ooo, Am Innocent Of All This Accusing it's really Hot😭😭
May God Almighty Be With You.. Darling 🫂
Hello iya Boys
You just have to seek God's intervention for life partner, some gift dies in the hand of a wrong partner. When your own comes he/she will accept whatever flaws easily
ReplyDeletePractice practice
ReplyDeletePut your phone on record and record yourself in conversations with him
Hello how are you etc
Then call already
You’re making the guy suspect worse by putting off the call
How did you meet him anyway I
Don't share the story about your gift to him until the relationship is well defined. For the speech, you have to tell him that you feel shy to call him because of your voice. He will encourage you after the revelation, telling you that that's not a problem to him if he truly loves you.
ReplyDeleteYou may be on the autism spectrum. Why not visit a clinical psychologist for diagnosis?
ReplyDeleteAs for your boyfriend, since you’re in the early stages, let him know that you’re not really the talking type. Then compensate in other ways e.g texting. But still once in a while you have to call. Just make a schedule, say maybe to call every two or three days. I believe he will understand if he’s meant for you.
Exactly what I thought
DeleteOh wow! You have a unique gift
ReplyDeletePls pray for us for God to answer our secret prayers 🙏
Sending you hugs 🤗🤗
He should know you are on the autism spectrum.
ReplyDeleteNo be when una marry na,fight go start.
He obviously likes chatting, are you sure he is for you?
You have a gift.Seek guidance spiritual ly.Look for a school that can aid you in your speech,Talk to your man about your speech problem.lf he loves you,he will help you find solutions.
ReplyDeleteWow! What a gift.
ReplyDeletePoster you need to over come your fear which is speaking on phone, you have to relax your mind and do that talking on phone. Why are you afraid to speak to your man on phone, could it be that you cannot pronounce words properly or you cannot speak at all?
ReplyDeleteCommunication in everything is the solution to any fear,you should chat him up abd Communication your challenge than keeping him in the dark. We all have our short coming but love and understanding covers it up, if your man truly loves you he will stand by you and help you over come your fears.
Stop hiding your challenge, if you cannot share your challenge with your man who then can you be free to share it with. Keep your gift for now till you are sure he truly loves and adores you. Still seek for medical solutions since you can afford it now, use your phone to have voice note and listen to your voice. Remember me in your prayers that God should grant me all my hearts desires 🙏
I think you’re on the Autism spectrum or have ADHD because your lateness in speaking as a Child is indicative of this. Also because of this your other senses are well developed. Go and see a Speech Therapist to help with your fear of speaking. I wish you luck.
ReplyDeleteI typed this up there. Nigerians just assume autistic people have the severe type
DeleteI'm like this too. If I'm angry with you may God help you . Now I sleep in white only .
ReplyDeleteWould it please you to enlighten
Deleteon why you sleep in white ?
If you like him, I think you should come out of your comfort zone a little just to accommodate him. Communication is very essential in a relationship. How do you know you really like him when you don't communicate often. Think about it
ReplyDeleteGod bless you. U are special and unique. Tell God to take charge of this situation shikena. Remember God's does need help.
ReplyDeleteE-hugs to you, my darling, you are not broken - you’re wired differently, deeply, divinely. But so you know, love isn’t telepathic; it still needs a voice, even if it trembles. You’ve built a fortress in silence, but relationships thrive on bridges, not barricades. Don’t romanticise your fear - transform it. Start small: a 30-second call, no expectations, just your breath and a hello. If he’s worthy, he’ll wait while you unfold. If not, let him go. You are powerful, but power unused becomes a cage.
ReplyDeleteAnd don’t hide your light; gifts, when buried too deep, rot into burdens - that's a door that needs to be shut. You’re not less human because you struggle to speak - you’re more. Brave it gently, but bravely: Tell him the truth - simply, not mystically or spiritually - that you struggle with calls. The call isn’t just for him - it’s for your own liberation too. Please don't become a lighthouse with no light.
Beautiful...love,loved is up there
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