Hmmm my people, I think this man wants to use me as his beard.
People of God, I need your advice please.
People of God, I need your advice please.
I met a man 4 months ago in a club, we exchanged numbers and started chatting.
He visited me once late at night during this period - Mr man did not even kiss me.
Second date, I thought maybe he was shy so as I said goodbye I pecked his lip - OMO the look he gave me shock me ooo.
Anyways days later - he sent me message telling me that he is expensive and will be my toyboy if I look after him. I said never, a woman like me with men everywhere, God forbid.
He kept arranging dates but will always cancel last minute and so I ended things and deleted his number.
Mr man came back a week later with stories, he wanted to come visit me, he came around 11pm, he stayed till 2am, all we did was gist - nothing else....
I shock, I expected him to at least try and I will reject as per the woman ways.
The last time I saw him, same thing he came around that night and left a few hours later - nothing.
All of a sudden every week I get messages asking me to buy this, pay for that, borrow me this etc.
I called Mr man and told him under no circumstances will I ever spend my money on a man. He accused me of kissing him 3 months ago without his consent.
I asked him are you g#y, he became so angry and disconnected the line.
I tried reaching out a few days later, he sent this text message "you forgot I am g#y" and "You're right about that I am g#y so how about that".
Haaa, please what does this mean @ Stella.
The only time I have ever seen him cry was when his male business partner travelled abroad and stopped picking his calls for 2 days - guy was so depressed to the extent I started having d....
oubt that business partner is really agaygay partner.
BVs please, is he really an agaygay.?
BVs please, is he really an agaygay.?
He is Obviously an agaygay and you have got hot ,watery pants!!!#
Stop inviting men over to your house at such an ungodly hour......I like how he played you hard to get...LOL
Please stop running after random men like this so you dont upin a reallybad situation
The fact you even allow him visit you at such odd hours beats me. And then it seems you do not know what you want. He arranges dates, and then cancels. Comes back in a week with stories, and you still give him audience. The signs are there. Abeg I can't advise you.
ReplyDeleteMen dey play hard to get? This chronicle tore my yansh with laughter🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDelete😆 🤣 😂 😹
DeleteNo be small hard to get 😂😂.
DeleteBut poster, the signs are there na, you don't need a soothsayer to tell you so.
Nothing to be told her.
DeleteThe man made it clear - he wants to be paid for his services.
The Poster, on the other hand, wants to be served and be paid for it.
Funny how some women react when some men refuse to serve and pay them.
In the days of my youth, women called such men eunuchs
Now, they are called g...ys.
Same old song. Whenever a typical woman does not get what she wants from a man, especially when she is honey and hungry, she pulls the roof down on him.
But this thing she wants to give out so much, and the man is provocatively refusing to take. Is it not what most women say is a woman's major contribution in a romantic relationship or even in marriage?
So men are being sold a lie about it?
#Yinmu
Inviting a guy to your house at that time, you no fear slaughtering?
DeletePls stop allowing men to visit you before you invite a spirit one day.
The days are evil o. Wise up
You are one confused person. Does that man sound stable to you? What would you want from a person who can only visit you at 11pm. He may be gay, but he may also be afraid of hiv or unwanted pregnancy. He sounds like a gigolo looking for a sugar mommy and he is reserving his services for such a person. You want him for free but he is saying beech pay for this dyck
ReplyDeleteNo mind the werey the chronicles vex me sef. Her type na any attention is better than nothing even from Satan himself 🤮🤮🤮
DeleteAnonymous 15:09
DeleteSeriously!
Like WTH!
This poster is just something else!
As blind as a bat
It is so obvious he is a gigolo
He told you so himself
From the horse’s own mouth!
What other explanation do you need?!
He expressly told you he is expensive and will be your toyboy if you look after him!
Does his statement need any further explanation?!
What are you still wondering about?!
Please why are you still confused?!
Even if he is agaygay, he is also a gigolo for women
He is a bisexual male prostitute - he is straight for pay
Period point blank!!!
Dear Poster,
ReplyDeleteYou sef you clearly don't have boundaries...How will you kiss a man you barely know & without his consent, quick to open your doors anytime he knocks on your door, even in ungodly hours...This guy is not interested in you, him sef dey look for free money like you....
Whether he is agaygay or not is not the main issue or even your business....Accept that your ticket cut and you didn't fall for you as you expected...Cunny man die, cunny man bury am....
Throw away the bad market and stop being desperate, abi are you ahewo...
All the best...
I don't even understand what she's doing with the man..until the man dash you disease you won't rest..something is obviously not right with him and you're still writing chronicle on top..I guess you are really desperate for a man.
DeleteYou knew he was like this from the onset and you kept inviting him to ur apartment. Why?
ReplyDeletePoster I think you don’t know what you want or maybe you have scarcity of men
ReplyDeleteTwo of you are crazy
ReplyDeleteAvoid me this afternoon
LOL!!!
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You dont need anybody to tell you he is agay. Our instinct most times are right. Just block him permanently. Don't you think you inviting men that you just met makes it look like you are desperate and cheap? Let them do the chasing around.
ReplyDeleteHe's obviously a g*y, keep it moving sis.
ReplyDeleteI don't even understand this chronicles.
ReplyDeleteWhat ever it is, may God fix it.
"Anyways days later - he sent me message telling me that he is expensive and will be my toyboy if I look after him"
ReplyDeletethis guy has directly and indirectly insulted you, still you are holding on to him. Don't you have value for yourself? Why reduce yourself so low?
Go read d day before yesterday chronicle and see how such men treat their women.
Please answer the 👇
I can't believe you kept inviting a stranger to your house and even at odd hours . Don't you love your life? Do you even know him? You put your life at risk over this kind of person?
Secondly, what are you both doing sef? It's obvious there's no relationship here so what are you hanging on to?
Thirdly, how old are you? Do you think you have become too old or unwanted that any male specie that looks your way has to be made the one?
Fourthly, so if you don't want a sugar boy, are you ok with funding yourself in a relationship and not be pampered and taken care of by your man?
Fifthly, why do you want us to confirm this? Why is that important to you, base on the man you described up there. Are you willing to make him be the one (if he is confirmed not agaygay) is this the best you could settle for?
Lastly, what are your expectations in a man and relationship? What do you want?
If you have one, when you see someone that doesn't look like it, you will quickly reject and move forward. If not, anyone goes.
Then place a value on yourself. Regardless of your age and look, there's someone special for everyone. Wait for that special King that will make you his queen and treat you right. Stop counting years and checking the clock
Poster you are very annoying and I had to force myself to read .. how old are you? What is going on? You even invited him over again. What is the purpose of this your post… hmmm I just wasted my time..
ReplyDelete😂🤣 na real waste of time.
DeleteA Gen Z. chronicles. Hmmm.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, leave that man's issue aside and let's talk about you. You are willing to kiss a man you barely know. That's a concern. Have you ever heard of herpes or mouth gonorrhea? You need to work on your values. Why are you inviting someone over at ungodly hours? Please put some prize on yourself until people earn it.
Trying to know if he will touch you or kizz you on a first and second date doesn't speak well of you, is that all you want in a relationship?
ReplyDeleteShe wants the deek but pissed she has to pay to get it, so overthinking that he is gay because he won’t give it to her
Deletefor free. Ain’t no woman letting a strange man she barely knows visit her home while she is all alone at 11pm for anything other than a damn booty call. Pretty boys ain’t free and her pocket is slim. Gettit😂
He is a gigolo and swings both ways
ReplyDeleteThis Kind Hard To get Man dikwa Risky Nne
ReplyDeleteHe Sha Done Kuku tell You who him be..
Abeg Look Away ooooo...
Hello iya Boys
Ma'am don't waste my time. HE IS NOT GAY HE IS JUST INTERESTED IN BEING YOUR TOYBOY, HE DOESN'TEVEN LIKE YOU. YOU WANT HIS 🍆, PAY FOR IT, THIS IS WHAT HE WANTS, FOR YOU TO PAY HIM FOR HIS SERVICES. HE HAS SEEN THAT YOU ARE DESPERATE AND WANT TO MILK YOUR POCKETS DRY. Even a teenager has more sense than you. Mtcheew.
ReplyDeleteYou don't have respect for yourself.
ReplyDeleteAt her age, with all these s*xual diseases na s*x be her priority.
DeleteNne repent so that Easter redemption no go pass you.
Babe, I'm guessing the said man fits into your spec; that's why you lost your steam to his sweats. But you don’t need a panel of strangers like us to confirm what your intuition has been screaming since day one - you were just an entertainment, a distraction more of, not an intention. From what you narrated up there, he wasn’t confused. He was calculating. And you? You were lonely, curious, maybe desperate in a little way, or needed to fill a vacuum urgently, or you thought you got a catch - but not stupid.
ReplyDeleteYou knew. Yet you let a man, who offered nothing but a series of red flags wrapped in midnight visits, re-enter your sacred space like a stray you hoped would become a pet. Now he’s weaponising your kiss to shame you while begging you for money. Darling, he played you. Not because you’re unworthy, but because you didn’t believe you deserved better. Stand up. Lock the door. And never bargain your worth again. Not even for clarity.
Poster you need Jesus in your life at this moment.
ReplyDeletePoster you loose sha. How old are you sef?
ReplyDeleteYou are really on heat for this guy, cause how else do you want to understand he might not be into women ehh? 😏
ReplyDeleteHaunty, you allowed a man you just met to visit you by 11pm and stayed till 2.00am. This tells me the sort of Haunty you are and obviously like things attract their mates. So, what are your complaints. Whether he bi agege or not; he also realises what you are. Kapishhhhhh...
ReplyDeleteEverybody get horny🤷🏽♀️
DeleteOkay, so you people have defined it now that any man that didn't touch you on a firt meeting at home is gay?
ReplyDeleteThe one you met might be gay but that doesn't mean that any man that refuses to touch you is gay please.
Simply let him go, he's not ready to be with you.The one who will compliment you and make you special,is out there, hoping to find you some day.
ReplyDeleteUse your positive utterances to control the outcome of activities around you.
He's gay coz he doesn't want to knack you for free? He needs money, you want to be serviced, madam pay or wait for a level headed man. How old are you sef? Mtchewww
ReplyDeleteMy dear you're too desperate. And not trying to judge but you also come across as one with loose morals. Look at the expectations you have of a man shortly after meeting, not to talk of letting someone you barely know into your home very late into the night. Ain't you afraid for your life? Your health? Away from this guy's issue you need a good reassessment of your life and values please.
ReplyDeleteThis poster is mad.
ReplyDeleteThe guy dey find who go dey sponsor am. He's clearly agaygay because he thinks he's the woman in the relationship. Run o my sister
ReplyDeleteHe's a gigolo & want to be paid for his services. Secondly he could blackmail you after action. You're too desperate for my liking. Please get some little dignity.
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Hanty why should you even allow a man to visit your house for the first place talk more of coming those late hours eeh
ReplyDeleteAbeg no try that nonsense again 🙄🙄
Have self respect and dignity
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