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Why would a friend not want you to have other friends? Always trying to put down the other friends you are trying to make and looking for faults in them. Meanwhile, this friend has lots of friends.

When you are with this friend alone, she interacts with you, but when other friends are around, she acts like you are invisible and leaves you sitting alone. But immediately she notices someone has come over to have a conversation with you, she tries to insert herself in. When she sees you with others, she comes over and tries to interrupt or disrupt the conversation.

There was one day I almost shouted at her to f*** off. A lady was talking to me, and she was trying to take me away from the lady's presence and reminding me that a friend would drive by anytime soon to pick us up. Meanwhile, we were both already standing beside the spot close to the road waiting for the friend to show up.
You needed to see how she was acting while the lady who was talking with me was almost feeling embarrassed when she kept trying to move me away.

She even kept on asking me in the presence of the lady, "What is she telling you?" to the lady's hearing. At some point, the other lady kept staring at her like, "WTF?" On our way home, she was giving herself and not me an attitude, and I have ignored her ever since.

If I buy something, she would not rest until I take her to the exact store I got it from (even though she could get it anywhere else), claiming she wants something similar, but in the end, she would end up not buying it after asking for the price from the retailer.

She saw a new phone with me and a gold jewelry I wore and asked who got me those. I told her my man. A few days later at the café, she brought a new phone around and wore a neck chain and told me to check her out, that her boyfriend just got those for her, but shockingly her boyfriend's friend came around and asked her why she was with her boyfriend's phone and neck chain.

During her birthday recently, I was gisting with her and a friend of hers, and I noticed the lady was giving me the cold shoulder and suddenly walked off. She later told me her friend said I am weird. Like really? No one has ever defined me like that, not ever! Every single friend I have extended friendship to me because I am naturally reserved, and all my friends have been good to me to date. Even this lady was the one who relentlessly chased me for a friendship, and now her friend was saying that!

Well, I wasn't surprised because with this lady, I noticed most of her friends are like that around me. The first time we meet, they are always so sweet and kind, but the next or few meetings after that, they start to keep their distance, acting like we have unresolved issues between us.

Whenever something good happens for her, I am the first she calls and I am always hyping her up, telling her congratulations but when something good happens to me, she suddenly look sad and tired and doesn't say congratulations.

Stella, I have ended the friendship already because her character and that of her friends is alien to me, but she wouldn't leave me alone. Texting and calling, asking what she has done wrong. Should I give her a piece of my mind before I move on or keep her on ignore forever?

Please move on from this friend but it is important that you let her know what she did wrong with you so that she wont try it with anyone else...I hope you will not refriend her, this kind of friendship is not good at all....