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Gentlemen, over to you 👍
ReplyDeleteAdunni
Wait till you have understood the person, so they dont run away after your demands.
ReplyDeleteDon't ask!
ReplyDeleteIf he truly loves you, he will show it by giving you cash without asking.
We show love by action not by words.
Love is more than what you say, it's the things you do.
Love is all about action.
Seconded. A guy who wants his babe to look, smell and feel good will always be willing to do stuff for her without being asked.
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DeleteABIONAH, exactly 👍
DeleteI concur 💯👌
DeleteI agree
DeleteI agree 💯
DeleteWhy does she have to ask?
ReplyDeleteIs he Ur father?
If he can't do things for you without asking, effortlessly,are you even in a relationship?
This question can only be answered based on the synergy those two ppl share and the wavelength that they are both on. A spiritually and emotionally intimate union will have less judgment associated with it versus one where the individuals have no spiritual or emotional intimacy. People who are entwined and synced up with each other want to share everything and take care of each other at a higher level. As others have stated before, the man will not ask anything, he will simply automatically give you, not because he suspects that you have unmet needs but because he does not want you to need anything to begin with. The woman may or may not be using money, she will be doing her own things to ensure the balance is maintained. These relationships do not rely on questions being asked, they are both considerate people where they continually think up new ways of giving to each other. They have transcended teamwork and are operating on another level.
ReplyDeleteA lady should wait till thy kingdom come.
ReplyDeleteI'd be reading comments for answers
ReplyDeleteWhy ask though?
ReplyDeleteHustle and make your own money to meet your needs. If he loves you enough, he will show it through giving and other ways, it comes naturally.
Exactly, hustle & enjoy yourself too.
DeleteHere to learn.....
ReplyDeleteLet’s flip things a little, like the devil's advocate, just for perspective. Ladies, how long do you think a man should wait before asking for sex in a new relationship? It’s a bit of a curveball, that sounds confronting, doesn't it? But that question, awkward as it sounds, is where things get interesting, it is where clarity begins - because it cuts through the surface. See, when someone rushes asking for financial favours or intimacy, it often reveals more about what they’re trying to get than what they’re trying to build. And that’s the part we need to talk about - gender entitlements in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteNew or not, one favour begets another. And that’s why the early stages of any relationship are delicate. Emotions are forming, trust is still on trial, and there’s this silent dance between what feels right and what feels expected. And right in the middle of it? Money and sex - the two trickiest entitlements people tend to either avoid or misuse. Caring and kindness are not gender defined. But the true counsel is that: no one owes anyone financial assistance or sex. And yet, both can be given freely when there’s respect, clarity, and mutual understanding.
The problem is that, too often, people offer one hoping it will buy the other. And that’s where it gets messy. When something is given before trust is built - whether it’s your body or your wallet - it usually ends up being a trade, not a gift. And love, real love, doesn’t survive in transactions. Money isn’t a test. Sex isn’t a prize. And giving? It should never be something you do to earn a place in someone’s life. It’s like giving or spending on someone hoping they will marry you. But when we pause or take away entirely these two ides, we see each other clearly.
If you’re being intentional, you pay attention to timing. You read the room and its space. You feel the energy. Ask for money too early, and it can feel like manipulation. Ask for sex too soon, and it might come off as emotional bypassing. Both moments need grounding. Both deserve conversations - not assumptions. Because if you can’t talk openly about needs, boundaries, and timing, then what you’re building isn’t a connection - it’s a quiet game with unclear rules.
What really makes a relationship thrive is honesty - genuineness of purpose. Not games. Not guessing. Not pressure. When someone feels safe, when they feel genuinely valued, generosity flows naturally. That’s the sweet spot. And if you’re having to force things before their time, pause. Think of it like fruit - you can pick it early, sure, but it won’t be ripe, and it won’t taste right. Let things grow. Let trust lead.
And if someone flinches at that honesty, or counts pennies while asking for love? That’s your sign. That’s not love. That’s sugar-coated silence, and it won’t last. You deserve better. We all do.
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Most times we ladies don't know what we have until it's gone, if you see a man that caters and provides for your needs please cherish him o, the most annoying thing is that you will be pretending to manage a man that one too will be forming nonsense even the ones that are supposed to give before you ask because you are the one doing him favor will be saying trash too.
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