Actress opeyemi Aiyeola called out colleague Eniola Badmus for dropping a comment asking about where her front hair is. In the video opeyemi wondered why Eniola who has being a victim of body shaming on social media would come to her page and drop that kind of ignorant comment. She called Eniola an animal in human form for portraying that kind of behavior.
But my beautiful people, thank you I don’t need it. I am beautiful and wonderfully made. I am surrounded by beautiful people who love me, appreciates me they love me just as I am.
This live stream is for Eniola Badmus, I have decided not to pay attention to wailing wailers and which is just my thing not to pay attention to ignorant, evil set of people. I understand the way social media is and I genuinely understand that there are a lot people that are animals in human form. But I have only decided to reply Eniola Badmus. That is the comment that Eniola dropped (..shows screenshot of Eniola asking ‘ope where is your hair’) on one of my videos with a lot of ignorant people like herself.
And why have I decided to this, Eniola Eniola…...it is because you! Eniola used to be an image of ridicule and body shaming on social media. To now think that you eniola who have experienced the hurt, the pain of body shaming could come under my video. You have never helped in promoting anything that has to do with me, you rarely drop comments on my video, you rarely even like my videos you rarely even interact with anything that has to do with me and I am not offended by it because I do same to a lot of my other colleagues and a lot of people. But for you eniola badmus to come under my post and drop this comment.
I am not ignorant that there are also many veil people out there. I know but not somebody of your caliber. Especially somebody who have experienced the hurt and pain of being body shamed. What exactly is funny. What exactly was that statement for? You are funny, you beautiful. You see yourself in the mirror and all you see is beauty. You think a human being’s physical appearance is what beauty is all about? You are ignorant, the only thing you have expressed is your ignorance. and not only have you expressed ignorance you have also expressed the who of yourself. Exactly what you stand for and I pity the people who have you around as their friend.
You don’t know what true love is all about, you don’t know what genuine love is that is why people like you eniola badmus especially people who have experienced something. God has answered your prayer, you have done surgery you look in the mirror, you feel you look beautiful and the only validation you can give yourself is coming under my post to drop this? Public figure. Somebody who should be fighting for the youth. Somebody who has been placed in a political position.
I will classify eniola badmus apart from being an animal and ignorant, I will also classify you as a zombie. Once again, I pity wonderful people who think you are a human being and have surrounded you for whatever reason’’
Opeyemi posted a video addressing Eniola...
“Hi everyone, it’s your girl opeyemi Aiyeola, before I go into today’s ranting let me do my hair very well. First of all, I would like to appreciate beautiful people, my wonderful people with a heart of gold. And who are these special people? Those beautiful people who have decided to come into my WhatsApp and into my DM in concern for my beautiful hair. Some of you are trying to sell me hair products to help with my hair loss. A lot of you are trying to suggest products and some of you have even taken it upon yourself to ask me to send my address so you can buy these products on my behalf and send me those products. I want to appreciate all of you. Thank you.
But my beautiful people, thank you I don’t need it. I am beautiful and wonderfully made. I am surrounded by beautiful people who love me, appreciates me they love me just as I am.
This live stream is for Eniola Badmus, I have decided not to pay attention to wailing wailers and which is just my thing not to pay attention to ignorant, evil set of people. I understand the way social media is and I genuinely understand that there are a lot people that are animals in human form. But I have only decided to reply Eniola Badmus. That is the comment that Eniola dropped (..shows screenshot of Eniola asking ‘ope where is your hair’) on one of my videos with a lot of ignorant people like herself.
And why have I decided to this, Eniola Eniola…...it is because you! Eniola used to be an image of ridicule and body shaming on social media. To now think that you eniola who have experienced the hurt, the pain of body shaming could come under my video. You have never helped in promoting anything that has to do with me, you rarely drop comments on my video, you rarely even like my videos you rarely even interact with anything that has to do with me and I am not offended by it because I do same to a lot of my other colleagues and a lot of people. But for you eniola badmus to come under my post and drop this comment.
I am not ignorant that there are also many veil people out there. I know but not somebody of your caliber. Especially somebody who have experienced the hurt and pain of being body shamed. What exactly is funny. What exactly was that statement for? You are funny, you beautiful. You see yourself in the mirror and all you see is beauty. You think a human being’s physical appearance is what beauty is all about? You are ignorant, the only thing you have expressed is your ignorance. and not only have you expressed ignorance you have also expressed the who of yourself. Exactly what you stand for and I pity the people who have you around as their friend.
You don’t know what true love is all about, you don’t know what genuine love is that is why people like you eniola badmus especially people who have experienced something. God has answered your prayer, you have done surgery you look in the mirror, you feel you look beautiful and the only validation you can give yourself is coming under my post to drop this? Public figure. Somebody who should be fighting for the youth. Somebody who has been placed in a political position.
I will classify eniola badmus apart from being an animal and ignorant, I will also classify you as a zombie. Once again, I pity wonderful people who think you are a human being and have surrounded you for whatever reason’’
Maybe Eniola was joking with her. I don't think she meant it as an insult.
ReplyDeleteAbi they're not friends? 🤷
Adunni
She said they are not friends. No be everything dem dey use joke.
DeleteShe didn't see other things to joke with. It was with her hairline.
Joke?
DeleteOf all things to joke with?
Achalaugo, you fall my hand for this your failed excuse.😁
Same thing I thought, but who knows?
DeleteJoking with someone she doesn't have a relationship with? Eniola meant to troll her with an account she created for trolling her colleagues but she forgot to switch accounts. She is a b!tch!
DeleteThe lady is probably battling alopecia and an ex hippopotamus thinks it's funny to troll her.
You don't joke with such haba.
DeleteSome people react to things "deeply".
DeleteShe's joking and she.decided to use her trend small.
It's a lesson for all those who come online to post scary pictures of their Harry Potter faces, stupid food and naughty children.
DeleteOpeyemi go wear a wig
I could take this if the person is my friend
DeleteThe people who modern day weight loss solutions pain pass are slim ladies
DeleteEspecially the ones that thought so highly of themselves those days and believed they will be forever cuter than their fat friends they insult.
The pain in her over the live video says a lot!
Eniola, since you started your alliance with APC, I no too rate u again.
This should be your wake up call however, to realise that God takes us through some seasons to make us more kind and compassionate to others in future.
As for ranting Aunty, internet is not a kind place. While embracing authenticity, please stay away 4m showcasing what you will cry over if it goes south.
You jam packed other people's offence all on Eniola chochocho...
Apple o, 🤣🤣 I am saying what I think na....no vex dear.
DeleteChichi, I thought as much as per friends. Eni didn't do well.
Lora, naso I think o. Opeyemi is a lady I respect so much for her composure. And for her to come out like this...it must have hurt her 🥹
Adunni
You're right@ Binam.. didn't know she has many accounts for trolling 😮 Not nice.
Delete@Mao, yes...people react to some things deeply..
Anon 15:09... there are really some things that should not be joked with 🥹
@Able God, friends joke right? 😊
Anon 17:58...maybe she has accepted it like that...we can't judge her 🤗
Anon 20:34...the internet is not all together nice like you said 👍
Adunni
This is using a sledge hammer to kill a fly.
ReplyDeleteShe took it south even if Eniola meant bad or sarcasm. Emotional Intelligence is the key. There is a way to respond.
Puhlease
DeleteYou can't tell someone how to react, you do anyhow, anything your eyes see, you take am
Lady T, Eniola is wrong on all sides, things like this shouldn’t be said even as a joke, people are battling things and not everyone comes out to say what they’re going through, Eniola should have some emotional intelligence to know that such things shouldn’t be said in your mind not to talk of out loud on SM.
DeleteIt seems like Opeyemi was looking for an opportunity to publicly express her dislike for Eniola, and the cruise incident became a catalyst for that. While Eniola might have overstepped by joking with someone she hardly interact with, Opeyemi's harsh reaction suggests there's more to the story. Her choice of words, including calling Eniola terrible names, escalated the situation. A more constructive approach might have been for Opeyemi to address her concerns directly with Eniola rather than airing them publicly. Her actions speak for themselves, revealing a side of her that isn't very likable. She's essentially showcasing her true nature. Condescending human being!
ReplyDeleteYou spoke my mind 💯.
DeleteSimple question, where is your front hair??? Mind your business or none of your business. Or you stole at night... Many ways to deflate sarcasm
ReplyDeleteThis was the same statement that Chris Rock said that made Will smith punched him. Keep your jokes or opinions of other people to yourself. Eniola was a tyrant when she was plump and she didn’t like when people call her out on her plumpness, but she trolling someone who is not her friend
DeleteThis ignorance is amazing. There are so many different reasons why women, especially as they age, lose hair. There are also health reasons that can lead to hair loss and happen to anyone, at any age.
ReplyDeleteTo bluntly post such an offensive message is mean for no benefit. Ignorance is the only answer for such people.
I believe the baby hippo, Eniola Badmus, has multiple Instagram accounts. She uses some to troll other celebrities. She just forgot to switch accounts that day. B!tch!
ReplyDeleteChi m ooo!!!👽👽🤣🤣🤣
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ReplyDeletehaba, ki la gbe, ki le ju.
ReplyDeleteyou said you are ok with the way your hair is , why then does the comment pain you this much.
the insult is too much now. Eniola might be joking.
I guess Eniola was joking, but everything cant be a joke.
ReplyDeleteYou shouldn't joke about something like that with someone you're not close to.
DeleteOpe have every right to drag her. some people saying its a joke don't know how not to joke with people you don't relate well with. This is mockery and body shaming because what stops her from asking her in her inbox if she really mean well. chasing clout with someone's pain
ReplyDeleteHmn... You may be right.
DeleteI think Ope went too far. Eniola was just throwing friendly jabs , except of course they were not friends (from her post). So it is deeper than we see .
ReplyDeleteThey are not friends. Eniola doesn't post her, like her posts or promote any of her works, so they are not friendky with one another. She shouldn't have posted that.
DeleteTrue
DeleteWhat a lonnnnng rant!
ReplyDeleteIt may have been a joke but Eniola should have sent her a private message and also proffer a solution, if she truly cares. Nevertheless the lady should have addressed the statement and leave other personal sentiments aside.
ReplyDeleteI guess Eniola was joking but the joke is an expensive one,
ReplyDeleteAlso Ope has been looking for a way to call out Eniola.
Beht Opeyemi no suppose do this tight hairstyle since she has lost a greater part of her front hair...
ReplyDeleteEniola no suppose ask this question at all...Hair loss can be on health grounds..One would have thought what Eniola went through in her obese days, she should know better...
But Ope get bad mouth sha...
Na the yeye style Yoruba women use in traumatizing people.
DeleteHonestly I also don't have front hair and I will not want people to joke about it
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ReplyDeleteThe joke was expensive. Ope over-reacted out of annoyance.
ReplyDeleteLet peace reign.
Some people will view your dancing and happy mood status or post a million times but will never comment but the day you post any negative thing that calls for their useless pity party, they will be all over you acting concerned citizens, RUN away from those people, That is exactly what Eniola did, You have never commented on someone's post and the only comment you made was a negative comment. Fly away peter.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteThanks Zaram for stating this so well.
DeleteNdi frienemies!
Please who has solution to residing front hair. My front hair is residing badly, I did one hairstyle that pulled my front hair three years ago and since then the hair has refused to regrow, instead its residing more. It is affecting my confidence; I can't open my natural hair in public. Please help a sister regain her confidence.
ReplyDeleteOnion water works wonders
DeleteIt's 'receding' for starters😜
DeleteTry shaving off and starting all over then keep it strictly matted hairstyles and a lot of moisturizing and Shea butter mix.Plus no dyes.
See a dermatologist
DeleteDermatologist ke
DeleteTrichologist please
Massage regularly with peppermint oil, rosemary & original coconut oil 🥥
DeleteAlso eat foods rich in Vits B, D and Vit C....zinc & iron, avocado, nuts etc
You can ask this question on Sdk FAQ on Thursdays 👍
Adunni
Anon 21:38, Yes, dermatologists are the specialists to for hair loss. A trichologist is not a health provider or medical practitioner so cannot diagnose or treat any underlying cause if alopecia.
DeleteExperience joke..
ReplyDeleteI tot both are friends
Experience joke..
ReplyDeleteI tot both are friends
We need to normalize not talking about ppl’s appearance. Nobody knows what anyone is going through and no one owes us their story. One million and one things to speak about and it always comes down to appearance.
ReplyDeleteSo many ppl spoke badly about Chadwick Bozeman not knowing he was dying of cancer. Their guilt is still on them to this day eating them away. Learn to let ppl be.
Even Ngbada enwere agba, dey troll person.
ReplyDeleteOmo, I'm tired.😩
😂😂😂
DeleteNo be only you, e taya me too, person wey suppose to the cheer people up considering wetin she passed through in the hands of body shamers.
DeleteI don't think Eniola meant to body shame her unless there's more to this story. Ope biko sorry on her behalf.
ReplyDeleteEniola deserves the response she got from her former senior colleague, knowing how social media works, if she really cares about her hair, she could have sent a DM to ask the silly and insulting question she posted on Ope's page.
ReplyDeleteWhy on earth would a celebrity take such a picture of her vulnerability and post it on internet? Was it to gather compassion/sympathy, express authenticity or to foster connection? She already said she refused people who offered to help her, why did she post the picture then?
ReplyDeleteAs For Eniola, sarcasm is very low in communication skills, it expresses a “poisonous sting of contempt”. Now you have ruined your relationship with your colleagues (that’s if there was any in the first place) and you end up hurting her tremendously.
For those who feel she over reacted, wait until someone mocks you for things you don’t have control over.
I think eniola is just being playful, this isn't that deep now. Ope, please take it easy
ReplyDeleteEniola shouldn't have said that, especially when she's not close to Opeyemi, and I don't even think it's a joke, some people insult you in disguise of jokes.
ReplyDeleteAs we all know, these yeyebrities fight over men and superiority, there may have been an existing beef over a man or seniority. You can see that Eniola called her by name 'Ope' instead of 'Aunty Ope' since Ope is older than her in all areas. Yorubas take this seniority thing serious.
ReplyDeleteThen Ope is a divorcee and is in the market, a big man may have caused their beef.
Ope divorcee ke?
Delete🥹
Ope older than Eniola ke?
DeleteWho's this lying LINUS?
I think Eniola is just trying to be playful here.
ReplyDeleteOpe con be like say she don dey wait for this opportunity to vent her spleen on Eni.
No be every body wey person see dey like rough play
Eniola did not do well.
ReplyDeleteI thought you said you like the hair like that? Why are you now ranting because of that little remark about your hair? Something that you would reply her sarcastically is what you took to heart like this.
ReplyDeleteSlim, the thing tire me o!
DeleteEniola asked a one-liner question and if Ope considered that an insult, she could have just responded with a one-liner such as "Eniola, it has gone to the same place your fat went" or "It has filled up the empty space in your brain", rather than this long caustic rant.
I almost lost my front hair, after I gave birth, as in my edges almost going bald, I just switched to one hair cream like that, and it worked like magic, now I'm good.
ReplyDeleteEniola shouldn't have said anything, especially as they are not familiar like that.
What’s the cream called abeg thank you
DeleteWaiting for eniola come back, she must not disappoint cos ope went too low haba
ReplyDeleteIt's ironic that she is shaming someone else for her appearance, considering her own experience as a very fat woman who went through body shaming. I thought with the experience she will make a point to be kinder to others.Eniola ,we live in a spiritual world, and you are still chubby, those fats you cut out can come back and have you looking like a killer 🐳.
ReplyDeleteEniola what were you thinking though? Not cool, meanwhile, Ope, please calm down, this reaction is extreme, ki lode? Somebody slaps you but you retaliate with a gunshot. Please take it easy, una two get issues before?
ReplyDeleteYou no understand beautiful, all my front hair don go too😔😔😔.
DeleteI think ope is pained because when she was still hurt in the industry eniola was no where to be found.
ReplyDeletePeople saying it is a joke. It is definitely not. Hair is very deep for everyone. Loosing hair for someone who had it is traumatizing. She decided not to put her self in bondage with wigs, which is very bold. I may not like the name calling but everyone is different.
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