Tuesday In House News

 Terrific Tuesday Hailings.....

IN HOUSE MEMO

I salute everyone today..... Sending a special shout out to Gigi the glamourous granny in the US.......The babe wan kee me with love and checking up on me and prayers.... I am so lucky to have her in my corner and i thank God for sending her my way........Ehen before i forget, she will be doing a 500k giveaway next month.Thanks in advance maam.

Hmmm, please i am not fasting again abeg.....I am supposed to drink lots of water and fasting does not accomodate this, i ended up with a headache yesterday......

XP wan send me recipe to burn fat and i am still waiting for it, i may share when she sends me...

BVs Osundi and Caren can you both confirm that you got the money sent yesterday?

Today I am making French fries, mixed salad,chicken mixed sauce and beef mixed sauce.......Yesterday I made sharwama and everyone loved it but i couldnt eat cos i dont eat bread anymore......

Enjoy the rest of the day and stay outta harms way....

LOOOOOOOOOOOL

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD 

My first is a picky eater. He doesn’t eat fish, meat, chicken, and egg. Just chicken skin, goat meat skin, and sausages.... sounds weird, I know. 

He also doesn’t eat swallows, soups, cereals , pap, moi moi, Yam, and almost all the regular food we eat. He eats only one brand of biscuit.

Any attempt to force him to eat results in violent vomiting with the vomit coming out of his nose.
You can imagine how scary it looks to watch him vomit so hard, I have made my peace with it, and I feed him his safe food while I still try to get him to taste new foods.
My second is also picky but not as bad as his brother....

 Recently he started trying out new food and I was happy, when I weaned my princess, a part of me was scared that she would be as picky has her siblings but to my joy, it has been the other way round with her.
She eats everything, at least she tries to taste everything, some she doesn’t like but she eats almost everything we eat.

She is always eating and even does this cute happy dance when she sees the food she wants to eat. It gladdens my heart to see her not just eat but love eating..

WOW...so your first only eats biscuit everyday? then stop giving him biscuit and let him get hungry....He is not getting the right things he should as a child and he may end growing up to be sick.....Stop feeding him that junk biscuit, you enabled that behaviour, let him vomit through his eyes if he wants to but dont give him again...tell him that they dont sell the biscuit again.....One of my Bambino was so picky until i dealt with him eh, after hunger catch am nobody told him to eat food....LOL

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WEIRDFACTS

Sleeping late on weekends will make you tired on Monday morning

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Ceraunophile (noun):

A person who loves thunderstorms

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People are more likely to grant favors if you speak into their right ear

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Dogs can pick up on subtle changes in your scent, which can help them know how you're feeling

They're able to smell fear, anxiety and can read your facial expressions, as well

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TIPS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE:

1. Don't joke with your husbands stomach cos Food is very important to men,

2. Don't avoid her food no matter how tasteless it may be...... Encourage her and if possible, teach her how to cook

3. S#X is a bound that keeps marriage..... Don't deny it to each other

4. If you have issues between you.... Don't be fast to involve a 3rd party

5. Women, no matter how rich your husband may be...... Find something to be doing, 2 good heads are better than one

6. If you want to have a better and happy family ....... Train your children well

7 . Women: don't wait for your husband to be providing all the family's need..... He may breakdown one day.
8. Men, cary your wife along in your plans....... Her opinion could be the best

9. Fault finders doesn't make good home ..... Have it at the back of your mind that nobody is perfect

10. The sooner you learn that (I'm right) destroys marriages ........ The better for you

11. Togetherness brings unity in marriage...... Form a habit of eating and bathing together, it increases love among couples

12. Forgiveness a key to a successfully marriage..... Forgive each other no matter the offense

13. I'm SORRY should always be in your lips .......... It's just a word but very powerful

14. Don't for any reason keeps a secret from your spouse.......... Trust each other for the good of your marriage

15. Family planning is not only contraceptives or controlling child birth........... Is all about planning together, families that plans together are a step closer to greatness

16. Always involve God in your family..... He's the answer and solutions to your family problems. 

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TRUST IS EARNED
Some of you trust too fast, love too hard, and get betrayed too easily. Then you come back crying, saying, "But I thought he was my bro!" or "But she said she loved me!" Bro, wake up! Trust is like money—if you give it out carelessly, you’ll go broke.

Let me tell you something: A real man moves with wisdom, not emotions. You don’t trust people just because they smile at you, call you "boss," or say sweet words. You watch their actions. A snake doesn’t hiss anymore—it calls you ‘my love’ and ‘big bro.’

1. Test People Before Trusting Them:
Would you lend 1 million naira to someone you just met? No? Then why do you trust people with your time, secrets, and loyalty so easily? Bro, before you call someone "friend" or "wife material," test them.

- Give them small responsibility and see if they handle it well.
- Share little information and see if it spreads like gossip.
- Observe how they treat you when they don’t need anything from you.

A real friend won’t switch up on you when you’re struggling. A real woman won’t only be sweet when your money is up. A real business partner won’t disappear when things get tough.

2. Actions Over Words:

A man who only talks big is a liability. A woman who only praises you when you’re winning is a trap. A real one proves themselves through actions, not words.

- If he says he has your back, see what happens when you’re in trouble.
- If she says she loves you, see how she treats you when you’re broke.
- If they promise loyalty, see if they still respect you when you say "No."

Most betrayals in life happen because men trust words instead of patterns. A liar will promise you heaven while digging a hole for you on earth. Move smart!

3. Set Boundaries And Watch Reactions:

Men who allow too much access get used, betrayed, and destroyed. Not everyone deserves your time, trust, or energy.
- If you say "No" and they get angry, they were never real.
- If you set a boundary and they call you “mean,” they were using you.
- If you stop giving money and they disappear, they were never loyal.

A good woman won’t leave just because you didn’t buy her a new phone. A good friend won’t stop checking in just because you’re not spending money on them. Real connections are built on respect, not benefits.

4. Stop Explaining Yourself to People Who Don’t Care

Some of you waste too much time trying to explain yourself to people who already made up their minds about you. They don’t like you, they don’t respect you, and they will never support you—so why are you still trying to prove yourself?

A real man moves in silence and lets results speak. When you stop chasing validation, you start attracting real respect.

5. When in Doubt, Trust Slowly:

Don’t rush into business deals, relationships, or friendships. If something feels off, it probably is.

- If a woman loves you too fast, asks for money too soon, and wants a commitment overnight—SLOW DOWN.
- If a guy you just met starts talking about big money moves and wants you to "invest now"—SLOW DOWN.
- If a friend who never checked on you suddenly starts being nice and asking for favors—WATCH CAREFULLY.
Real connections take time to build. Fake ones come fast and disappear faster.

Move Like a Kings, Not a Pawns!

The biggest mistakes men make in life is from trusting the wrong people too quickly. Look around—some of your biggest regrets came from trusting a friend, a woman, or a business partner who showed you red flags but you ignored them.

A king moves wisely. He observes before he acts. He listens before he speaks. He tests before he trusts. Don’t let fake love, fake friends, and fake loyalty ruin your future. Move smart, stay sharp, and build wisely. Let’s do better, Kings!

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