Singer Asake's Baby Mama Adijat has spoken out about her past relationship with the afrobeats star.
‘I have an 11 years old daughter for Asake before he became famous, I have always supported him and sent him all my ajo money when he was at OAU. He used to call me to thank me for standing by him.
I have tried reaching out to him, but now he says I am forcing myself on him. When my daughter was about to turn five, my mum called him and asked if I hadn’t informed him that my dad was pressuring me about the situation. He admitted he was aware but said he felt I was pushing myself on him’
She further said Asake warned her against contacting him, threatening to block her on all social media platforms if she persisted.
Despite this, she acknowledged that after his success, he once sent her 0ne million naira for herself and her daughter but complained he has not been consistent with his support
From instablog9ja
In a viral video, Adijat shared details of how she supported Asake financially while he was still a student at Obafemi Awolowo university (OAU) according to her, she used to send him money from her savings (ajo/thrift contributions) to help him through school but everything changed when he found fame.
‘I have an 11 years old daughter for Asake before he became famous, I have always supported him and sent him all my ajo money when he was at OAU. He used to call me to thank me for standing by him.
I have tried reaching out to him, but now he says I am forcing myself on him. When my daughter was about to turn five, my mum called him and asked if I hadn’t informed him that my dad was pressuring me about the situation. He admitted he was aware but said he felt I was pushing myself on him’
She further said Asake warned her against contacting him, threatening to block her on all social media platforms if she persisted.
Despite this, she acknowledged that after his success, he once sent her 0ne million naira for herself and her daughter but complained he has not been consistent with his support
From instablog9ja
Humans like Asake are everywhere, truth it, fame doesn't change people, instead, it reveals their true nature and magnifies their ego.
ReplyDeleteHowever on the long run, Life always humble them.
Well said 👍
DeleteMoney amplifies your true nature
Aptly written 👌💯
DeleteThe daughter looks so much like her. Fine girl!
ReplyDeleteAsake do the needful. If everything she said is true, then he was supposed to step up and do right by her. She just needs some brushing up and she would look good. The only girls he would be meeting now, are girls out to suck him dry with no iota of love for him in their hearts. Still, if he knows he isn't interested in the lady anymore then he should take care of his daughter's well-being.
He doesn't NEED to do any 'needful.
DeleteThe sooner you Nigerian women get it through your thick skulls that men can sleep with you without giving a flying fig about you, the better it will be for you.
Case in point that aunty wailing every eke day for her one week stand to carry his child that he eats too much.
If Asake chooses to take care of his child, that's fine. If not, that's what you get for flinging legs open without caution.
As you are brushing your man up, dashing him money, packing him food and toiletries, YOU NKO???
You no deserve brushing up?????
She as she be like omo alata swe swe.
Nigerian men will be begging degrees, moving fast up in the corporate world, building new empires.
NONE with your name on it.
You are there standing firm, la ise supportive shadow.
10:52 it's easier for people like you to act like ashake because you are not the ones at the receiving end of the pain. Funnily, your type of person will never forgive anybody that treats you the way ashake has been treating people that were ones good to him. I pity people that relate with you. I pity those who has ever stood by you through difficult times even more.
DeleteWhy are you so pressed? Take it easy, okay.
DeleteNigerian woman? sleep with you? Who is sleeping with you?
The way some of you generalize is hilarious. You don't even know my nationality, besides I dont even believe in nor engage in fornication, so take it easy and breathe.
Even the example you used as a reference pales in comparison to this one. That other lady was not there when the man was struggling nor did she stand by him.
This lady was very supportive of him in his struggling days when he was in school, hence my comment considering most men complain of meeting only gold diggers when they are successful and not everyone has a woman who will stand by them when they have nothing. I believe the reason for my comment was explicit enough.
I still said if he wasn't interested anymore, it's fine but he needs to take care of his child. So what are you rambling about?
If Nigerian women have a thick skull (this is me hoping you don't have females relatives who are Nigerians) then yours must be non existent.
10.52 is just highlighting the fact that men are intentional about their goals and women should wake up and chase their own goals. Men don't feel guilty about walking away from their kids or that you supported them financially. They only remember when they are lonely, broke or sick.
DeleteI agree with 10.52. Women stop supporting to your own detriment. Stop expecting them to step up after one night stands or side chicks produce a child, they don't care and you will ruin your life. Is it not a man who lost his son but still justified dancing on social media shortly afterwards?
13:18 lolll you're the only one who has sense here. Let them continue farting with their mouths. They kuku deserve their men. Hold them tight o. Nobody wants trash please.
Delete13:18 the anon should have said it then, not with cockiness or that high-and-mighty attitude laced with a hint of razzness. There is a way you would pass your message across, and it would appeal to sound judgments and not appear like sheer ramblings.
DeleteNot just men but women too. Humans sometimes have the proclivity to be ungrateful. Some will send their girlfriends to school, but in the end, she would leave with another man. Some will give their kidney, but the other person would betray them.
This lady was not a one-night stand or a side chick but a long-time girlfriend who stood by him, so you saying you support the anon up there just sounds like you both are trying to force a different narrative that doesn't match with the story on the ground.
He should have married her, but it's no big deal now considering that people now are getting used to betrayal, and we are in a culture where we shame the helpers and the loyal partners, hereby making them appear like fools. How did you know she didn't build up herself? She likely did based on her level and capacity, even if she couldn't go to school, maybe due to finances, but she obviously engaged in trade and was giving him stipends (stipends he appreciated back then) from the monthly contribution she made.
The fact that she was generous to him in the past should make him support her too financially, even if he doesn't want her anymore. In this era of "what do you bring to the table, do you work, come to my house..." when you see someone who is loyal, who stood by you, etc., despite you having nothing, when fate finally smiles on you, don't ever let them go.
The anon should work on their one-way track mind as well and understand that when people talk sometimes, it is due to a specific reason or experience totally different from what they are exposed to or have in mind. I wrote what I wrote initially with my brother's experience in mind. He married his long-term girlfriend who supported him while in school. She was a secondary graduate. But he was a broke student. This lady would save some money and send it to him. He turned down so many ladies who wanted to be with him when he was done and looking fresh, and he made sure he married my SIL, relocated, and today she is a nurse, and they have been married for 15 years. She got pregnant when he was serving, and he went back a few years later, when he was comfortable, to properly ask for her hand when she was still a jobless secondary school graduate. He could have married the ladies hovering all around him, but he knew loyalty is priceless.
If you had the sense you are trying so hard to protray, you won't go about making comment about others, you have not even the slightest idea about.
Delete...and you also won't keep generalising. Lol.. of course, you would know trash, though. Why won't you? 13:23
DeleteAnd it's this same 10:52 that came under my comment the other day to try shunning me for condemning Asake. You can see now that of a truth you are not Ok right? You have even started denying your initial stance. Lol. I think say you get liver.
DeleteBeautiful Daughter
ReplyDeleteMay God Touch The Heart Of Asake ooo..
Hello iya Boys
Now I believe his story with Olamide. So money brings out the true attitude of a man.
ReplyDeleteI always say this that is good to hear clearly from both parties 🙄yeah before crusifying
ReplyDeleteNevertheless,Asake please do the needful your blood is involve
Only you from your manager, old friends from the trenches, record label, family and now baby mama they are all accusing you of same thing. Hmmm this is not nice at all Asake check yourself
ReplyDeleteEhya his daughter is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteHmmm ! it is well with her.
ReplyDeleteAsake please do the needful
ReplyDeleteTake care of your child and support the woman that stood by you 😔
I m surprised nobody can see the cycle of male irresponsibility in Asake’s linage. This looks like what his father did to him and now him to his offspring. He needs to break the cycle.
ReplyDeleteThank you!! (Though I read it was his mum that wasn't present but came back after he made it.It's well!!)
DeleteMy BD's dad wasn't there for him as a kid and he's currently not a present dad.
You can't give what you don't have.
Asake is an absentee father. Another thing is that, majority of the male folks don't value women that offer them financial support .
ReplyDeleteAsake hopefully, you're a blog visitor like many celebrities who read Stella's blog. Plan how to ensure that your daughter gets a life proportionate to your earnings - pay the school fees directly, get her mother a good house, arrange to meet with her on holidays or fly her to you. Asake please get a DNA test done to clear your mind! Read about Terry G, Neyo and one oyibo celeb who was being dragged mercilessly but found out last week via DNA test that he is not the father.
ReplyDeleteMadam babymama, yes he owes you for your daughters upkeep but it's also public knowledge that you married another and moved on before Asake blew - maybe he doesn't want to sponsor your other kids. You said he gave his daughter N1 million for her birthday once so you know he will do more. People break up all the time, stop the stories please, but if it's his child he should be taking care of her and nurturing her.
Everyone stop blackmailing this guy and pray for him. It's lonely at the top and none of you would answer his calls if he was still poor and living with you in Isale Eko at his age.
Everybody don turn BV.
ReplyDeleteOmo na Asake face I dey see so for dia? Jesus ooo. No, you can't tell me nothing. Money is sweet abeg. Lmao
ReplyDeleteJust imagine the wickedness. Most times, it doesnt end well with folks like this.
ReplyDeleteShe fattened the frog for the snake
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