Friday In House News

 Friday hailings....

IN HOUSE MEMO

I hope that you are having an amazing day?I am!

Enjoy the rest of the day and stay outta trouble.

Hugs!

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.

Watching my princess grow is one of the major highlights of my life right now, I am smiling while writing because of how much she lights up my world. I never expected how different raising a girl child can be from that of the boys.

My boys at her age just wanted to eat and play with their toy trucks, and they were satisfied . On the other hand my princess is so interested in her environment at this age, she notices and tries to mimic everything , she is way more independent than they were at her age which is understandable since girls develop faster and all.

She plays with toy cars and trucks like the boys, but she gravitates more towards dolls when we are at the toy section. I got her one not too long ago and I have seen her sit down with a comb, combing the dolls hair with so much care and a softened expression that reminds me of a mom with her child.

Last week we were going out and I dressed her up and she picked up the edge of her dress and did a twirl, looking so pleased with herself. My sister even has to hide a make-up bag because she laid hands on it, and this little damsel applies lip gloss and lipstick on her lips, cheeks like blush and on her eyelids like eyeshadow . It was all over the place, and she looked like a clown, but I was amazed at the effort she put into trying to look like my sister.

She is still very little, but I know she is a girly girl through and through. She didn’t get it from me, though ( I think). The other day she threw a full blown tantrum at the supermarket, she flopped on the ground so dramatically and started kicking her legs up and screaming just as I had seen in movies because I had never experienced this with the boys.

My first instinct as an African parent was to smack the tantrum out of her but I remembered my parenting class lessons at the last minute and just ignored her, I continued what I was doing while keeping a firm eye on her. When she was done , she came to me with the cutest pout ever and was sobbing silently.

It was the first big tantrum experience for both of us, and it made me realise I had a drama queen on my hands. I am being firm with her but also enthralled by her girly antics. I know I will be having my hands full with this one.

WOW!!!;;;if she jut knows your mumu button thats all she will be pressing..lol


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TWO TYPES OF WOMEN

There Are Only Two Types of Women: Assets or Liabilities
A woman in your life will either build you up or drag you down—there is no in-between. The sooner you learn this, the faster you’ll filter out the parasites from the real partners. A liability costs you time, money, and peace, while an asset brings value, loyalty, and support.
Here are 10 ways to know whether she’s a liability or an asset:

A Liability Woman:
1. She’s Expensive with No Value – Always expecting you to pay, provide, and finance her lifestyle but brings nothing to the table.

2. She’s Emotionally Draining – Full of drama, arguments, and attention-seeking nonsense that distracts you from your purpose.

3. She Seeks Validation from the World – Always half-naked online, addicted to likes, and obsessed with impressing strangers instead of respecting her man.

4. She Competes Instead of Complements – Wants to "be the boss" and prove she doesn’t need a man while still depending on one.

5. She Disrespects You – Talks back, belittles you, and makes you feel small instead of making you feel like a king.

6. She Has a "Bestie" (a Male Backup Plan) – Keeps other men in her life under the excuse of “he’s just a friend” when in reality, he’s an option.

7. She’s Lazy and Entitled – Expects a high-value man but brings nothing valuable to the relationship. No cooking, no effort, no growth.

8. She Plays the Victim – Never takes accountability for her actions and blames men for all her failures.

9. She’s Addicted to Social Media & Trends – More focused on TikTok dances and feminist nonsense than building a real relationship.

10. She Threatens to Leave Over Small Issues – Uses emotional blackmail and ultimatums because she doesn’t see you as the prize.

An Asset Woman:
1. She’s Supportive – Encourages your vision, pushes you to be better, and contributes to your goals.

2. She’s Emotionally Intelligent – Avoids unnecessary drama and knows how to handle stress maturely.

3. She Seeks Validation from You, Not the World – Dresses and behaves with class, knowing that your approval matters most.

4. She Knows Her Role – Embraces her femininity, respects leadership, and complements your strength instead of competing.

5. She Respects You Deeply – Listens, values your opinions, and never belittles or embarrasses you.

6. She’s Loyal and Keeps Boundaries – No male "besties," no ex-boyfriend friendships—only loyalty and respect for your relationship.

7. She Contributes, Not Just Consumes – Adds value to your life, whether through emotional support, intelligence, or skills.

8. She Takes Accountability – Owns her mistakes, apologizes when necessary, and strives to improve.

9. She’s Focused on Building a Future – More interested in stability and family than temporary internet trends.

10. She Stays Through Hard Times – Doesn’t threaten to leave over small issues but works with you to solve problems.

A woman will either elevate you or destroy you—there is no middle ground. The biggest mistake a man can make is turning a liability into a wife. If she’s draining your energy, disrespects you, or brings nothing but problems, cut her off immediately.
A high-value man does not waste time on liabilities—he builds his empire with an asset by his side. 

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WORD!!!......I know someone who married a liability...She used housekeeping money to buy hair  and then went to borrow money from his friends wife adn did not pay back on time....

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WEIRDFACTS

-Beauty sleep is real - scientists found that faces of well-rested people look younger and are more attractive than sleep-deprived people.

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-Psychology says, depression is often the result of over thinking. Our minds create problems that initially didn't exist.

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-A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities and second, respecting the differences.

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-Delete everything in your mind that is not moving you forward.


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