FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Friday Sunny Hailings!!!

FRIDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

How is the go going? I know some of you expect me to talk about the giveaway, but sorry i aint got nothing to say......Well not in the way you expect.....

Please what does it mean when someone sends you their account and when you try to pay in, it redirects you to a POS account? cos one of the giveaway recipients account did this so i dont know if someone has cloned their account.....

Please if your name and your account name dont match....Forget it oooooh.

I am having a great day and presently outside in the mall as you read this....i came here to buy shrimps (licks lips)........

If anybody is dragged cos of the giveaway, i will quietly not even choose the person, please dont use my old format with me!

Enjoy the rest of the day innugo?

Let me continue shopping ...Amu na bia as soon as i can...

Ehen!!!....dont forget to advertise in the comment section...Use your IDs, I wanna get to know you !!!!

On Monday we will begin selection for the Easter giveaway......Please dont apply, let us enjoy todays comment section in peace....

Please you guys should leave Teejay alone to breath, he has not asked me for money, infact some of you dragging him are in my inbox asking me to help you out...Should i drag you too? STOP IT..If you think he has a format, then do yours and stop spoiling show for him...LOL

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 10 key lessons About Loving Too Much:

Why do some women find themselves in painful, one-sided, or destructive relationships, even when they desperately want love and happiness? "loving too much" isn’t real love—it’s an unhealthy addiction rooted in childhood wounds, low self-worth, and a deep need for validation.

1. Loving Too Much Is Not Love—It’s an Obsession
When love becomes all-consuming, painful, and self-sacrificing, it’s no longer love—it’s addiction. Women who love too much often obsess over their partners, try to fix them, and tolerate mistreatment, believing that their love will change things.

2. Unhealthy Love Is Rooted in Childhood Trauma
Many women who love too much grew up in homes where love was conditional, inconsistent, or absent. If your parents were emotionally unavailable, distant, or abusive, you might unconsciously seek out partners who replicate that dynamic—hoping to “fix” the past through love.

3. You Can’t Change or Save Someone Who Doesn’t Want to Change
One of the biggest traps of loving too much is believing that if you just love someone enough, they will heal, change, or become the partner you need. But the truth is: people only change when they choose to—not because of your love or sacrifices.

4. Neglecting Yourself to Prioritize a Partner Leads to Self-Destruction
Women who love too much often put their partner’s needs, happiness, and problems above their own well-being. They ignore red flags, endure emotional pain, and give endlessly—even when they’re suffering. But real love should never come at the cost of your own health, happiness, or self-respect.

5. Drama and Uncertainty Can Feel Like “Passion”
When love has always been chaotic or painful, calm and stable relationships might seem boring. Many women mistake anxiety, longing, and emotional roller coasters for love, not realizing that healthy love is peaceful, secure, and nurturing—not dramatic.

6. Setting Boundaries Is a Sign of Self-Respect
Loving too much often means having weak or nonexistent boundaries. Women tolerate neglect, dishonesty, and mistreatment because they fear losing the relationship. But healthy love requires clear boundaries—knowing what you will and won’t accept in a relationship.

7. Fear of Being Alone Fuels Toxic Attachments
Many women stay in unhealthy relationships because they are terrified of being alone. They would rather endure pain than face loneliness. But being alone isn’t the problem—the problem is believing you are not enough without someone else.

8. The First Step to Healing Is Recognizing the Pattern
Breaking the cycle of unhealthy love starts with awareness. If you find yourself constantly in relationships with emotionally unavailable, toxic, or damaging partners, ask yourself: Why do I choose this? What am I really seeking?

9. Healing Requires Learning to Love Yourself First
True healing happens when you stop seeking validation from unhealthy relationships and start giving yourself the love, care, and attention you deserve. This means focusing on self-growth, self-care, therapy, and surrounding yourself with healthy connections.

10. You Deserve Love That Feels Safe, Secure, and Mutually Fulfilling
Real love should not make you feel anxious, desperate, or unworthy. Healthy love is balanced, reciprocal, and free from fear and obsession. You don’t have to chase love—you just have to heal and attract the right kind of love by valuing yourself first.
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This article reminded me  of someone...Read through and see if it will remind you of someone or yourself

Even though the writer used women, i want to believe men also love this way....

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