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This Right of reply is for Friday arch 14, 2025 Chronicle - Read it HERE
''I am glad you all chose to expose yourselves by sending this here. This man is my maternal uncle, the kindest uncle anyone could ask for. Unfortunately, he’s been unlucky with marriage. His late wife even turned his children against him, yet despite everyone encouraging him to remarry, he refused.
Can any of you swear that you have ever given him even N10,000.00 in your entire life? After graduation, did any of you bother to show him your certificate or even say thank you? Others give their father their youth service uniforms as a token of appreciation — did any of you ever give him your khaki?
You are all married now and still depend on him from your husbands’ houses. You give birth, and he’s the one paying for your discharge from the hospital. Your wives give birth, and you call him to come and help. When you got married, he took care of nearly all the marital rites for each of you.
Look at him now, looking lean and unkempt from all the stress and worry. I see your plan. You don’t want him to remarry because of the house and shops he built. You wish he dies, Well, prepare to be shocked. If you keep standing in his way, he will sell everything and use the money to take care of women outside.
I spit on all.of you. Your dad did not take care of himself for one day. He married as a very young man. He is at the market under rain or sun Monday to Saturday. Your mother did not contribute a kobo to your education yet all his efforts, no appreciation.
I spit on all of you again.
Shameless children''.
Na wah oh.....
Can any of you swear that you have ever given him even N10,000.00 in your entire life? After graduation, did any of you bother to show him your certificate or even say thank you? Others give their father their youth service uniforms as a token of appreciation — did any of you ever give him your khaki?
You are all married now and still depend on him from your husbands’ houses. You give birth, and he’s the one paying for your discharge from the hospital. Your wives give birth, and you call him to come and help. When you got married, he took care of nearly all the marital rites for each of you.
Look at him now, looking lean and unkempt from all the stress and worry. I see your plan. You don’t want him to remarry because of the house and shops he built. You wish he dies, Well, prepare to be shocked. If you keep standing in his way, he will sell everything and use the money to take care of women outside.
I spit on all.of you. Your dad did not take care of himself for one day. He married as a very young man. He is at the market under rain or sun Monday to Saturday. Your mother did not contribute a kobo to your education yet all his efforts, no appreciation.
I spit on all of you again.
Shameless children''.
Na wah oh.....
I said that does children are evil ,a 70plus should not marry while they are all in their husband and with their wives ,just praying that the man should died to inherit hos properties,wicked children.They even suggest employing a male cook for him instead of a wife because they knew that if he died the wife will inherit his wealth .Please children go and make your life,and leave your father alone
ReplyDeleteI said that does children are evil ,a 70plus should not marry while they are all in their husband and with their wives ,just praying that the man should died to inherit hos properties,wicked children.They even suggest employing a male cook for him instead of a wife because they knew that if he died the wife will inherit his wealth .Please children go and make your life,and leave your father alone
ReplyDeleteI thought to myself after that chronicle yesterday…
ReplyDeleteThat man was in Lagos for years and he did not remarry, you people did not hear that he was having children outside all those years. He waited till age 70, 2 years after your mom died to think of remarriage. He even called you selfish children to inform you lazy lot… He is not as bad as you tried to paint him.
How do you claim to know a man better as your uncle than the people that lived with him and called him Dad
ReplyDeleteThat he was kind to you doesn’t mean he was kind to his wife. There are actually people that are like that
Personally I think you should mind your own business and let his children decide n even though I feel the children should let him remarry. But pls drink water and mind your business.E no concern you
Zendaya
Forget When I read that chronicle, I Knew the children have been brainwashed, even my husband told me the children will never care for the man in old age, he better remarry. The poster is also related to him and the children also confirmed he is a good father to them. The problem is what they are getting from him and the inheritance they look forward to. Wicked children.
DeleteThis writer is a horrible person. Whatever, is going on in that family shouldn't be your business. They are your cousins and you can't know their Dad more than them.
DeleteThank you. All his children cannot be against him if he was so great. At least one will be on his side. What people see from outside may not be what it was inside. Why leave ur whole family for only ur wife to raise and move to Lagos? That alone is very dysfunctional. I beg maternal niece, carry ur spit elsewhere and leave what doesn’t concern u. Personally I think they should leave him to remarry and move on but that doesn’t make him a good person. He had so many shops and could only train 2 at a time. And u are saying he was a good man. Suwah!!
DeleteHaha!! There was a caught...Truly as other BVs rightly advised they are all after their father's financial inheritance..
ReplyDeleteChoi
Haha!! There was a caught...Truly as other BVs rightly advised they are all after their father's financial inheritance..
ReplyDeleteChoi
Wow.
ReplyDeleteThe original poster did not hide anything from what you wrote there, stop putting fuel on the burning fire 🔥 we already told them that they did not try and should allow their poor dad to remarry. You can as well talk to them as your cousins. As a matter of fact they should look for good wife for their dad. That one in a million man.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad.
ReplyDeleteChildren, you people should do better. Allow this man take care of himself for once. (I pray the new wife will not be his undoing).
But Poster!
Come here fess! why are you spitting on them?
Are you their father?, even if you are, What gave you this right?
They might be bad to your uncle but don't take matters into your own hands. Even this man you narrated up there will swear for you if he hears that you are spitting on his children.
Do you know what that means?
I was smh for the children for being so brainwashed until I got to the spitting part.
Please swallow your spits Biko. Water don kuku cost.
Na wooo
ReplyDeleteSome Children ehennnn
Hello iya Boys
Chai
ReplyDeleteI knew his children are very selfish cos of the constant tasking from him even when they all have their own families. Why will the old man not make him self happy because he has children.
ReplyDeleteEntitlement mentality children.
I wonder how a father will have six children and non is doing well and he's comfortable helping them financially. This is a big error. Something is wrong somewhere and no one seemed to be bothered (Father and Children are not bothered)....Oh Lord have Mercy.
ReplyDeleteI kept wandering why non of the over 3children didn't venture into the business that their father is using to make money with. Is their father's job too low that the children would rather remain jobless than do thesame business that has been fetching money for their dad? If they have really suffered in this life nobody will tell at least one of them to go and get his/her own shop somewhere and start doing their dad's type of business pending when they will find a better one. These are the kind of children that sees salary earning jobs as a greatest achievement while looking down on mechanics, welders and all those jobs that you don't have to dress well for.
ReplyDeleteCan't the men in your family get a hired purchase bus and start a transport business with?
Maybe the man didn’t take any of his children into his business. Remember he left them in the East and moved to Lagos. I think he is a very selfish and self centered person I beg . So not one of the children is on his side? There must be something wrong with him.
DeleteAnon, but he does not have to introduce the business to his children. The only time I feel he should compel them to learn his line of business is when they were still tender. The man may not see any reason to ask them to join him then because he had already envision how his
Deletechildren would have a good paying job after all their academic pursuit. Now that reality of life has set in for them as adults, the push to look for a stable means of income should come from within. Since their monthly salary income is not fetching them any good income as their dad's business would, common sense should tell them to pick at least two people from the family to go and learn their dad's trade and startup their own independently from their dad's. God forbid, if their dad gives up the ghost today that means the business idea is gone forever. It will be very painful that they are not doing better than their dad and yet they didn't learn what their dad was doing to make a living until he died.