STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BLACKMAILING EX
Good day...
I dated one girl sometimes ago and she didn’t know i was married....
recently i saw her in my area and i was with My wife, so i didn’t do as if i saw her, she greeted me and I ignored her....
She is blackmailing me now, she is now seeing me as a office or bank. I have sent her money more than twice and she is still demanding for more, or she will show my wife all our chats and dirty things we did, and my wife looks at me as a decent and responsible man...
i don’t want to break my wifes heart and i don’t want her to distrust me, i regret my actions, i don’t sleep well at night again….
Please help…
i don’t want to break my wifes heart and i don’t want her to distrust me, i regret my actions, i don’t sleep well at night again….
Please help…
Well you have no choice at this stage but to tell your wife what happened between the two of you and seek her forgiveness..... you need to stop paying that lady blackmail money as well...
You don't want to break your wife's heart, why did you now step out?? You dated this girl, not one night stand o. I'm sure you regret your actions because she's blackmailing you.
ReplyDeleteyou must be a "jew" - why didnt you tell are you are married? abi you lie fir am say yougo marry am so that you no go spend money? the hungry girls like this prefer married to single guys - no emotional stress and small maintenance money for them. abi you no get money to give am? anyway, the money you suppose give am before, na em she dey collect now. settle am one more time and threathen am, she go leave you.
DeleteServes you right 😂😂😂😂😂. Amunagbaaria
ReplyDeleteGo ahead and delete your conversation with this girl from your end and also confess to your wife of what you did
ReplyDeleteNtoor
ReplyDeleteKukuma tell your wife so that she will help you put it to a stop after you must have apologized.
ReplyDeleteUnless you are not taking care of your home and be spending on another woman
Marriage crash these days is because some of you open doors for devil to take control.
Your daily prayer should be ' lead us not into temptation '.
You've laid your bed; now, sleep peacefully in it..
ReplyDelete#chuckles
Sleep is now far away from him😄
DeleteWhen God has given you a wife of your own. What are you doing with a strange woman?
ReplyDeleteConfess to your wife and apologise before the lady tells her
Dear Poster, You already broke her heart and trust immediately you started cheating...
ReplyDeleteMy advice for you is to let your wife know you stepped out of line and cheated on her....Apologize and ask for her forgiveness and please don't demand her forgiveness.....
Secondly, you should have called the bluff of your blackmailer and tell her to go ahead with her threat initially....
Stop paying your blackmailer and I am very sure you may have slept with her on some days you couldn't pay....Confess to your wife now and end the blackmail now so it does not escalate to become worse...
All the best
I am happy she is blackmailing you. How could you go and date a single lady who i believe was hoping for a serious relationship that is likely going to lead to marriage when you knew you were a married man. You just wasted her time and duped her. I pray your wife finds out and hates you.
ReplyDeleteYou don't want to break your wife's heart or you don't want your wife and the people she will get to didsclose your escapades to, to finally see how irresponsible and evil you are?
How can you someone that is already married go ahead and date a single lady when it wasn't that she personally put a Billboard on her head that she intentionally wants to be a side chick.
A million likes for this comment! poster read and digest this ..you're a mean person devoid of conscience..I hope everyone finds out what you've done,you're only sorry you got caught!..I hope the girl deals with you very well.
DeleteI am a victim of this too I dated a guy for 3years, he lied about almost everything including his age on his passport, none of his friends could tell me anything, all the times i wanted to visit he say he has relatives around, when I find out and confronted him, he asked me if I have seen any picture that shows he his married, but a woman is living under your roof, that was how I left him, let God judge him.
DeleteAlthough I don't support blackmailing but do you know the emotional damage you would have caused her?
Mscheww
ReplyDeleteYou see that lady,she will keep asking for more and more! She will never stop so is either you tell your wife or she will eventually tell her the day you can't meet up with the payment and just know that the amount will keep increasing and it will get to a stage where you will be finding it very difficult to meet up with her demands. Better go and beg your wife and put an end to that madness
ReplyDeleteSo which do you prefer? Telling your wify or not telling and allow the evil evil lady suck you dry financially.
ReplyDeleteThe guy is the evil one..the lady is even being nice sef
DeletePay her
ReplyDeleteCause what you did deserves punishment
Better don’t tell your wife
She may leave you
If the lady tells then configure it out from there
I don't feel pity for you. Hiding your marital status from the lady is a very devilish thing to do, but because I dislike divorce I will tell you this.
ReplyDeleteDon't tell your wife, she will not recover from it. Look for someone that lady respects, be it her pastor or her boss and engage them to beg her. Then give her a parting gift in their presence, make sure you pray on that gift that when she receives it, she should forget about you totally.
Magus Johnson had to confess to his wife all the cheating he was doing and his aids diagnosis at a time when no public figure had come out. His wife stayed with him.
ReplyDeleteYou can find the courage to tell your wife about your infidelity. Yes, it will break her heart but she will get over it. She may never look at you the same again, may get angry but high emotions are difficult to maintain over a long period, so she will come back down. Remember your vows and stick to them.
Does he have magic Johnson’s money and clout?
DeleteLolzzzzzz. Please help me ask oh. All these people that have beer money and champagne taste.
DeleteAnon 15.47 killed me with his or her comment
DeleteThe Most Complex B
Karma,,just open up to your wife and hope she forgives you,if not the lady will keep blackmailing you.
ReplyDeleteNo peace for the wicked 🤣
ReplyDeleteSome people won't say it's a woman that made up this chronicle now o..
ReplyDeleteBut let it just be about one woman talking about how she almost lost her husband when she was being toxic and following feminist.. you'll see the oversabis coming to say it was made up by a man..
As this one dey ridicule man now, of course, it's true and wasn't made up.
Mtcheew.
Oga you are a S!np and a weak man.. man up and stop being a sissy.. haba, na man be this
You want to drink your moi moi and have it abi? When you were asking her out you forgot you have a wife abi? How I wish I can tag your wife here.
ReplyDeleteMay people with good intentions always meet people with good intentions.
Akporoghene.
Good for you! So you deceived the lady pretending to be a single guy in order to gbensh her,how were you sleeping at night when you were performing this wicked act??? You're only regretting because she's now blackmailing you..I suspect that's not the only girl you've
ReplyDeletedeceived.. there's no sleep for the wicked oga, enjoy your sleepless nights and I hope she spills after getting all your money..no advice for you😏🙄
You are wicked. Why did you give someone the impression that you are not married where as you are a married man? Do you know how heart-broken it will be to the girl after discovering that you lied to her that you were single while you were dating? There are girls out there who wouldn't mind dating a married man but you didn't go for them, instead you chose to cause pain to a girl that is looking for true love. Wicked soul like you.
ReplyDeleteI won't be surprised if she's not the only one he has done that to, that was how one was toasting my friend,she noticed the imprint of the ring on his finger and challenged him, he now confessed to being married!imagine if she had not been observant..poster I hope she brings the gist online with your picture..that way all the people you're trying to appear responsible to will get to know how wicked you are!
DeleteI won’t judge your sin but regarding your problem: tell your wife. Blackmail thrives when secrets abound.
ReplyDeleteAn "eye for an eye"
ReplyDeleteGo hard on her. Threaten her , tell her to do her worse that you'll make her regret, shakara her. Don't give her a dime, go though on her, scare her. Let this teach you a lesson
ReplyDeleteAnd what if she’s not scared? What if it might heighten a new hatred and vow to teach this guy a lesson. Truth of the matter is, poster has been cheating on his wife and God allowed this to happen. Poster is about to face his karma. Next time you won’t do sh!t like this and stick to your vows. Or better still, don’t get married and enjoy your so called sinful life that you think it’s fun. 🤷🏽♀️ ps: if your wife finds out and she’s the loyal and lovey dovey woman, things might never be the same anymore. Especially if she has her own money. Hmmm goodluck.
DeleteWhat dnt you sit You Wife Down, Rather you can take her to a Fancy Restaurant oo, And Tell Her what Happen... ,is Not Easy shaa🙄
ReplyDeleteBut you gonna do it ooo
If not so She Won't stop Blackmailing you...
Hello iya Boys
God Abey ooo. Are you sure this is not your karma. You deceive someone and she is blackmailing. Yes tit for tat. Enjoy it while it last
ReplyDeleteConfess to your wife ,ask for forgiveness and buy some thing 🙂.
ReplyDeleteGo and confess.. she may and she MAY NOT tell.
ReplyDeletePoster,what you did was totally wrong,you hide your marital status just to toy with her emotions,I won't blame her at all,just report yourself to your wife or keep sending her money.
ReplyDeleteDon't confess to your wife, that may be the beginning of the end of your marital life. Change your number or block any way she can communicate with you and face front. If you runs into her ,pretend you don't know her and if she is acting up tell her it is over, and tell her to back off.
ReplyDeleteWahalard
ReplyDeleteThis is how many of you men put your wives in unnecessary danger. Your innocent wife is living her quiet life, thinking she's married to a faithful and responsible man. Meanwhile the scorned side chicken who already knows the wife, and most times monitor her, will just pop up one day and splash a bottle of acid into her face. You deserve whatever she's doing to you. What will it take for most men to stick to their wives and be faithful? Mtchewwww
ReplyDeleteMany married women in Nigeria are also cheating on their husbands with single and married guys - for economic reasons and "long throat"! But the cheating married men are always caught - the married women are too smart to be caught.
DeletePoster. This thing is simple. Don’t tell your wife anything.
ReplyDeleteTell the blackmailer that you have already told your wife everything and begged for her forgiveness and the blackmailer should go to hell. Call her bluff in a stern and laughing way. This is a risk worth taking.
If the blackmailer doesn’t believe and goes ahead to inform your wife, this is the time to fully confess to your wife and beg for forgiveness. No need packing before then.
To hell with the blackmailer.
Rat epidemic everywhere. Men be jumping into holes they have no business with. Agbayas listen: it's not always about the hole itself but the package it comes in. STOP JUMPING INTO HOLES!!
ReplyDeleteThat said..poster, get some local boys to pick her up, collect her phone and then buy her a new one and Tell her very clearly to avoid you or collect.
It's the 50cent principle...put r same money to proper use. She deserves the pay off, so get her a new phone afterwards and be done with it.
Rat epidemic everywhere. Men be jumping into holes they have no business with. Agbayas listen: it's not always about the hole itself but the package it comes in. STOP JUMPING INTO HOLES!!
ReplyDeleteThat said..poster, get some local boys to pick her up, collect her phone and then buy her a new one and Tell her very clearly to avoid you or collect.
It's the 50cent principle...put r same money to proper use. She deserves the pay off, so get her a new phone afterwards and be done with it.
But you're a very wicked man, having your own wife at home and wasting another woman's time and emotions, you deserve what's happening to you, the lady self should have done her findings before dating you.
ReplyDeleteBlackmailers don't stop, no matter the amount of money you give them, the only thing is to tell your wife, if she forgives you fine, and if she doesn't, that's your luck, but just know that the marriage will never be the same again, because your wife will know that you didn't feel remorse but only confess to her because of the blackmailing.
Why will you even start paying her? That's the begining of doom. You would have called her bluff. She wouldn't do anything
ReplyDeleteOpen up to your wife I pray she forgives you. If you allow your ex to feed your wife with the info forget about the marriage.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣see me as I dey laugh thank God ,you are caught I wish the girl continues milking you maybe many of you will learn lesson ,if you like tell your wife if you like continue deceiving yourself that she won't know, very soon,the matter will soon reach the public not only your wife.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't tell us how long you guys dated?
ReplyDeleteThat was very wicked of you alot of girls enter into relationship because they want to settle down see how you deceived her wasted her time, how do you want he to feel? Just look for a way ask for her forgive and same with your wife.
Be careful what you text or message a blackmailer. If she has other blackmail victims and anything negative happens to her, nobody will believe you did not do it. I see many BVs scolding the poster. He deserves it yet we should do so in a constructive way, not make him feel worse than he probably does as he has now has insomnia and anxiety (mental torture).
ReplyDeletePoster, you know & understand your wife better, tell her after softening the ground with a gift. It’s better you tell her so you both can work on a solution, two heads are better to a one. As a woman, married for 33 years who has had to forgive her husband of a near indiscretion before, I can tell you she will prefer being told. The risk of being known by an ex you don’t know is too high, in today’s dangerous world. Yes she will be very upset, may find it hard to trust you for sometime but you can & must work hard to earn that trust again. Don’t pay blackmailers, it never ends and nobody should blackmail, some do the unthinkable to blackmailers.
This comment section for don blow up if na woman send this story. Those broke ass boys for don crawl out of their holes by now.
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