Hmmmmmm....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
TOUGH DECISION TO MAKE
During their visit, she cunningly joined me in the Kitchen and knelt down to beg me not to say anything about our gbenshing but how can i keep quiet?I know that nobody is a saint but knowing that i gbenshed my elder brother wife will kill me..
I am also thinking, what if one day, this comes out? Or Okafors law rears its head?My borther and i are best friends and he knows that i gbenshed someone at that party but doesnt know its her..
What do i do?My brother is in love.....
Hmmmmm this is really sad and painful but you must tell your brother......Tell him and let him decide if he wants her or not and if he doesnt want her then he has to look for a very good excuse not to marry her...
Tell your brother ASAP!!!
Please send in your chronicles eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh
Bro the guilt of not telling your brother might hurt you.
ReplyDeletePlease tell him immediately, and if he accepts to proceed, then you know you have done your part.
DOZZYBEST.
Women/ladies beware of this gbenshing stuff. you go party, you collect, you follow for asoebi, you collect, you escort person, you open legs, even inside uber...haba
DeleteSee as this one take loose.
The society no dey favour women.
The lady messed up and set herself up for this. When she started getting serious with the elder brother, knowing his surname is similar to the guy she gbenshed once, she should have confirmed that they aren’t related. Except girls don’t even know the names of people they gbensh randomly.
DeleteLadies,
ReplyDeleteThis is another disadvantage of careless living.. it always boomerang in the near future.
DOZZYBEST.
Honestly not always
DeleteVery true.
DeleteWhy are you blaming the lady alone ? Did she gbensh herself? What about the brother that had one night stand with a stranger? Mcheeeww. If the brother no marry her another man will.
DeleteMr Adviser. I see you have only advised one of the parties.
DeleteThey had better keep shut,both of them.
It's not a big deal. You won't live with them. Go about your own life.
Let's not deceive ourselves, the ladies in situations like this are mostly likely the loser, no one will blame the guy for having one night stand with a stranger but the lady that want to be part of their family. Poster please tell your brother so you won't continue to live in guilt and to save yourself from future wahala, if she doesn't fill save around you she might change the narrative.
DeleteNeat cut the lady is being blamed bcos we ladies have more to lose than the guys. Who is now kneeling dwn and begging for the secret not to be let out? Is it not her? Y? Bcos it is looking like her long life dream of getting married is one man’s decision away from being truncated. Blv it or not, the way we ladies carry this marriage of a thing is not how the men see it.
DeleteNa wa o
ReplyDeleteThis here is really a case of DO NOT MIND YOUR BUSINESS. Since it may come out one day, abeg tell ur bros. If it's me, I'll tell o
Asawo no dey change let him abort mission before she gives him another man child
ReplyDeleteSo poster is what then?
DeleteThe guy too na ashawo or did the lady gbensh herself?
DeleteThis one hard pass me, I'll read comments.
ReplyDeleteEven if I am not best of friends with that my brother, I will still tell him and allow him make his decision.
ReplyDeleteIf he chooses to still wife her, I would stay far from that new family.
Ladies and gentlemen make una try dey live right.
Omooooo….as a lady pls don’t eh ?
ReplyDeletethe same way you would like your brother to tell you if this happened... please tell your brother... Let him decide if he wants to continue with the relationship once he knows.... this is one of the risks/dangers of pre-marital sex and one night stands...
ReplyDeleteYour allegiance is to your brother. Not a stranger you did something with. Tell him but under no circumstance should any of you treat that lady with disrepect. Because you are as guilty as her.
ReplyDeleteYou are very correct!
DeleteYou are a cunning man
ReplyDeleteI see what you did here
Regardless if I’m your brother
I will marry her
Imagoes law in this situation lies with you
This is more a test of you than her
You choose to swipe her again or not
Are you a good brother
Are you a weak man
If I be the girl I for first you tell am
Nothing Dey happen
Men are scum indeed
ReplyDeletePoster, tell your brother Asap. Don't wait till tomorrow. Truth is that, he will find out someday. He slept with you once, what about others she has been sleeping with?
ReplyDeleteThis woman here is an olosho. Is it what you want for your blood? Which sensible woman f**ks on a one night stand? It's her profession. Or didn't you pay her that night? I would understand if you had said both of you dated briefly before the knack.
As painful as it may be, your brother need to make the choice but he needs to know.
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I have just one question to ask you. Please, "Which SENSIBLE MAN f**KS on a one night stand"?
DeleteShe's an olosho? Did she have the one night stand with herself? What name would you call the poster then?
DeleteThe emphasis is on the the woman here pls. She's the one about to be married. So let's stick on that.
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@ Teejay why should the emphasis be just on the lady and not both of them. I was having this exact discussion with my friends and I was and still of the opinion that us as women should be wary of our lifestyle cos A woman and a man will live a wayward live and when this scenario plays out the lady always takes the blame and is called an olosho and all sort and at the end of it all you now meet someone who you feel is your all in one and your karma comes knocking. Let’s do better abeg😒😒😒. Between poster tell your brother let him decide what he wants to do but none of you should treat or spoke to her anyhow cos you sef slept with a lady you don’t know from anywhere.
DeleteThis is serious matter. If I were you I will let the past to die a natural death and please don't allow okafors law to repeat
ReplyDeleteI hate to get in the way of love so I won’t tell
ReplyDeleteSame . Why will Okafors law come in?. Are morally corrupt ehn poster.?. Abeg face your front and mind your business
DeleteSame here,moreover it's in the past.🙄🙄🙄
DeleteTell your brother before she said something bad about you to your brother so that you won't be close again once she married your brother ,pls tell him and tell him now so that he can make his decision and any future behavior from her won't be strange to you and him .Women are wicked better talk and talk now
ReplyDeleteWomen are wicked? Must you add that part? Wickedness cuts across both gender please.
DeleteTor, to be on the safe side, tell your brother if that won't make you or her want to gbensh each other a second time
ReplyDeleteFor accountability sake, your brother needs to know
Dear Poster, The deed has been done but I have a problem with your gloating and almost gleefully that you might end a relationship.......You be real Oko Ashawo.......You have a lot of growing up to do; this calls for deep reflections...
ReplyDeleteI know it takes 2 to tango but how are you separating yourself from the whole episode like she slept with herself.....Tell him and let us know what the outcome is? I just wish she didn't have to beg you at all...
All the best....
So in essence what are you saying? I want to understand your point pls.
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Imagine @ Phoenix…I wonder why she begged. See him talking about Okafors law. So conceited!
DeleteIf she doesn’t marry your brother, she will marry someone else.
Mtscheeeeeeeeeew
You must tell him.
ReplyDeleteOh dear .
ReplyDeletePlease tell Ur brother ..this is one of the results of living a carefree life..
Tell your brother please
ReplyDeleteYou should tell your brother pls, He might even forgive her sef. Na wa o.
ReplyDeleteYeye dey smell. Which responsible man sleeps with a total stranger on their first meeting (one night stand). Now you're acting like a saint meanwhile the two of you are two sides of the same coin...
ReplyDeleteI know deep down you don't want your brother to marry her, so just go ahead and do your thing.
Women make una dey learn 🤧
Very irresponsible guy!
DeleteThe three of you are irresponsible and deserve each other because for you to be comfortable enough to regale your brother about your sexcapades means both of you are birds of a feather. The girl isn’t any worse than you both.
DeleteAbeg, keep her in your family!
Actions have consequences! Tell him. Not telling him will be messy.
ReplyDeletePlease tell your brother, it's very important
ReplyDelete@Poster, go and do HIV test even your bros too.
DeleteI know a story like this and the elder bro and the girl are still waxing stronger in the relationship. Girl is madly in love but I have fears he won't marry her Sha.
ReplyDeleteWow. I feel bad for her. Our past mistakes can catch up with us sometimes. The relationship would obviously crash
ReplyDeleteWhat is She begging You For
ReplyDeleteWithout Being Told is She Suppose To go Ahead With The Marriage plan
If I were her I will give Excuse o not To Marry Your Brother ..
Hello iya Boys
The lady herself should have even abort mission on discovery you're the one ...... One day it will come back hurting everyone, either the lady tells it all or either you do, let your brother know the truth and set yourself free.
ReplyDeleteDo not tell your brother anything, never be a banana peel to your brother. You too committed same crime but you are painting the lady bad. Allow your brother to do his findings BT himself, respect hwr decision and act like an adult. If you destroy your brother's happiness because you want to prove a point, remember he may never forgive you.
ReplyDeleteJust take your eyes off her and never you try any shit with her again. Some person here have done worst than she has done, sabi is another lady that will marry you tomorrow with this your terrible attitude of sleeping with a girl you met same night.
If na you, you go tell o
DeleteThere are no two way about it Poster, the right thing to do is tell him. He will be left with making whatever decision he makes.
ReplyDeleteEvery decision we make in life has consequences and that is why we must not do things without giving a thought.
I just pray the lessons are learnt by all parties involved.
Poster, just like yesterday's chronicle, there is some cover-up that can ransome the peace of one's conscience. Your guilt isn’t the real issue; your integrity is. So, I get it, the uneasiness of being stuck between loyalty to your brother and the weight of a past mistake that won’t sit quietly - the present weight and likely cost of silence.
ReplyDeleteIf you truly value your brother, give him the full picture - without embellishment or judgment - and let him decide. The truth may shake him, but a lie by omission will eventually shatter him. Though, you are equally guilty if the tables were turned. Only that as a man, you hold the ace here - society made it so. It's always the woman's fault, but it takes two to tango. The truth always finds a way out, and if it comes from someone else, it’ll hit harder.
Love without honesty is like a foundation of sand; it may stand today but will crumble tomorrow. Your brother deserves to make his own choice with all the facts. Yes, it’ll hurt, but a lighter pain - hiding it wouldn’t erase what happened. If he chooses love, stand by him. If he walks away, let him heal - respect his pain. Either way, honesty now is better than betrayal later. We often tell ourselves that what's in the past should be left to the past, but we do forget that what’s buried alive has a way of clawing to the surface - what you choose to do next will define tomorrow.
Poster pls tell your brother for your own safety. The lady might plan for you and accuse wrongly just to keep you shut. She may accuse you of attempted rape or she may throw herself at you and start sleeping with you to keep you shut.
ReplyDeleteThe worst is that she may kill you, yes she can or even set you up and send you to jail.
Pls tell your brother fast
Whatever decision you take please come back and update us.
ReplyDeleteTell your brother he supposed to know Sha and he fit forgive her beacause three of una be Olosho you do one night stand likewise him do with another woman that night so una be asewo association simple 🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteSome comments sha ,dont forget blackmailing please both of you should tell your brother .
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