In a recent interview with ferititude ,she said......
"A lot of stillbirths are due to negligence, it's either the doctor is not sound or the nurses didn't do their job in due time or they arrived the hospital late.
My kidney failed, my heart became weak, my liver... everything was just shutting down, she had detached from the placenta, if I was a second late, she would have lost oxygen and I would have had a stillbirth.
Everytime I look at her, I say what if?the what's ifs eh, they tormented me, they tormented me so much that I just look at her and, even just remembering it, am getting so nervous because what if the doctor was not attentive, what if the nurses didn't do their die diligence, the what if we're so many and they hunted me for a while, I had to get a therapy to walk me through being grateful , about how about all the Thank God's, that I got there on time, thank God we thought about the car, thank God the doctor was sound, thank God the nurse did her job".
"A lot of stillbirths are due to negligence, it's either the doctor is not sound or the nurses didn't do their job in due time or they arrived the hospital late.
My kidney failed, my heart became weak, my liver... everything was just shutting down, she had detached from the placenta, if I was a second late, she would have lost oxygen and I would have had a stillbirth.
Everytime I look at her, I say what if?the what's ifs eh, they tormented me, they tormented me so much that I just look at her and, even just remembering it, am getting so nervous because what if the doctor was not attentive, what if the nurses didn't do their die diligence, the what if we're so many and they hunted me for a while, I had to get a therapy to walk me through being grateful , about how about all the Thank God's, that I got there on time, thank God we thought about the car, thank God the doctor was sound, thank God the nurse did her job".
Pregnancy and the labour room is not for the faint hearted at all.stories like this make me shiver ...
That’s why I couldn’t stay in the room for my kids. I probably would still be dealing with the trauma till now. There are a lot of miracles we take for granted. The miracle of carrying and delivering safely, the miracle of going out and coming back, the miracle of sleeping and waking up etc. May God have mercy on us
ReplyDeleteAmen o 🙏 Many blessings we cannot see. Thank God for you Bambam.
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Thank God!
ReplyDeleteThank God for her 🙏 some women don't live to tell the story
ReplyDeleteAbruptio ppacenta , especially if it occurred the way she recounts , can't just be pinned on negligence. It's not that simple. She should be grateful the Doctor had a high index of suspicion and the intervention was fast enough...but then abruptio do Not just happen. There's usually a 'trigger'.
ReplyDeleteAll in all, happy it turned out well for her. I guess she also had the post partum blues/depression.
Thank God
ReplyDeleteThank God
ReplyDeleteGod be praised...
ReplyDeleteThank You Jesus 🙏
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
Thank God for safe delivery.
ReplyDeleteGod be praised
ReplyDeleteWas about to scroll past but this caught my eye.
ReplyDeleteIf this really happened, then that is a very very very lucky baby. Well-done to mother and baby
Very scary experience. Thank God for his grace. 🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteWe give God the praise for safe delivery.
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