MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Man crush Monday hailings.....

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My people how una dey? I pity any body wey no get Data this time because everywhere...lol

let me quickly post in house news, my phone has been ringing back to back..............Have a nice day ya all...

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LEARN TO LISTEN

I know you have a lot to say and air out, but practice more listening than talking.
Relationships are built on communication, and communication is a two-way road.
It's not just about expressing yourself, but also about listening to the other person.

When you listen, you show that you value and respect your partner. Even if what they are saying doesn’t make sense to you.
You show that you care about their thoughts, their feelings, and their experiences.

Even as a parent, you often find yourself lecturing, advising, and guiding your children.
But when you take the time to listen to them, you start to understand their perspectives, fears, feelings, and concerns. Copied
The truth is bitter but it must be spoken. Listen up, Men! If she can’t take instructions, don’t take her just let her go!
This gender equality of a thing is really destroying Marriage /Relationship in today's life.

A woman who refuses to accept rules, accountability, or structure has no place in a relationship or marriage with you. Let her stay single and enjoy her so-called freedom in the streets, where she can do as she pleases without anyone asking questions. Relationships and marriages thrive on mutual respect, accountability, and shared responsibilities. Without these, it’s not a partnership—it’s chaos.
In a serious relationship, there are certain expectations that come with the territory. Constant communication is non-negotiable. You share your thoughts, your plans, and your goals. 

You account for your actions because trust is built on transparency. And when you’re wrong, you must have the humility to apologize and make amends.

 These are basic principles that form the foundation of a healthy relationship. If she can’t handle these, she’s not ready to be with you—or anyone else, for that matter

But here’s the problem:
Modern relational women have become so wrapped up in their pride and ego that they think they’re above accountability. They want the perks of being in a relationship—security, love, support—but they don’t want the responsibilities that come with it. They’ve been sold a fantasy of “independence” and “freedom” that’s entirely at odds with what it takes to build a stable, lasting union. These women are more concerned with proving they don’t need a man than with nurturing a connection. They think apologizing is weakness, that compromise is oppression, and that accountability is control.

Let me tell you something, Men:
If she balks at the idea of accountability, let her go. Don’t waste your time trying to mold her into someone she’s not willing to be. A relationship is not a dictatorship, but it does require boundaries and agreements. If she’s unwilling to communicate, share her thoughts, or take responsibility for her actions, she’s not relationship material. And the worst part? These women will often gaslight you, making you feel like you’re “too controlling” for simply asking for basic respect and communication.

Let her go back to the streets you picked her from, that's where she belongs.
The streets don’t demand accountability. The streets don’t require respect. Out there, she can live her life chasing fleeting thrills, hopping from one fling to another, with no thought of stability or growth. 

God knows all, let's respect men as he established. 

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WEIRDFACTS
Overgeneralization is a thought pattern where we take one negative experience and incorrectly apply it to all similar situations.
This bias can really damage our relationships by making us miss the unique individuals and positive experiences that disprove these broad, unfair assumptions.

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Sandwiches "taste better" when they're made by someone else
When you make your own, you anticipate its taste, and become less hungry for it

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Avocados are actually very large berries

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Your brain weighs about three pounds

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Ultracrepidarian (noun): A person who gives opinions on subjects they know nothing about

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Hypnagogia (noun):
The transitional state of consciousness between awakening and sleep

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