He said: "Don't believe in what this our culture brings, that you as the husband, you are the head of the family, when you come, you frown your face, that you're there as a father and you'll be opening your hand, 'Where's my food?'
"Who told you that she has to cook for you? Nowhere. Nobody. It's at her own volition; because she wants to make you happy, she wants to enter Aljannah, and she's going extra mile.
"Wallahi, at times, when I go to my house, they say there is no food. My wife here, she can testify."
The bride and groom are seen listening attentively....
Oga that is how you choose to handle your home, allow your son in law do things his way too, or is he saying this because of his daughter. Will he still say the same to his daughter in-law.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you. I am a hausa girl from kano and believe me he won’t say this if the guy was his son, marrying another man’s daughter.
DeleteThis one dey find s!mp for him daughter.. hope he raised her well..
ReplyDeleteNa their business tho, wetin concern me..
Maybe I missed the part of him also telling his daughter that she should also be providing for the home and fix the hard works in the house, also do the mechanic runnings and all without waiting for the husband..
Nonsense
I didn’t hear him telling the man to carry a child in his womb for 9 months and spend the next one year or more breastfeeding her. Or did I miss that part?
DeleteMaybe you should also add that the wife should impregnate herself,. That's another part you missed
DeleteDon't also forget the part of the man going to obodo oyibo to enjoy when their child gives birth in future the same way wife goes
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ReplyDeleteMy wifey must surely do the cooking... I will often assist her in the kitchen too and demand for my food to be served "decently"
DeleteWith due respect make this papa up here keep His advise to himself now.....
You dnt teach a man how to build his home.. the wife MUST COOK
Most men believe only their own daughters deserve happiness 😂
ReplyDeleteWhen they treat the rest of womanhood like shyt, they expect their daughters to be pampered and protected.
DeleteAnon 14.14 na soooo
DeleteThe Most Complex B
In the words of Ye..Niggas is pimps, niggas is players, till niggas have daughters, now they precautious.
ReplyDeleteCooking isn't a big deal, why do men see it as such a big deal for their wives to cook, who made these laws?
ReplyDeleteYou see hypocrites it is your daughter turn you are talking from both sides of the mouth. I hope he would be made to speak same to the son when he gets attsvhrr to someone's daughter.
ReplyDeleteThis advise doesn't sit well with me sha. I think they should have told the guy this before the marriage so he'll know what's he's getting himself into. With this kind of father, the girl go dey misbehave o, cos the father will be backing her up. Anyway awon edible caterers plenty for outside
ReplyDeleteWhat an advice
ReplyDeleteI think it's rather the groom's dad oo or did I miss it? I saw it earlier on ig.
ReplyDeleteMen Must Cooklicious
ReplyDeleteUna dey Fear to Cook
Abeg ga Cook Jaweee.
Hello iya Boys
Hmmm, Papa but you forget to tell them that marriage no get a particular formula eeh,😳 ok continue..
ReplyDeleteAll i know is - if you do anyhow with this man's daughter, you will see anyhow from him. He has said his own wife is not obligated to cook for him and i see nothing wrong in what he is reminding his son -in-law off. Wife, not cook...
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