If you worked in a Federal parastatal and your boss asks you whether you have someone who needs a job, that he(boss) has a job slot, would you give it to your partner or your sibling?
Well, I would gladly give it to my dear wife.
My friend on the other hand gave it to his sister.His wife who is a business woman and runs her business from home got wind of it and all hell broke loose.
When I asked him why he did that, he said sister is a single mum and needs a stable job to care for her children. Also, his wife is very stubborn, vindictive and vengeful. She may get the job and start misbehaving, he can't give her. See mentality!
I told him that if he gives his wife a Federal job and she probably leaves him tomorrow, his children will be well taken care of.
He should overlook her behavior and consider her next time. He ageeed. Case close.
Are there people who reason like this?
He made the correct choice
ReplyDeleteI will give to all my sibling first before I give to my wife,nor be my friend go tell me what to do,I love my wife with all my heart but I will always consider my siblings first in certain issues.
ReplyDeletePeople are really married to their semi enemies sha
DeleteMy partner
ReplyDeleteWell, I would gladly give it to anyone that really needs, it could be family, friend or a church member.
ReplyDeleteMy sister got a govt job through her church member, does that means the person didn't find anyone worthy in her family.
Single mother sef don suffer...
I tell you. Even good jobs some would deny a single mother, just because she is unmarried. What a wicked world that anyone would covet something a sole parent was able to get that can better their family's economic security.
DeleteI have someone on this table
ReplyDeleteHe said whenever his boss has a job slot and wants to give him, he tells the boss to sell the slot and give him money instead because his wife is not reliable. His boss gives him 1million sometimes. Meanwhile his wife is a full housewife.
Makes me even wonder how much a job slot in the national Assembly costs
Job slot cost o. Depends on the type of job. There are some jobs that a slot starts from 1million naira according to one of my uncles who works in ministry of foreign affairs
DeleteYou're a very wise man. He was thinking about his sister's children welfare and didn't think about his own incase anything happens and his wife becomes a single mom, the kids will be well taken care of
ReplyDeleteHonestly,both are very important.
ReplyDeletePoster give your wife na, it's your choice and your friend has made his choice. Why judge him? Dear wife my foot.
ReplyDeleteI think he gave the slot to the person that need it most. He gave it to his sister not an outsider or sell it like some people will do.
ReplyDeleteHe Made The Right Choice
ReplyDeleteAfter All Wifey dey Her Husband House And Doing Business..
God Bless Him For Putting Food On The Table of Her Sister..
Atlist Sister no go dey Disturb him Brother..
Hello iya Boys
I will give it to my spouse before considering any other person.
ReplyDeleteBased on her behavior I won’t give that wife
ReplyDeleteShe will spoil my name with the boss and I may even get fired
You have to think about this when you refer people
To each his own poster. Your own wife is good but his own wife is not good according to him. Don't push him to do what he will regret in future.
ReplyDeleteAlso, not all kids are well taken care of after a woman becomes a divorcee or widow, some women will dump their older kids with family and face the new husband and the new kids.
My sister because it would make her independent. I would be free of the burden of taking care of her and her child. If I give my wife, I will still be providing for my family.
ReplyDeleteHow can you give your wife over your sister who is "a single mother" ? You have mind o. It would have been understandable if the sister was married, but in this she is single and a single mother at that. How can you watch your sister suffer and you have the opportunity to make life comfortable her as a single mom sister and you will be contemplating on it?
ReplyDeleteThis poster head no use style correct or maybe he just likes to sound like a good person though he failed woefully on this one. Your friend made the right decision, his wife is a successful business woman and you still want him to give her a job when your his sister is jobless?
ReplyDeleteWhere did he mention that his wife was a successful business woman?
DeleteA successful business woman that operates from their home?
And why insult him? Can you tell your father that his head 'no use style correct?"
Do you mean he was not willing to give his wife at all even if another slot comes in future?
ReplyDeleteWell that's not good enough.
Anyway, he wears the shoes
I honestly will do the same thing your friend did whether or not my wife is nice. My sister will become our family burden eventually if she has nothing doing. If my wife still has something doing, I will wait for another opportunity to present itself then I can consider her. Because whether or not my wife is working, I will still be providing for my family.
ReplyDeleteTo me he did the right thing. Afterall his wife has a business and he too is working and the sister is the only one catering for her children. His decision will even relieve him. When another slot comes, his wife will get.
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