Hmmmmmmm....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDED
Good day, SDK Family.
There's something that's been on my mind, I'll go straight to the point. I'm 27, a virgin and I intend abstaining from s#x until marriage.
I met this guy recently who has been talking marriage and I already told him that we take our time and first get to know each other better. He is a nice person and possesses qualities I want in a man.
We got talking lately and he mentioned he has a small sized p*n*s. I didn't think much of it and thought he was probably joking until he mentioned it again in another conversation.
Now here's my question, does the size really matter? Is this something I should be worried about? I've never had s#x and I wouldn't want an unfulfilled s#xual life in marriage.
I'll really appreciate your responses.
Thank you.
Hmmm to be honest before anything is done is good but this small thing he is talking about, I hope that it is not like the last finger? Because he has informed you twice, meaning it is serious....Please if you guys see again, ask him to show you so that you can decide....Make him feel comfortable and subtly demand to see it...DO NOT MARRY HIM without first seeing the first of what he is alerting you about.......Since you have not gbenshed before, you will not know how you will react to the first time and if it is small and you feel nothing, wahala dey!
Why should the size of his manhood be a concern to you at this tender stage?
ReplyDeleteYou guy's should know each other fess before talking about sex.
Have you asked the Holy Spirit if he's the man for you? have you checked his background and other important info??
Leave Preeq now, as that one no be serious issue.
DOZZYBEST.
27 tender age kwa😳😳
DeleteDear poster it's not by size o, can he use it well?? Some men carry weapon but can't use it
You are a virgin, you are still tight, i hope for you sake he is good in bed, no one deserves to keep their virginity for that long to now have bad sexual experience 🥺
27 tender age kwa😳😳
DeleteDear poster it's not by size o, can he use it well?? Some men carry weapon but can't use it
You are a virgin, you are still tight, i hope for you sake he is good in bed, no one deserves to keep their virginity for that long to now have bad sexual experience 🥺
God, I beg you. Protect my three boys. Na you create dem, no be dem create themselves. I will not be happy if my sons are judged by the bulge in their pants rather than the quality of their hearts.
DeleteBody shaming is disgusting!
You're joking, right?🙄
DeleteNa matter
DeleteDemand to see it and come and tell us. Maybe he can get erect, and check the inches.
Don't be fooled that it doesn't matter
Check his index finger to know the size 🙄 or romance him Small so when he get elected you touch it simple
DeleteIs your choice we can't choose for you
You should be worried..sex is an important part of marriage..
ReplyDeletePoster I will be honest with you...Size matters wella!! Like it matters! matters!! matters a lot....While I understand that you are a virgin, s3x is very importakpa....You see say I add Igbo to the word important....It is one of the top leading causes of divorce along with Finance....That being said....
DeleteWhat I will tell you to do is a risk because if he gets there, he will want to knack you and you sef fit go do am because you are curious to eat the forbidden fruit.....
While I will say he mentioned it twice and there is an element of truth and sincerity in his voice, he may want to say that to increase your curiousity to find out his size and may want to seduce and knack you.......
Now back on what to do, when both of you are together, there is a way you will touch a man that will get him aroused, make sure he is wearing a pair of pant trousers not jeans so you can see his 'mamba' when it is wake.....Even when wake no mean say e go shot live rounds....
Some men don't have huge mambas but they can turn you like a DJ table while some men with big joystick but it is just a stick with no joy......
Once you have established that the size of his mamba is the size, length and width that you want (Did you see the dimensions I mentioned)...Then you both can do fertility test to be sure he is carrying live rounds not blank bullets.....
With these steps, you can retain your virginity and both of you are happy till you get married....
I hope I have been able to convince you....Be sharp oh no dull at all....Ehen!!
All the best.....
He didn't create himself. Some guys are big for nothing they'll just damage your cervix for nothing tomorrow you'll they have weak cervix baby can't stay. The weapon is in how you use it not size. I'm happy he's honest too. If you like big gbola pls free him fast.
ReplyDeleteHow small is it???
ReplyDeleteShe has not seen it yet, Candy.
DeletePoster may God guide you as make that decision
Some people check by playfully touching it or seeing how erect it is when aroused. For him to mention it twice seems he is not comfortable with it, make sure it is what you can leave with, marriage is not a joke or a game
DeleteJoan, I know she hasn't seen it. Since he has mentioned it more than once, I'm wondering if he also told her the size.
DeleteNot that I advice it o but this uncertainty is one of the cons of not testing before marriage.Abi how you go know how when you no fit test and there’s nothing worse than a man having a small dick with a very sexually active wife. Sexual frustration is real in marriages too. Think about it well poster.
ReplyDeleteYou are a virgin and intends to get married as a virgin, nothing concern you concern size of dick. As long as it stands and can father a child, if you love the man, Go ahead. The size of the dick does not really matter for a virgin or someone with low millage. Some have trailer size but can't satisfy a woman while some with moderate size will make you cry for more.
ReplyDeleteSo what happens after she has given birth??
DeleteJikwelunu nwanyo na enye advise.😎
This one is not true oh!
DeleteDon’t let anyone tell you that the size doesn’t matter because you’re a virgin.
There are variations within the normal size and that will not matter. But there are some that are really small, that will barely enter well. Once you begin to enjoy sex, after the first few times, you most probably will want an average sized D.
Best for you to verify the size. Maybe you ask him plainly if he can show you.
This is a delicate issue, ask God first then check his personality and other important things also before you conclude based on size. But my sis seeeh for him to tell u abt the size thing hmmmm
ReplyDeleteThat guy is really big down there(opposite)well for the fact you are a virgin, u can cope sha mehn!!!!Ara agbalaaa advisor I don't know what to advise again
Check it na
ReplyDeleteSize matters
Too small will be an issue that only you can decide if you’re okay with
This really cracked me, we no go decide for you dear, follow your heart. What he is testing you so that you can come out and test and see. , may be as you are curious now
ReplyDeleteTry to see it.
ReplyDeleteIf you have a high libido back out.
Personally, I would go for him cos streets dey red , plus I’m not really into sex like that. I’m ok with vibrators etc
If you’re not into sex, you have no business using vibrators.
DeleteMake una sufri dey lie.
Poster you better back out.
15:46 read again pls
DeleteYou don’t really a big gbola although extra small will be a problem.
ReplyDeleteNothing like a gbola that fills up and hits your gspot. You’ll just be speaking in tongues 🤣😫
Kai! Can’t wait to see my husband 😋
You don’t really a big gbola although extra small will be a problem.
ReplyDeleteNothing like a gbola that fills up and hits your gspot. You’ll just be speaking in tongues 🤣😫
Kai! Can’t wait to see my husband 😋
My dear size matters o
ReplyDeleteHave you been pounded before and you can barely speak? 🥹
Thank him for his sincerity but what if he was just joking and you see it and it is BIG what will you do? because so boys uses that to lure girls into sex against their will because bif his gbola is big?you will be tempted to ask for action,and you might be hooked .Somebody has done that before,it opens a gate of unending genshing and at last they didn't marry
ReplyDeleteIt’s easy to say it doesn’t matter until u get married and lack sexual satisfaction. Just saying 🤷🏾♀️
ReplyDeleteLeave dem make dem dey lie give am. Will she be a virgin forever? In your thirties, the way a woman’s libido skyrockets ehn… it will not be good for you to be married and be wishing for what is outside.
DeleteCheck, if na average, nothing to worry about.
ReplyDeleteBut if na finger battery, nwanne gbawakwa door.😎
What if your son or brother have that can of size will your reply remain the same?
DeleteI like the fact,he was honest from the get go. Poster the choice is yours entirely. For me the size and usage matters.
ReplyDeleteHe can be a grower, where the man is quite small naturally but gets larger when erect. There are a million and one things that a couple can do to arouse themselves and have pleasure during intimacy. A big penis is not necessary, and not every woman can easily deal with a big or long man. All v@ginas are not the same, some are shallow, others are deep, some are narrow and others are wide. Every penis has its fit, but we cannot sleep with everyone to find out if they are right, so we have to pray to God that we are aligned mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically with our intended. God knows our bodies and who is right physically for us. So seek divine guidance.
ReplyDeleteThe next time he brings it up, ask him plainly if he can get and maintain an erection. Ask him if he has had complaints from other women about his size. Tell him to put faith in God and to pray for what he needs to pleasure his wife and to align him with a woman whose body is created to be a perfect fit for him. Tell him that there is nothing that God cannot do and instead of lamenting to pray for good health and the right connection.
In the end he may not be the right man for you and as you seek clarity from the Creator you will eventually know.
When you want to buy a car or a property with your life savings, please don’t test drive it or go for thorough inspection o. Just close your eyes and buy it. Mtcheeew…
ReplyDeleteDo you know you can not guarantee the love and respect a man claims he has for you until he has slept with you? The person you are keeping the virginity for, I hope he kept his for you? Virginity guarantees ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IN MARRIAGE. And do you know that not every virgin bleeds when broken. What if after keeping it he begins to doubt if you are really a virgin or a refurbished virgin? A 27 year old that should be carefree and enjoying her youth?
Please keep it and leap with your eyes closed if it makes you feel superior.
Leave her alone
DeleteHer choice is not yours
I don’t like oversabi life
I gave my virginity at 31 and I didn’t bleed. And really, he doesn’t believe I was a virgin and I feel bad. My sister is also of the opinion that if a man is still obsessed with you even after seeing you at your “lowest”that is the man to treasure. After sex, their eye clears and the true colours comes out.
DeleteI thought it’s only women they use car metaphor to describe 🤣🤣🤣.
Deleteposter size does not really matter but how well a man can use it matter, you know everyone has their preferences. You may prefer small while another prefers big, in all you do and before you say yes to forever with you just try and check the size to be sure that is all that you want. Do not enter with the hope is okay and while you are in you want to run out, since you don't want to taste before you say yes please find away out to confirm what you will be keeping forever with a day after.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not a day job for one to take some chances , the s** is very important in every marriage. Please pay close attention to it and never you assume anything in your relationship until you are very sure of it.
Dear Poster
ReplyDeleteOne step at a time
Have you asked GOD about him if he is the right man for you? Never take away the God factor, we know Segx is important in marriage but there are so many marriages breaking down even with all the great segx.
i remember years ago there was a chronicle poster who was about to marry a man with small p**** and after listening to naysayers and yaysayers she eventually went with her heart and married him. Only for her to return and share how thankful she was she went with her heart, because her hubby's size ended up being perfect for her. if memory serves me correctly she also got pregnant.
ReplyDeleteposter, please dont let size be the determinant for you to continue in the relationship. It may just be that he is insecure about it, compared to other males he knows who have bigger ones. if he has good character, he is loving and kind and you know in your heart he is the best person for you, then proceed with the relationship... if it's God's will the two of you will enter a fulfilling and life long marriage.
i wish you all the best!
Try and feel it .So you will know the level of the small.
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