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TUMULTUOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH AN OLDER LYING MAN

Hello Ms Stella....
Please I need your advice on this matter.
I am a single lady in her middle 30's. I have a good paying job and still living in my parents house (one hell I'd love to be out of as soon as possible)

I happen to meet a superior in my place of work who is far older than me. He asked me out, he's in his late 50 and since age is just a number, I decided we go into a relationship. I knew he had kids but he told me he does not have any woman in his life except me which was kind of okay for me. That means I have no woman to drag positions with me, so I thought.

The relationship wasn't up to a month, he started monitoring my movements, calling me at odd hours knowing fully well that I've got to be awake very early the next day and prepare for work.
He calls at 1am and gets mad that I don't pick his calls or didn't pick it on time.
I told him I do not like his attitude and that he's suffocating me and he apologized, telling me to understand him.

He entertains gossip about me from my colleagues and uses whatever he heard from them about me to insult me later.
He would not take me to my house until past 11pm or sometimes past 12am. I have complained about this times without number, but he is so selfish that he only cares about himself. I used to be a lady with a very nice figure, but now I'm shapeless because I do not eat on time and I'll sleep almost immediately after eating so as to wake up early the next day and prepare for work. So I'm fat now, all thanks to the selfish man, he wouldn't even let me hit the gym because another man will be touching me in the name of being an instructor.

If I'm sick, he doesn't care, all he cares about is for me to lay in the hotel bed for him to have s*x with. I do not know his house or family and we have been going to the hotel to have s*x for over one year now. He only takes me to see his friends. He isolates me and won't let me go and see my married siblings and even friends at beer parlour everyday, he'll tell me he's not going to accept that. When we close from work, I have to wait for him to finish whatever he's doing before I'll be able to go home, if I go, he'll tell me I've gone to meet another man.

I don't have time for myself and he has automatically turned me into his female escort, I don't have a day in my own life again, I dress like an old woman because I don't want him to complain about my dressing, before he'll say I'm trying to seduce another man. I have practically become a shadow of myself. 

He once slapped me because I told him I want my freedom. I can't talk to male colleagues, he'll accuse me of sleeping with them, but female colleagues can enter into his own office and when I complain, he tells me he's a boss and he can relate with anybody anyhow. I can't talk to other guys, but he flirts with every girl and makes me feel guilty for all the shits he's doing. I endured all these, until I decided to report him to one of his friends and the friend made me realise he can't take me home because he's got a wife at home. 

He has a wife and he wasted my own time for over a year. I confronted him, and he told me it's a lie that he has no woman at home. If I ask him how he would feel if a man treats any of his daughters the way he treats me, he'll tell me I'm cursing his children.
When I'm sick, he'll refuse me a doctor's appointment because he feels they might want to admit me or nah man go wan attend to me.

I told him to get me an accommodation, he said so that I can bring men home, okay let me get my own place, he said the place I'll get will not be beffiting for him to come see me. He prefers me staying with my mom, despite knowing the troubles I go through in that house.
Now he's wasting my time because I'm not getting younger and I don't even have time for other suitors because he's always monitoring my life.
The most annoying thing here is that he sees nothing wrong with everything he's doing... He has so pushed me to the wall that I no longer have any respect for him except being my boss in the office.
How do I get out of this great mistake of my life?

I'm able to bear it for this long because I'm a very soft hearted person and I don't like to hurt people.

I have told him times without numbers that I don't want the relationship again, we should end and just act like the normal boss and sorbidinate, but he refuses and would ask me if he is begging me to stay with him. I told him yes, he is. He should just free me.

He's in no position to make me lose my job, as my own position sef use style strong small. (eyes rolling)
This is how far I can narrate because the story is still long and annoying.
No be say nah money him dey give me, shey I for don open provision shop like this...
I am fed up.

*Do you pity yourself? Cos pity is all i felt for you reading through.

That a lady that is over 30 years old, an adult oh, cannot stand up for herself and allows a man use her and her tohtoh like something he bought from a shopping mall.......So even after you heard from his friend that he cannot take you to his house because he is married, you asked him and he denied and you still continued giving him your ponyor and deceiving yourself?End that thing right now before i stretch my hand and land you the dirtiest E Slap ever!!!!....END IT NOW!!!