During an interview with TVC's "Your View", he noted that some men may not place high value on relationships due to do many options available to them.
In his words;
"I would like to say that I do not speak for Nigerian Men specially, I speak for myself and I feel like I don't have that problem cause I've not been in that situation but what I've heard from my friend's talking, some of them are really good men but the communication that is put in the table is not as open as possible and some things that they may have noticed that are red flags for them and they can't exactly communicate to you cause maybe because they don't want to hurt your feelings or maybe it might just be too sensitive or something so they just kind of chicken out.
The other ones are just demons, obviously because a lot of women are accessible to them,once you have money, you can have them, and that's also because a lot of women have monetized everything.
First day, they are sending you to Porto to go pick up some nice dress with their driver but that's not love because he's a billionaire, he can afford to do same thing with some other girls, so they are not really gonna date...that's the kind of girls you can actually bond with so the problem is actually on both sides".
The enemy has a lot of people in bondage and it will take grace to break out of this cycle. The men are paying for their lack of self control, they are paying for sex. The women are demanding so they can buy more material things but nothing they buy will ultimately satisfy them. It will get old or out of vogue and they will need to upgrade. The only way out is to listen to the good shepherd and as his mother Mary said, do whatever he tells you. And he is telling us, flee fornication. Do it. Remain a virgin or be celibate till you marry. Ask the Holy Spirit for self control over the body and over desire for material things. It increases your peace of mind, relationship with God, clarity to choose a good spouse and marry well. Don't allow the devil steal from you, make you pay for your sin and still lead you into a marriage that is doomed from day one.
ReplyDeleteThe way of the Lord is full of victory
Only the wise can see this. May he grants us grace 🙏🏾
O chim!!
ReplyDeleteA lot of people have monetized dating
ReplyDeletePeople are in relationships because of what they can get from the other person
Men are not left out
On the dating scene, you can sense that relationships are highly monetized in Nigeria. Why settle with one when I have many picks? Sex is not expensive to waste money on meaningless relationships that involve purchases
ReplyDeleteEverything now na business lol.
ReplyDeleteIt's both way handsome 🙄🙄🙄. The mantra,what do you bring to the table nkon?.
ReplyDeleteHis sister should have married into a broke family now! Always coming online to cap nonsense!!!
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