Thursday In House News...

 Thursday salutations to you all.....

IN HOUSE MEMO

I salute you all...I no get anything talk today but no be everyday i go dey cho cho cho inside here....make una sef cho cho cho make i read..

Make una send in Chronicles, the folders 0.0001 empty........

I got some kind of mails and i am just surprised....If your child is in a private school, why dont you remove them to a public school if the fees are too expensive? If i pay now, who will pay next time? Please learn to understand the phrase '' Cut your coat according to the material''......Because i live in Europe, i can buy any car i want and be paying small small every month...I mean any car.... BUT i live by my means and dont overdo it.........Please learn the same thing and you will have peace of mind...Not talking down on anyone but these private schools, most of them are rip offs oh.... Na private school make me no sabi maths till today.... Instead to dey learn na so so games and eating snacks dem sabi, so while my mates were learning in public schools i was chewing away my destiny in private school...na God save me...... I know that life is hard for some but it is harder if you dont plan well.....

Make una have a good day and take it easy.....

I am still trying to eat and its still slow but i am recovering well and i thank God and give him all the glory and praise...Thank you for mercy oh Lord.....

Baba God na you dey run things!

hugs to everyone

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PINKYS CORNER
Life is not linear
You can have a big dream, have everything planned out, have rich and supportive parents or guardians, but somehow everything can be taken away from you in a minute; you don't know what really happened to you on the way. You can have no supporter nor parents to run to but suddenly, everything you planned for will come to play and you seems happy and think you are the best.

Life is structured in a way that anything can happen at any time, and you may not be sure if you can make your dream a reality. It's sad! This is life. I have planned and pray to have everything even before now but LIFE HAPPENS but still on still, when there is life, there is hope. Some people married and had their children so early and everything worked out as planned but they never lived long to eat the fruit of their labor while some got married and things became so difficult and life seems unfair to them but at the end, they lived long and enjoyed thereafter.

Do not allow any family or in-law mount pressure on you because you haven't gotten somethings. As a man, protect your wife and make her feel she has somebody and not letting your family drain her emotionally because she hasn't given them a child. 

I cried when a lady was telling me what she went through in the hands of her in-law because of the fruit of the womb. Her story made me go back to some few receipts of what we have also spent. It was then I realized that, I really made money when I started my business with POS but in the process of looking for the fruit of the womb, we have spent even more.

A friend shared a testimony with me 3days ago that. She gave birth after 9years of marriage. She was traumatized and treated badly by her mother in-law. She and her husband spent all their earnings because of this issue but thank God, they have a testimony. 

Please, learn to pray for people looking for the fruit of the womb instead of making jest of them because you had yours easily. Something you have with grace can be taken away if you don't stop using it to disgrace others because life can be so funny. I pray no one will cry over his/her child in Jesus name and we waiting for miracle will surely testify this year.

However, no matter what happens, we have to accept and move on. If you do not give up, life has a way of restructuring itself just to favor you. You have to endure, stay positive, and never give up.
No matter what happens, life must go on.up, life has a way of restructuring itself just to favor you. You have to endure, stay positive, and never give up.
No matter what happens, life must go on.

Baby dust to all those trying to conceive....It will happen this year in Jesus name....Pinky na here we go dey when you and your wife go born and na here we go dey wey you go begin gist us how your pikin dem go get sense pass your own...


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HOW TO SURVIVE IN A LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

The word survive is used because everyone's desire is to live within reach of their partner. But sometimes life gives you a good partner yet circumstance separates you physically. Here is how to cope up with;

1. TRUST EACH OTHER 
Trust is the reason that will keep the fire burning. Trust is not just blindly given, show you are trustworthy by being open, having a record of dependability and honesty, keep your partner on the know, share details. Do things that make you your partner secure. Let your partner know of your schedules over there. Be predictable

2. DATE ALOT ON THE PHONE OR ONLINE 
Unlike other more fortunate partners who get to meet each other so often to go on dates; make up for the lack or minimal frequency of physical connection by chatting and opening up with each other on the phone. This way, your fantasies and desire will remain directed towards your partner even though far apart. Let your cheeky and talkative ways come alive on the phone and online.

3. TALK ABOUT HOW IT HURTS
Share your feelings, say it when you feel low, pour your frustrations on each other brought about by the distance and walk together towards making it bearable.

4. HAVE A COMMON VISION
Define the future, where you two are heading to, talk alot about the future, the goal of why you are together, why you need each other; give each other a hope to hold on to.

5. COME UP WITH A TIME TABLE
You are distant from each other now but come up with a plan that will bring about a permanent solution where you two will finally be together for good. When there is no end in sight the heart gets tired of waiting for love to be within reach; but when a time frame is put, when the heart knows that the distance is only for 3 months, 6 months, a year, two years, that gives motivation to develop the love.

6. COMMUNICATE OFTEN
Use every available communication technology to warmly keep in touch as often as possible. Facebook, Twitter, Skype, Watsapp, Email, Text, Phonecall; don't let it be out of sight, out of mind, out in the cold.

7. PRAY TOGETHER 
Loving someone far away from you is tough. Pray together, commit your love to God, it will make the pain easy to bear. You are not physically where your partner is but God is.

8. MAKE AMAZING MEMORIES 
The few times you get to be together, make those moments so amazing that when you part, you will have good memories to keep you going as you look forward to meeting physically again to make new memories.

9. KEEP OFF TEMPTATIONS 
In as much as you love that person, a vacuum is left by that person not being physically present. Guard yourself so that you don't turn to another to meet your emotional and physical needs. No one wants a partner far away, we all want our needs met here and now but long-distance relationships call for discipline, loyalty and commitment. Hang in there, your partner wishes to be near you, but for now just be patient, soon your needs in love will be adequately met.

10. GROW YOURSELF 
Even as you wait for each other, life should not stall or stagnate. Don't feel bad and lonely to the point you forget you need to grow as an individual, before you grow as a couple. Take this time you are apart to build you just as your partner is far away advancing himself/ herself at work or study so that you two can have the best future.

Remember, love is not about how near or far you are to each other but having each other. Someone can be sleeping next to their spouse every night yet be unfaithful, another can be miles away and be faithful to their spouse. Each couple has their own journey, walk it together. 

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This made me remember the BV whose husband travelled abroad since over 7 years and has vanished into thin air, even his family claim they have not heard from him and she cannot even start a new relationship or mourn him as dead.....May all those in long distance marriages or relationships find fulfilment in Jesus name...... E no easy

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Heheheehehheheheheh

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WEIRDFACTS
---Healthy love-making requires open communication, helping partners understand each other's needs and preferences.

---Breakups are hard to deal with because the body and mind go through withdrawal, like drug addiction - we become addicted to love.

---During love-making, the body releases hormones like oxytocin, which promote feelings of happiness and attachment.

---You are under no obligation to be the same person you were a year, month, or even 15 minutes ago. You have the right to grow. No apologies.

---AskHole: a person who constantly asks for your advice, then does the exact opposite.

---Studies have shown that the average person believes he or she will live a longer and healthier life than the average person.

--It takes 3-6 seconds for silence to become awkward.

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