Hmmmm.....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
COLD BREAKFAST LOADING
I Need serious advice :::::
The guy i am dating now and about to marry wants to marry a Virgin and i told him that I am one but i lied......Well, i also saw proof that he has been intimate with someone before but he had lied to me that the reason he is looking for a Vee is because he wants it to be the first time for both with each other....
He says there will be no intimacy until after the wedding but this bro is a big liar and getting his thing somewhere else...The other day, i smelled that he had
smoked and when i asked him he said he sat down with people smoking...And they blew the smoke into your mouth?
This bro is serial with lies and i guess the only reason he wants to marry is cos everyone is on his matter......He will be looking at you lovingly and be lying like he was born to lie!
I want to go ahead and decieve him until the wedding night and then i will sit him down and tell him not to mess with peoples kids cos his own is in front...What is the big deal in being a virgin? The people he is sleeping with are they not human beings?.........I am just wondering if i should go ahead or just call it off....At this point calling it off will cost me more, maybe i should settle for whatever happens after the wedding night...... I don gbesh tire with others but i stopped when we got serious...
Some men are so uselezz......
What you think BVs? Dont worry about him trying to hurt me, someone is documenting everything for me......
I forgot to add that we fixed the wedding for the Saturday after lovers day....
Hmmm dangerous game!!
I would like to know what happened on the night of the wedding so please go ahead, nothing dey happen.
This is very serious. I hope you both work through this amicably
ReplyDeleteThis must be a joke.🤣 You two CANNOT be serious. A whole marriage like this? A lifetime? Do you even love each other?
DeleteI.dnt Think they Love each Other oo,
DeleteThe both of Them are Cruz masters..
Nne Continue ooo, that wedding nite no go Funny for ya Eyes o..
Hello iya Boys
transactional contract of a lifetime
DeleteThis is truly funny.. Both of you are not serious
DeleteSandra, I don't think they do.
DeleteWow, I was about to say he might hurt you, but you already asked us not to worry.
ReplyDeleteBut a marriage built on lies from both sides,isn't gonna be a healthy marriage. You both are a mess with each other.
Real mess.
DeleteWomen and shenanigan are just like five and six, you are just conjuring stories together to make yourself feel good and tell lies to your likes that can't read between the lines, because every chance they get, they want to blame the man. You are just knowing that the man smokes since you started dating. How does the issue of virginity relate with smoking and why must you spoil his name just to cover your lies. The height of uselessness calling someone useless. You people will be alright.....
DeleteYour wedding to a pathological liar is next month and you are here asking…(are you even asking) you are telling us.
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong with you? Do you really understand what major life decision marriage is? Or maybe you could be built to not care so much and already have plans to walk in and out casually. Na your type fit that kain man. You sound like a very capable babe. After all for every man there is a woman perfectly designed to treat his fkup.
Poster that is very risky. It's better you call it off. It may cost you much more if you take the risk unless peace of mind is not important to you.
ReplyDeleteYou really think marriage is a child’s play that’s why you want to pull this off on your wedding night
ReplyDeleteWhy don’t you go ahead and tell him now so that he can decide to be with you or not. You know he’s a stone face liar yet you still want to go ahead. We’ll…… you both are birds of the same feather so las las you will be alright
Zendaya
seems she is the one financing the wedding the most hence she can't open up. in all, she will still loose out because he will either kick her out or ignore her and continue philandering MORE. 2 PEASE IN A POD. THEY BOTH ARE EACH OTHER'S KARMA.
DeleteI burst out laughing while reading your story. It reminded me of something that happened during my youth service year.. I was on a big bus when a preacher started speaking. His words were unforgettable: "You cannot play God. You can’t outsmart Him." He went on to tell a story about a man who had lived a wild life, smoking and sleeping around, but one day he decided he had to marry a virgin. So, he joined the Deeper Life church, pretending to be a model Christian, and even became part of the choir. Then there was this woman, a former prostitute, who also wanted to settle down with a gim' gim brother. She felt led by God to join the same church, started attending every service, and began dressing modestly in long skirts. Eventually, this man from the choir noticed her and thought God had answered his prayer. They began dating and got married. But after they tied the knot, reality set in, and everyone saw things for what they truly were. The preacher’s point was clear: You can’t outsmart God.
ReplyDeleteSo, please, go ahead and marry him but be ready for surprises.
What I'm interested in is....
ReplyDeleteAre you okay with him smoking?
You don't mind?
I already feel sick reading the lying parts.
You can put up with the lies?
So you don't see she's also a liar?
DeleteA liar complaining that someone else lies. I hope the guy ends the marriage that night
You both are starting on the wrong note
ReplyDeleteSo you are ready to marry your enemy to prove a point to your enemy? Are you slow???
ReplyDeleteMarrying a liar is the absolutely worst mistake that anyone can make. Marriage requires honesty and trust at a premium. You are too desperate and overconfident, marriage has a way of humbling folks.
ReplyDeleteSome people get mind Sha...
ReplyDeleteYou are not serious....See kettle call pot black...Continue playing Russian Roulette with something as serious as marriage....Quit playing games like kids....Everything is not cruise abeg....
ReplyDeleteGosh!!
When the rat jumps into the water with the lizard, when water dries on the body of the lizard, will it dry on the body of the rat?
ReplyDeleteThe answer is yes. Will the rat be wet forever? What sort of parable is this one again?
DeleteWise people understand the parable, if you don't, then you know where you fall.
DeleteWhen the guy decides to leave the marriage because of her deceit who do you think will be more judged, shamed and ridiculed..
Blessings 🙏🏾
Ignorant people will phrase parables rather poorly and, in an effort to defend themselves, embarrassingly lash out and deflect under a false (and terribly sheer) cloak of wisdom when faced with rationality.
DeleteFurthermore, Godly minded and actually decent people don't act shady and then round it off with “blessings”.
Be better, Ma'am/Sir. Ask God for wisdom, discernment and the swift repair of your sense of humour when you pray tonight.
Shalom 🙏
Game player meet game player.
ReplyDeleteMake una carry go
Marry him. F**k his friends and come crying to us after 1yr that's if you are still alive
ReplyDeleteMumuuuu
Poster are you ready to face the consequences. Nothing concerns you with what he does with his life. Whether he is sleeping with other girls so far he hasn't pay your dowry. He stated to you that what he wants is a virgin and you feel you can use lie to hook him . You didn't mention anything about him loving you, what you are after is to get married.
ReplyDeleteI hope tomorrow you will not come and write another chronicle how he has been frustrating you, it's possible because you want to deceive him to get married.
That's one problem with Gen Z
DeleteThey think everything is a game. E go clear for your eyes. Enter and see
Dear Poster, marriage is not a game or a vacation where you can easily pack your bags and leave if the destination is not what you want. Yes, you lied because you never knew it can get to this level. I don't know both of you but I can categorically say that you are highlighting his negatives sides to justify your lies. If you love this man and wants your marriage to work, why can't you tell him the truth and watch his reactions. Then you tell him also that you knew about his own virginity status. It takes a lot for liar to change. You can't force him, it is a decision and work he has to do himself. Can you tolerate that from a husband? Boyfriend is different. What is a marriage without trust? What are you going to loose that is bigger than your peace of mind, happy home and family. This sounds like a marriage of revenge. Well, the ball is your court. Play it as it pleases you!
ReplyDeleteMr/Mrs Smith una fit each other 👍👍.
ReplyDeleteReading chronicle like this is the reason I'm seriously considering filling my pockets with glitters so when someone says something really stupid or rude. I will just reach into my pockets and release the glitter into the sky above their head and watch it shower over them like a baptism of common sense. Because what is this??? It is almost certain that this marriage will end in disaster. Poster, is marriage a joke to you?
ReplyDeleteAnd let's be honest, you're not any better than the guy. Two peas in a pod! 😏
Poster when you have noticed that he has been sleeping around why didn't you break up ? Must you marry him that you used lie to deceive him. He wants a virgin and you know you are not a virgin just because you are desperate to get married.
ReplyDeleteI pity you, I hope the man won't change to worse after marriage
This most be a joke
ReplyDeletePure red flag From both sides 🙄 the red is really Reding guy 😜
ReplyDeleteHanty give us updates after wedding beacause I can see your head is strong jaree ✌🏾
OLE MEJI.
ReplyDeleteYou're playing with 🔥 forget about who is documenting everything bcos that person won't be inside the room you and the guy on your wedding night... The guy will HURT you.
ReplyDeleteWith*
Delete@poster, i pray u live to tell the story cos which kain thing be this
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not just about the wedding day; it is about the life and commitment that follow. Are you both truly prepared for what comes after the ceremony?
ReplyDeleteIf there are underlying issues, such as dishonesty or external pressures leading to this decision, it is crucial to address them now.
Entering marriage out of compulsion or for the wrong reasons like seeking payback or fulfilling an obligation may lead to challenges that could have been avoided.
Please take the time to reflect on your motivations and ensure this decision is based on mutual understanding and a genuine desire to build a life together. Remember, a broken engagement is far easier to heal from than a broken marriage.
Think deeply about this.
Poster,marriage is not friendship,a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.You should have called it a quit long ago.You are playing with fire and fuel at the same time.How do you want to cope from the beginning to the end of the marriag?.May God help you.
ReplyDeleteChiloving
Both of you are already setting for divorce,good luck,you think men will allow you to caught them lying,and they will forgive better prepare to fight a lost battle
ReplyDeleteBoth of you are already setting for divorce,good luck,you think men will allow you to caught them lying,and they will forgive better prepare to fight a lost battle
ReplyDeleteIs this a joke or something? Marriage is a serious affair and you people are playing like this. Lies everywhere. No wonder marriages don't last this time around. Jokers are getting married.
ReplyDeleteAll I wish you is the best.
I can't help but wonder if people still values the sacredness of the institution called marriage. Poster do you think Marriage is a joke? oh come on nau, you know this fire you toiling with will burn you. Please Retreat while you can
ReplyDeleteLies built on lies will definitely have issues so just be ready when the lies starts manifesting.
ReplyDeleteTo me there are some obvious lies that i cant get myself involved with to avoid unnecessary explanations.
I wish you all the best in your new home 💓
Please marry each other. Both of you should not be free to marry innocent people abeg
ReplyDeleteI concur
DeletePoster everything is wrong with both your actions. Devil deceiving devil. I pray whatever you both are doing will not lead to disaster
ReplyDeleteDeceitful pair 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteIt's the guy's hypocrisy for me
ReplyDeleteYou're already setting yourself up not to enjoy your marriage. The foundation is already very shaky..I don't think it's worth it
ReplyDeletePoster, it seems your mind is all made up to marry him. What's the point of getting married and divorcing almost immediately? Is that what you want?
ReplyDeleteTo me there's no point marrying him; abort mission please.