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STRANGE NARRATIVE


I am the first son in a family of six: three older sisters, a younger brother, and a younger sister. Our father passed away when I was young. My older sisters adored and pampered me. After finishing secondary school, they encouraged me to continue my education, but I chose to go into business. 

Initially, they opposed my decision but later supported me financially. Our oldest sister treated me as her own son.
However, things began to fall apart when I chose a wife. While all of my sisters had their own recommendations for me, I followed my heart and married my friend. They did everything to prevent our union, but love triumphed in the end. Afterward, they redirected all their love and attention to my younger brother and distanced themselves from me.

We struggled with infertility for years, but after much pain and heartache, we were eventually blessed with a child. It was a difficult journey, and during that time, my sisters tried various tactics to break us apart, even involving the welfare system. They called security on several occasions to remove my wife’s belongings and insisted that I leave her behind and travel abroad. Their hatred for my wife was overwhelming, but through it all, God stood by us.

Things took another painful turn when I suffered a stroke, which left me in a wheelchair for three years. My family cut me off completely, wishing me dead, and spreading rumors, even involving my mother in their efforts to turn against me. I tried to reconnect, but they had already made up their minds. My business suffered immensely due to my illness, as I was shuttled from hospital to hospital, with no one caring. They made it clear that once I married my wife, I was dead to them.

Through all of this, my wife never left my side. I am still recovering, though my speech remains impaired. Meanwhile, my younger brother enjoys the luxuries of life—driving expensive cars, living the carefree life, and married the woman of my family's choice. 
On the other hand, I’m surviving on the meager salary of a teacher, thanks to my wife’s hard work.
Then, something dramatic happened. My younger brother suddenly collapsed and died. It was the worst possible news for someone still recovering from a stroke. Upon hearing the news, my right arm, which had been recovering, became paralyzed again. I couldn’t help but wonder: Why did death take him, a young man in his thirties, instead of someone like me who was already half-alive?

Yesterday, the family arranged a meeting and sent a driver to pick me up. I’ve vowed to cut ties with them for good, to focus only on God and my wife. Yet my wife is urging me to attend. What should I do?

Oga with this condition, you are still doing shakara? You vowed to cut ties with them because they cut you off? You were cut off but you seem to know everything happening around them.....strange!
That your wife that you have painted as a saint may be a witch sef doing bad things behind and staying by ur side....... If you want to you can attend.

54 comments:

  1. Ha Stella!!!! Ha! Did you have to try and paint his wife in that light even when poster clearly didn’t say anything in that direction??? This one pain me sha

    Poster, pls attend the eating. If u can avoid eating or drinking anything at such gathering for now, pls do. Because the turn around from those that treated you so bad despite ur illness is quite suspicious to me. I’d ask you to hear them out, hopefully the sudden death in the family is making them rethink their actions.

    I’m happy the story is not about ur wife leaving you despite all u lost because u chose love. I’m just happy about that.

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    1. Poster, I agree with Anonymous (15.53), Every one truly deserve respect, more so, amongst blood siblings. I do not understand why you are ill, and you are the one going to see them, instead of them coming to you as a true sign of family hood regardless of who hurt who, whether you married their choice or not, or whether they cut you off or not and in return you stayed away. The basic decent thing to do in any circumstance where a sibling/friend/relative is ill, is to visit the ill relative, not the ill relative being the one to visit his or her healthy siblings, whether they are sending driver or not.

      I am for peace in your home, sincerely, but please respectfully stay in your house. Sometimes we mask/ cover how people treat us by over compensating, just so we dont face the reality of how they treat us.

      I disagree that your wife is a witch, but even if she is, she is the choice your made, no body made her for you, and as such you must live with the consequences of that choice, good or bad.

      And I commend you for standing by your wife, against your **Elder Sisters** Cause so many Men, especially those at the receiving end of financial succour wont be able to do what you have done. So I really commend you.

      However, like I stated at the begining, I seek peace for you and your family, so seek that peace with Wisdom, so that you can be able to receive what ever financial help you can from your family. While you shouldnt be entilted to whatever they have, but I am a strong believer of showing blessings that cuts across every memeber of the family, for those who are financially able to do so, within a family.

      Stay in your house, but dont refuse them to come see you.
      Forgive them, where you can and you shoulf in the spirit of Family.
      Accept help if offered,
      Ask for help where not offered too, and if it doesnt come forth, work out your own salvation with your wife, in contentment.

      Regards.

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    2. Poster so sorry about all you've been through. Read Eka and 17:13 very well and digest . Both advice are what you need right now.

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    3. If they apologize to you in the meeting, they should also apologize to your wife. It won't be fair if they don't apologize to her.

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  2. Why do you want to attend. The answer lies with you. But I sense you still want thier love and attention again. That’s why you want to go
    I suggest you stay where u are. They know where to find you. If they really need you
    I’m just afraid that you may end up dancing to thier tune
    May God help you. But you help yourself

    Zendaya

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  3. I suggest you attend the meeting to know why they've sent for you then you can take whatever decision you want after that

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  4. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Stella chaiii

    But seriously, he should just give them a listening ear and hear what they have to say before reacting further. Please remember you have a child now. Why are they against your wife? Did they ever give any reason?? What’s your wife’s family’s stand on all that has been happening?

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  5. My younger and only brother is currently about to roll this line.
    I’m not one to get myself involved in anyone’s relationship but I don’t understand how someone will see a working Red Sea and choose to dive in all in the name of love and we understand each other.
    This lady keeps malice and fights with everyone around her including my brother. At the slightest provocation she insults him like a child. Even my cousins that stayed with him a few weeks called us to alert us about this lady’s bad behavior.
    A young girl who claims to be studying nursing in 2nd year yet she practically lives with him in the other side of town.

    Poster what caused your stroke in the first place? If truly you had peace in that marriage and your wife took good care of you and ensure healthy nutrition for you and your family you shouldn’t be having stroke at such young age. (I’m assuming you’re in your forties as your younger brother was in his thirties.
    Go and make peace with your family.

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    1. I can't believe what I just read. So it is only those whose wives don't give peace and feed nutritiously that suffer from stroke?

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    2. Hello dear ☝️

      Pray for your brother like your life depends on it.

      Pray for him using Ephesians 1:17-20. Ask God to open his eyes. He’s obviously blind.
      Anyone that keeps malice and fights is going to scatter your family my and shift your brother away from you.
      Pray pray
      Write their name in a paper and start cancelling it as you pray.
      Don’t handle this with kids gloves

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    3. 17:05, don’t you know that in Nigeria, it’s always the wife’s fault once anything happens to the husband

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    4. You’re crazy! So his wife should breastfeed him as a baby? If you have small sense, you will guess that the family may have a genetic predisposition to heart issues and that’s why the younger brother also died suddenly.

      Any woman that has sense will stay far away from your family. You sound like the kind of family member that will blame the death of a man on his wife and force her to drink the corpse’s water.

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    5. Funny we only agree some women are abusive and home breakers only when it concerns our own blood brothers in such relationships.
      Just imagine if the lady you describe up here, send in her chronicles next week on how you, your brother and relatives wants her out of a relationship she has laboured to build?
      Of course it will be rain of crucify them, without anyone reading between the lines to see the real posters lies.

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  6. They wanted you now probably as the only surviving male in the family. You have to go and listen to what they have to say. You should have given the reason(s) your family disliked your wife or why they didn't support your marriage.

    I would have shared something with you right now but I don't want to deviate the discussion or bring in another chronicle into this. Forgive the hurt done to you. At the end, family is all we have got in this life.


    © TEEJAY

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  7. Don’t go
    If they want to talk to you , we have phones now

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  8. Poster, they say to err is human to forgive is Divine. I know they have learnt their lesson. I suggest they come to your side instead of you going there. They should give you that respect as the only son and father of the house

    So sorry for your loss

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  9. Dear Poster,

    What a sad story! Sorry about your health and my condolences on the loss of your younger brother.....This drama between your wife and your elder sisters is quite exhausting; I see they love to want to control everything thinking it shows love and care....It breaks my heart to see siblings bickering, cutting off communication, fighting amongst themselves; when in your case a 6-cord bond should be established that it would take a force of nature to break.......Spiting another sibling over the other just to show preferential treatment.....

    That being said Poster, please don't harbour a bitter heart towards them; I know it really hurts but find a place in your heart to forgive them...I will advise you to go for the meeting and hear them out....It could also be an avenue to reconcile with them provided you have made up your mind to stand by your wife no matter what, please don't compromise here.....And you are not half-alive, don't write yourself off...I know someone who made a great recovery from stroke.....

    Above all, please keep praying fervently....God bless your wife and I wish you speedy recovery....

    May your brother's soul rest in peace Amen...

    Ozoemena!!!

    All the best

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  10. I think you should stay in your house and let them come see you there if they want to see you. Everyone deserves respect, even a toddler, how much more a family man even if he’s your kid brother.
    What if the 3 sisters are witches and wanted their brother to marry from their coven in order to take charge of his life and destiny?
    If I were you, I would remain cut off from their lives and focus on my God and family.
    Even if your wife is the witch as Stella said, both of you are one already and she has given you a part of her ( your child), so you both should engage in deliverance prayers to set your family free.
    Money is not everything abeg….don’t become a cow being fattened for the slaughter.

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    1. Because I don’t understand why they’re so adamant on the type of wife he should marry. Men like this poster should be praised honestly. Poster has a mind of his own and won’t let anyone tell him what to do. I’ll suggest you don’t go especially your current condition. I don’t trust your sisters at all. If they can act this way towards you for years and years, they can do whatever to you! Thank God for your wife. After all, you married the right person for you. Goodluck! 💕

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  11. Why not attend and hear them out? They are still your family, besides, you need every help you can get for you and your immediate family at this stage of your life.

    I think you should go and hear them out.

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  12. Pls go and listen to them, forget the differences.

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  13. Oga listen to your wife and attend. You wouldn't lose anything by doing so. you can reconnect better with them

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  14. This story is not complete. Very filled with holes

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    1. Let me know the holes pls.

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    2. Poster is ur wife an osu? I am thinking why she was vehemently rejected by ur sisters.

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    3. Poster , you stylishly did not tell us the concerns your siblings raised about your wife.
      All of a sudden they are the bad ones because they decided to mind their business. Not that they did anything bad to you. They just minded their business. Some water passed under the bridge share. Tell us what happened

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  15. What a tale. I can only image that your stroke came as a result of the stress that you had endured for years. Internalizing pain always result in illness. It is better to speak your mind and erase these ppl from your energy and move on with your life, but thinking and rethinking over and over is never good for one’s health.

    Go to the meeting. Perhaps the loss of your younger brother has highlighted their poor treatment of you. Death in its finality causes many to think about their lives and how they are living. Maybe the meeting will be an opportunity for healing and mending broken fences. However, go in power not in weakness. What I mean is, do not show up groveling for their love or attention and if the vibe is off or you feel uncomfortable leave at once. Do not give them any opportunity to break you down any more than they already have. No matter your financial state or need for love, stand in your power and do not give away the little you have left to anyone. They can continue to live their mean girls existence. If they want but put you and the little family that God has put together for you first.

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  16. Why do they hate your wife so much?

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    1. My eldest sister has someone in mind for me. They preferred her

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    2. A reason he didn’t share. And I believe there must be a reason for them to act this way.

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  17. So sorry for all ur predicaments and I hate women who put themselves into this situation when u can just leave and marry someone else..
    Please attend the meeting, there may be a confession and forgiveness..

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    1. What do you mean Sharon?? True loves wins sometimes na, well what do i know, i would probably refuse to marry a man if all his siblings dislike me!

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  18. How can you call the woman that stood by him a witch. No woman likes to suffer like she has suffered. Please give her due respect for standing by her man.
    Thank you

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    1. Thank you. That suggestion that the woman might be a witch is as distasteful as it is callous.

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    2. You don't know anything.
      You haven't heard of women that make their husbands poor cos they believe he'll chase women if rich and they suffer the poverty together

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  19. you can attend the meeting to hear them out and then decide what you want to do. all the best.

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  20. you need to attend to the meeting, you have to hear whatever they have to say before you can say anything. You are the only surviving son, the most senior son so your input is very important before they can lay your late younger brother to rest.

    Your wife could be innocent but just that they don't like her cos of her tribe, age or qualification. You made your choice, your family had someone in mind for you but that wasn't your choice. A lot of family are doing this and it not a good one. Allow people to marry who they want to marry, when your sisters want to get married they will never ask for your choice. May God continue to heal you plus keep your wife for you.

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  21. Certain events and occurrences within a family are peculiar and defy explanation. The person doing you might also be in your family. With your condition I don't advice you visit them, they know where to find you except if they don't want your wife to be part of the meeting, it could also be meeting to help you. Please follow your conscience.

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  22. It's Sad how that the very people you love the most are the ones who can hurt you the deepest. But go ahead and pay that visit even if it's just to listen.

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  23. OMG Stella you never cease to amaze me🤣🤣🤣🤣, your blue pen got me thinking hard. It baffles me that all of them dislike her so much!!

    Poster please attend the meeting, i am so sorry for your loss

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    1. What is exactly funny in this story that makes me wanna cry? Empathy is a skill, please try an develop it.

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  24. Poster, pls attend that meeting, for the sake of your late brother, I'm so sorry for your loss. Just focus on getting better ok, So ignore anyone who tries to talk down on your at that meeting. All the best.

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  25. Sorry for the loss of your brother. Do not go anywhere. They should come and hold it in your house. They have to learn to love and accept your wife. Your wife is NOT A WITCH please

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  26. @ Anonymous 16:24. In this new year 2025, God will bless and grant you all your heart desires. Sincerely, some BVs on this platform don't know anything (life is deep). Your comment is exactly what i am experiencing in my marriage. I believe God will pull me out this year 2025.

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  27. Brother poster, sorry for your health challenge but at this Juncture relax everything remember blood is thicker than water just accept, go and visit them ok ,is when you go and they didn't treat you well then ..

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  28. God's speed poster. I will suggest you don't go.

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  29. Poster you need help.They have suddenly decided to draw you close again cos they have realized their mistakes.if you really love God and wants to focus on him like you have said.i will advise, you let go of the past and look forward with hope and believe, he who gave you life, will perfect all that concerns you.

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  30. Poster, attend the meeting. Dear singles, never agree to marry someone whose family vehemently rejects you; especially a close knit family. Marriage is a family affair.

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  31. Please Poster, attend the meeting but be very alert and prayerful. Your presence as the first son is deeply needed,to talk about the burial process,since your mum is alive,it's only wise that the meeting be held at her place or your late brother's place. After the burial,you can decide to either cut them off or remain as siblings. May God give you wisdom

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  32. Poster don’t attend the meeting
    Don’t enter their car
    Why did your brother suddenly die?
    I hybis calamity on the men alone
    Think
    Those three sisters leave them alone
    Manage your little
    God will lift you
    Join commmanding the day midnight prayer
    Focus on God
    Your wife is a shield for you
    You would’ve die
    Leave them alone

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  33. Why do people find it difficult to forgive, I forgive strangers let alone my family. I have already told myself that I will forgive them in advance.

    Please poster forgive your family. The igbos says that iwe nwanne anaghi Eru na okpukpu. Meaning you just can’t be upset with your family.

    Ii is your brother corpse lying cold dead. I don’t know why you are wondering whether you should go. You should be there like yesterday. Remember you are not ever gonna see him again.

    Just go! Go and mourn your late brother please.

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