Tuesday In House News

 Hailings....

 IN HOUSE MEMO

Shout out to you all........There is no place like home...I was so happy to be discharged from Hospital today and i got home to my comfort zone where i will heal better and faster in my familiar place......The posts will still be coming in short as i heal....

Thank you to all those who reached out that i could not reply their mails or whatsapp messages...I am overwhelmed and the pain i am going through removes words from my mouth and chatting makes me hurt...I need quiet and i have it.......Someone asked me if i went for tummy tuck and i just read the message and did not reply...Is the kind of pain they pass through? If na so make i rock the belle......Those who have ever been through CS or Myom pain can understand that it takes a strong person to come out of this.....I thank God for saving me........I had myom so big that it could not be detected becos it covered everywhere, they only kept seeing the small ones until the D day.........

Please if you have Myom, dont nurse it like a baby, go get it out, that thing is a silent killer.i cannot beleive that thing was inside of me,my body went into shock...Please pardon me guys cos I am still in shock.....

Please you people should thank God for me ooooh........

So let me ask some questions....

How long did you carry the thing before you got it out? How long have you been carrying it? Are you Anemic cos of it?Are you married?I heard some womens own is so bad that their husband  runs away.....

I heard a lady travelled abroad to Naija to have operation, she kept saying that oyibo docs dont know what fibroid is cos oyibo women dont have it....Well, thats not true, all the women i saw here who had Myom surgery are white.....The Docs by the grace of God know exactly what to do...They study your body like a book before they get started..........

One or two people are saying they did not get their give away, plus the person who scammed it off me cos i delegated the money to someone else......I will come back to the scam case with curses when i am strong enough......

I have moved on from the giveaways and let me start it here now that FROM NOW ON...giveaways will only be with IDS i am familiar with and no new person and i wont be needing anyone to choose for me......To the people who scammed me I am not ready to curse you but i leave you with this.. your daughters and your daughters daughters will be plaqued with myoms until you return the money in this generation or the next....think about it..

I will plan a giveaway to ceebrate soon.......Myom giveaway...LOL

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A MEMO TO SINGLE LADIES
If you are a SINGLE Woman, and you get a Man who is ready to settle down with you, stick with that Man. Don’t be rude and disrespectful.
Be submissive and plug yourself into his purpose.
Age doesn’t favour Women, but Men. We all know this FACT.
You will hit 35+ very soon with no one to protect and provide for you.
The world is rough for Women above 35 Years.
It won’t pamper you the way it did in your 20s.
This is the brutal truth.
A 20-year-old woman is 10 times more valuable in the dating market than a 20-year-old man.
Why? Because at that age, Women are in their prime. Their youth, beauty, and perceived fertility make them highly sought after, especially in a world where these traits are culturally and biologically prioritized in romantic relationships.
On the flip side, a 20-year-old man is often seen as a work in progress.
At that stage in life, men are typically just starting to figure things out—finishing school, building careers, and finding their footing.
They don’t yet possess the power, resources, or influence that make them attractive in the eyes of most women.
Society doesn’t place as much immediate value on a young man’s potential, it values results, and at 20, most men are still far from achieving their peak.
Let’s flip the coin.
At 35+, the game changes entirely.
A man at 35 who has spent the last two decades building himself—his wealth, reputation, and character—is 10 times more valuable in the dating market than a 35-year-old woman.
At this stage, men hold the power cards, they’ve likely achieved financial stability, amassed influence, and developed the confidence and maturity that women find irresistible.
A high-value man in his 40s has options.
Contrast that with a 35+-year-old woman.
Harsh as it may sound, society is far less forgiving when it comes to aging women.
The dating market places less value on the qualities that women are often judged by in their 20s—youth and beauty.
By 35+, many women find themselves competing against younger, more “desirable” options.
While men age like fine wine, women are often judged as aging like milk—a brutal reality shaped by biology, culture, and hypergamy.
Fellas, stop comparing yourself to women in your 20s. At that age, the dating world isn’t designed to work in your favor.
Women in their early years will always have an advantage, as their value in the dating market is at its peak.
Focus on building yourself instead. Grind, hustle, and grow. Develop your skills, stack your money, and level up your confidence. Your time is coming.
Don’t chase the instant gratification of early success. The real payoff comes later in life, when you’ve built a foundation that makes you a force to be reckoned with.
Men peak later than women, and when that peak comes, you’ll have the upper hand in the dating game.
Understand this,
Women know this game better than you think. That’s why many in their 30s and 40s start “settling” or rushing to lock down high-value men before their options dwindle.
Don’t let desperation or manipulation cloud your judgment.
Stay sharp, stay focused, and remember that your value increases over time, as long as you keep working on yourself.
In conclusion.
Youth gives women the edge early on, but time gives men the ultimate advantage.
Play the long game, Fellas. The rewards are worth the wait. You are the PRIZE.
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WEIRD FACTS
---Talking to yourself helps make your brain more efficient

---Retrouvailles (French):
The joy of meeting someone again after a long separation

--Ikigai (Japanese):
A motivating force; something that gives you a sense of purpose and meaning

---Sleeping naked can help boost self-esteem

---'Gut feelings' are as real as they feel
They're emotionally intuitive signals transmitted from your gut to your brain via the vagus nerve

--Loud sounds can hijack our attention and interfere with the brain’s visual processing, which is why you turn the music down when looking for an address or parking spot

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WAYS TO BE PRODUCTIVE

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