Truth is : There are still good hearted Nigerian women out there, but they are very few! These days, it's strictly transactional relationships everywhere you go in Nigeria. Most women think they are doing you a favor by having sex with you, like say na only punani man come na..k for this life. Most of them go into relationships cause of they they stand to gain. Nigerian women should try and do better...your only contribution in a relationship can't be only kpekus..
That's because men act like puna...whatever is what they came here for. No matter how angelic you are if you don't give that they don't appreciate. I remember supporting an ex who never gave me a dime and I didn't expect from him because I wasn't sleeping with him but I was supporting him because he told me before we dated that he was broke. Despite my support, care, prayers and attention he was still asking for s.x and started giving me attitude because I didn't want to engage in it beforehand marriage...so I left him. Men too need to stop acting like a sick puppy because of it.What he also failed to talk about is that he treats the Latino woman like an equal. He cooks, cleans, washes, does grocery shopping and all things he would never boldly do if he was married in Nigerian woman. A lot of Nigerian men whose wife tried treating them with kindness would leave the burden of the household chores on their wives and be chasing things in skirts. Look at his mom telling him to kneel for the wife. You think she would have said same thing to him if he was in Nigeria married to a Nigerian woman? Nigerian men and women should thrive to treat each other with kindness and respect.
This is quite shocking! I was just playing the whole narration like a video in my head. It's inspiring to hear that his patience led to peace in the end, such moments remind us of the strength in perseverance and the reward that often follows.
"Vultures are vultures for a reason." Don't want to believe the stereotype but men our women don cast. The comments on a chronicle last week was juuuust sad. Our women no get joy.
My guy, the greatest sin and offense you will commit against heaven, hell and earth is to be broke. Double that hustle. Forget love o. E no dey for dis side. I don talk my own
What a story! Reminds me of what some Nigerian women endure in order to remain married. He was enduring his own because of papers. Thank God he is fine in the long run.
If I decide to comment on this post, everywhere goes scatter..
I laff at some people that are not deep but think they're smart and end up playing themselves..
Some guys tell me I'm throwing a great opportunity away but they don't see what I'm seeing, they don't pay attention..
I'm a kind man, and I will never be with an unkind woman. Kind isn't a word for one gender, every time kind man but you na useless woman..
No be by say she dey Yankee o,. No be by whether she be Nurse, PhD holder or whatever oh,. How has she influenced your life? How does the communication flows? Is she submissive? Is she kind? Lol..
See ehn, e better make you stick with babe here with all these good traits, you guys will build and conquer the world, than to think you're smart and go and enter one werey hand,.
I no won tell real life stories so make I just stop for here
Some things had to happen for some things to happen. I'm happy you are in a better place. I learnt a long time not to look down on any man because the table can so turn & you will be wondering what happened.
Funny thing is that this wicked woman will start playing victim talking about how she brought him there, house and fed him but he betrayed her..
Na their way sha..
Imagine telling a man, your man, to go and outside in the snow so as to excuse you for you to entertain another man..
God abeg oh..
There's one girl I was getting close to, a lawyer, then I visited her one day, she stays in a selfcon apartment, after about almost an hour inside her room, she called out someone to come and take from the stuff I got while coming, na so one guy waka commot from kitchen come, take inside the stuff I brought then went back to the kitchen and closed the door,. I come ask am if the kitchen gets door that also leads outside, she say no, I say so that guy dey sit down for kitchen since, she says yes,. Why aunty? She says him say he likes it there *yimu..
I just figured out that she sent the guy to the kitchen because I was coming, this guy is her cousin that came to visit her oh, a university graduate for that matter.. omo, I no dey comfortable again, I just rushed and leave but I haven't seen that babe the same way since that day..
This is the normal behaviour of some American citizens nau. Once they have the papers, you become a slave and a worthless human being yet they’re miserable with their citizenship.
In this America, just pray that you land in the midst of people that have the fear of God and a little bit of conscience. Pray that you meet people that love and forgive themselves enough to have some little kind of love for you. God has been faithful and merciful to say the least.
I AM A WOMAN BUT MUST ADMIT THAT BAD LUCK IN RELATIONSHIPS IS NOT FOR WOMEN ALONE, SOME MEN HAVE ALSO HAD THEIR FAIR SHARE. SO TOUCHING. I KNOW SINGLE WOMEN WITH CITIZENSHIP ABROAD HAVE THE FEAR OF BEING USED BY MEN FOR PAPERS BUT THIS PARTICULAR WOMAN IS MEAN AND TOOK IT TOO FAR. I AM GLAD YOU SURVIVED THIS AND PERSEVERED. I HOPE SHE SEES YOU IN A BETTER PLACE NOW. BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS. - MADAM CAPS
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Wow! My countenance changed at that point that 'She killed me'.
ReplyDeleteI'm not going to point accusing fingers, I'll only say that, 'YOU ARE A VERY FORTUNATE FELLA'.
Truth is : There are still good hearted Nigerian women out there, but they are very few! These days, it's strictly transactional relationships everywhere you go in Nigeria. Most women think they are doing you a favor by having sex with you, like say na only punani man come na..k for this life. Most of them go into relationships cause of they they stand to gain. Nigerian women should try and do better...your only contribution in a relationship can't be only kpekus..
DeleteThat's because men act like puna...whatever is what they came here for. No matter how angelic you are if you don't give that they don't appreciate.
DeleteI remember supporting an ex who never gave me a dime and I didn't expect from him because I wasn't sleeping with him but I was supporting him because he told me before we dated that he was broke. Despite my support, care, prayers and attention he was still asking for s.x and started giving me attitude because I didn't want to engage in it beforehand marriage...so I left him. Men too need to stop acting like a sick puppy because of it.What he also failed to talk about is that he treats the Latino woman like an equal. He cooks, cleans, washes, does grocery shopping and all things he would never boldly do if he was married in Nigerian woman. A lot of Nigerian men whose wife tried treating them with kindness would leave the burden of the household chores on their wives and be chasing things in skirts. Look at his mom telling him to kneel for the wife. You think she would have said same thing to him if he was in Nigeria married to a Nigerian woman?
Nigerian men and women should thrive to treat each other with kindness and respect.
This is quite shocking! I was just playing the whole narration like a video in my head.
ReplyDeleteIt's inspiring to hear that his patience led to peace in the end, such moments remind us of the strength in perseverance and the reward that often follows.
I had goose bumps reading this. The shabby way an African would treat an African.
ReplyDeleteIt didn't make sense making him a housel help just to lift him out of his dungeons.
Am glad things turned out well for him eventually.
Kai, what prejudice!
Blessings come in different ways..... A story that morivates.
ReplyDelete"Vultures are vultures for a reason." Don't want to believe the stereotype but men our women don cast. The comments on a chronicle last week was juuuust sad. Our women no get joy.
ReplyDeleteMy guy, the greatest sin and offense you will commit against heaven, hell and earth is to be broke. Double that hustle. Forget love o. E no dey for dis side. I don talk my own
What a story!
ReplyDeleteReminds me of what some Nigerian women endure in order to remain married.
He was enduring his own because of papers.
Thank God he is fine in the long run.
What a long interesting read, wow.. hmmm😳
ReplyDeleteThank God it ended in praise Anyways
Lol..
ReplyDeleteIf I decide to comment on this post, everywhere goes scatter..
I laff at some people that are not deep but think they're smart and end up playing themselves..
Some guys tell me I'm throwing a great opportunity away but they don't see what I'm seeing, they don't pay attention..
I'm a kind man, and I will never be with an unkind woman. Kind isn't a word for one gender, every time kind man but you na useless woman..
No be by say she dey Yankee o,. No be by whether she be Nurse, PhD holder or whatever oh,. How has she influenced your life? How does the communication flows? Is she submissive? Is she kind? Lol..
See ehn, e better make you stick with babe here with all these good traits, you guys will build and conquer the world, than to think you're smart and go and enter one werey hand,.
I no won tell real life stories so make I just stop for here
Some things had to happen for some things to happen. I'm happy you are in a better place. I learnt a long time not to look down on any man because the table can so turn & you will be wondering what happened.
ReplyDeleteFunny thing is that this wicked woman will start playing victim talking about how she brought him there, house and fed him but he betrayed her..
ReplyDeleteNa their way sha..
Imagine telling a man, your man, to go and outside in the snow so as to excuse you for you to entertain another man..
God abeg oh..
There's one girl I was getting close to, a lawyer, then I visited her one day, she stays in a selfcon apartment, after about almost an hour inside her room, she called out someone to come and take from the stuff I got while coming, na so one guy waka commot from kitchen come, take inside the stuff I brought then went back to the kitchen and closed the door,. I come ask am if the kitchen gets door that also leads outside, she say no, I say so that guy dey sit down for kitchen since, she says yes,. Why aunty? She says him say he likes it there *yimu..
I just figured out that she sent the guy to the kitchen because I was coming, this guy is her cousin that came to visit her oh, a university graduate for that matter.. omo, I no dey comfortable again, I just rushed and leave but I haven't seen that babe the same way since that day..
How can you do such..
If you talk now then go say you hate women..
Okay o
Couldn't the cousin excuse himself and leave the apartment for you two? Did he have to stay in the kitchen? That one no be the babe fault.
DeleteNa wahoo hmmmi
ReplyDeleteI cant imagine what that guy went through physically and emotionally
For real. Good you had a better option and everything turned out right for you. it always end in praise
ReplyDeleteVery interesting. Am glad things turned out well for him at the end
ReplyDeleteThank God it ended on a happy note.
ReplyDeleteGlad it ended great for him
ReplyDeleteHmmm na wah ooo thank God for the man life.wow I thought is only women face this kind of things.
ReplyDeleteThank God at the end of the tunnel, you found light. Lucky you
ReplyDeleteWhat a story
ReplyDeleteGlad he's in a better place
This is the normal behaviour of some American citizens nau. Once they have the papers, you become a slave and a worthless human being yet they’re miserable with their citizenship.
ReplyDeleteIn this America, just pray that you land in the midst of people that have the fear of God and a little bit of conscience. Pray that you meet people that love and forgive themselves enough to have some little kind of love for you. God has been faithful and merciful to say the least.
ReplyDeleteThank God it's ended well, Change is the most constant thing , am happy that Ur life changed from worst to best.
ReplyDeleteThis is shocking, a lot of lessons to learn from
ReplyDeleteThank God it turned out well at last.
ReplyDeleteI AM A WOMAN BUT MUST ADMIT THAT BAD LUCK IN RELATIONSHIPS IS NOT FOR WOMEN ALONE, SOME MEN HAVE ALSO HAD THEIR FAIR SHARE. SO TOUCHING. I KNOW SINGLE WOMEN WITH CITIZENSHIP ABROAD HAVE THE FEAR OF BEING USED BY MEN FOR PAPERS BUT THIS PARTICULAR WOMAN IS MEAN AND TOOK IT TOO FAR. I AM GLAD YOU SURVIVED THIS AND PERSEVERED. I HOPE SHE SEES YOU IN A BETTER PLACE NOW. BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS. - MADAM CAPS
ReplyDeleteO boy! What an experience, thank God everything turned out good
ReplyDeleteWow, thank God u survive it and everything worked out for you
ReplyDeleteBeautiful story
ReplyDelete