Friday In House News

 Thank God It's Friday....

IN HOUSE MEMO

I hope that your day is going on well? I hope that the plans you made are in place?.....Enjoy the day and stay positive at all times!

Warm hugs




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MADAM AMEBO CORNER
Good afternoon Jeweluchi,
Did I tell you that I boarded a bus heading to my old neighborhood, I been don reach my junction before I remember say I no dey there again, I come enter another Keke to my new place, my kids laugh me well well...

Some men get bad mind shaa and they take advantage of kindness as weakness, this my friend is married to a man she thinks is in love with her, this man na liquidator, he was jobless when they met, to fit her status, she opened a shop for him, guy man chop am finish..

This woman kept supporting him because the woman is from a comfortable background, Oga come de milk her, 90% of the marriage expenses was footed by the girl's family and this man's family can demand eeh, they treat this lady like they did her a favour by marrying her, the man will always say "my wife loves me and will do anything for me...

The other day the man's mom asked her for a million naira to fill up her shop, she told her that she hasn't been paid for months and she's broke at the moment, this woman said "no be say you fit born oo, this one wey we take de manage you, you no fit do am again, na waa ooh " and ended the call...

When she called me and told me about it, I didn't know the exact thing to say to her cos the one's I said before no yield any positive fruit, so I chose to keep my advice to myself,
Recently she started making plans to walk out of the marriage but then she found out she was pregnant, she stayed back, months later the news that her husband was kidnapped broke out, this lady cried like never before, they were making demands, you need to see how worried she was with her long belle, thank God for her family and her coworkers, they paid the huge ransom and this man was released, he came back looking more fresh and robust according to the wife cos we don't live close to each other, they live in far away Abuja, he said grace smiled and him a the kidnappers were nice to him..

The woman gave birth to their daughter in September, and just last week, a lady called her that she would like to show her things on Whatsapp,
She came online and added the woman, the woman showed her that she's pregnant for her husband and he stopped sending money to her so she decided to expose their little secret, the women even told her that it was in her house that she camped her husband when he claimed he was kidnapped, how she is their mugu and moneybag, my friend couldn't hold her tears, she packed his stuffs and kept them outside, went to the police and made an entry..

 I think he already knew what was up, he didn't show up, came back two days later with one of his uncles but my friend refused and asked both of them to leave...

The uncle now told her that she can't kick him out when she knows that he can't afford anything at the moment, that she should transfer some money to him to at least enable him to go back to the East cos even him cannot accommodate him as his house is tight, my friend called police and got both of them arrested...
This morning the guy's mom called her that if anything happens to her son, that she will use juju on her, that after all the money she's spending on them is what she got freely from Alhajis abi she think say she no know? The lady ended the call and blocked their numbers, sometimes love is not enough...

Na wah oooooooo.....just imagine....

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WEIRDFACTS
Your mind is like the most powerful horse on the planet. If you can control it, you are sure to win every race in life.
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Mentally, the worst feeling is feeling unwanted by the one person you want the most.

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Drinking too much water can kill you.
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Worrying is a waste of time. Good and bad things happen in life, you just have to keep living and not stress over what you can't control.

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Being a perfectionist can result in stress and depression.

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Spirituality and religion thickens the brain cortex, reducing one's risk of depression.

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30 WAYS TO GET RID OF STRESS

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HOW MEN SHOULD HANDLE WOMEN WHO ARE OVER 40.

When some Women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality.

They become bolder, more rebellious, more religious, more focused, more opinionated and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive Woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.

Most especially when she had given birth to Children.
At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to ask some questions :

- Is s#x food?
- Query some of your instructions
- Even the way you behave.

She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind.
If care is not taken, you may have to do for yourself :
- Dry cleaning
- Preparing food to eat
Because it might take her more time before she responds to your request.
There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for Women.

If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid total breakdown of Peace and Harmony in the home is for Men to become fair, objective and reasonable in their approaches to issues at home and/or at work.

Men should bear in mind that at this age, Women also harbour lots of regrets about the decisions they have made in life so far ... Their Husbands may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a Man using very different and weird parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their Wives/Partners/Bosses/Subordinates.

What you put in is what you get!
If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about.
She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past.
On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

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