Hmmmm.....
THE CONFESSION AND THE PROPOSAL
My guy of 5 years proposed to me this December but before he did, he confessed how he did me dirty and how his conscience cannot let him marry me without him telling me........There is none of my friends and even cousins that he did not sleep with, he said they wanted it and he didnt force them...He says he would rather have me hear it from him than ffrom them cos he knows they will try to break up up by bringing proof to me...... EVEN MY COUSINS? Come on thats going toof ar for both.....
The relationship was not really a committed one so i really have nothing not to forgive... but its still doing me dirty and then proposing just when i wanted to end it...Like i am even older than him but i cut my age so the despearion on my part has been really bad.....The proposal came in timely to restore my peace of mind but it is now giving me sleepless night...
Should i also tell him i slept with one of his friends? I have forgiven him right? So i want to watch what his reaction will be then later i will say i was joking but i need to do this enable me know the kind of man i said YES to............
I need tips on how to do this confession cos he swore that there is nothing i will tell him that he wont forgive.....I am about to test that before anything else......His reaction will either make me go ahead or drop the ring.....Oh BTW his friends thing was sweeter, way sweeter........chuckles.
So where are the baddies in here? Please give me gist.....I am a new person on here.....
Thank you....
Hmmmmmmm,I am in pains and not in the right frame of mind to give advice, let me read comments.....but sha tell am eeeeeh..lol
Please BVs, send in your Chronicles, the folder empty.
Things are happening!!! Na wah!!!
ReplyDeleteI will read comments.
Una sha fit.
ReplyDeleteBirds of a feather ...............
DeleteOh you actually slept with his friend? You will definitely marry that guy and you both will Ebang in the marriage kikikiki..
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
Ha ha ha ha
DeleteFan Fan!
They will be Ebanging in the marriage abi
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You don't have a relationship. How can he sleep with everyone around you and still expect you to Marry him???
ReplyDeleteHis confession will torment you for the rest of the marriage.
You are a laughing stock for all those he slept with.
Lady, you are not an after thought or a left over. Keep it moving and get someone who will have some respect and regards for you.
That guy is not for you. By the way , he will do it again and he will expect you to swallow it. Just like he is expecting you to now.
Life is a choice.
Best wishes.
Poster read this again and again. Better move away from that guy
DeleteMadam, if you didn’t truly sleep with his friend don’t joke with that kind of thing o cos he will forever think about it if he eventually marrys you. The way men deal with cheating is very different from how women do and men are the most jealous when it comes to relationships. Dont put something that didn’t happen in his head especially if you still want to continue with the relationship.
ReplyDeletePoster abeg which one be baddies again? You are seriously gloating and basking in the adrenaline....Both of you are birds of a feather.....Your guy is a BROHOE...He did it to give you soft landing and then further deceive you by proposing.....Do you think he did not know you slept with his friend and has decided to play your game plus you are even desperate on top....A receipe to even finish you like Mortal Combat.....
ReplyDeleteCut me that bullock about he will forgive you if you do same....He is a shark who smelled your desperation from a 1 million miles.......
He is playing reverse psychology while you are playing Russian roulette......I know you will still go ahead to marry him because it's still a game for you....Dey play....
Cunny man die cunny man bury am....
All the best....May your fellow baddies give you the advice you want to hear.....
Any man who knows you cheated and tells you he has forgiving you,is either using you to pass time,until he finds another woman better than you,then he dumps you and move to her..this can take years,but he will always stick to the plan.
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He has something he is benefiting from you,so he has to play along with you,then promise to have forgiven you.but the day those benefits stop,might be financial benefits,sex*al benefits,social benefits,class benefit(Imagine a poor man from trenches with no ambition marrying a sitting president's daughter).
It's very difficult for a man to forgive/forget a cheating woman,then move on like nothing happened.
A woman "might" be able to,but a man? It's the worst way to bruise their Ego.
That you know someone who cheated and the husband is still with her,it's only but time..whatever you hear is just what they want to tell you as a woman,so you can feel better and stick around,so as to keep offering the above benefits,until they find another woman.
@MARTINS
Which women forgive? They also forgive, for the same reason you gave for a man forgiving a cheating woman. and that is, they are benefitting something. Anyone who forgives cheating is benefiting something. Have you seen where a broke man who cheats is forgiven or a broke woman who has nothing the man lacks to offer.
DeleteA woman cheated with her landlord the jobless husband knew and stayed in the marriage ... if he has money do you think he would forgive her?
Baddies ke. Exchanging body fluids indiscriminately. Disgusting.
ReplyDeletePls marry him. You both shouldn’t be back to the dating pool.
What a wawu😱
ReplyDeleteYou whore😂😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteTell him and pleaseeeeeee don't forget to update us
Call it off with him any which way
Is this a kind of game or what ?
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
What kind of foundation are you guys laying for this marriage?
Anyways overto the baddies on ya voice 🤭
This kind husband will sleep with the mother of the bride when she comes for omougwo😏..You just up and off pant for every tom, harry and dick. Tufiakwa.
ReplyDeleteThe "hand" you also give to someone today is what they will keep using to follow you..
ReplyDeleteForgive today,he will cheat tomorrow and even bring home girls when you both marry,and what's the highest you would do? Forgive and wait for the action to be repeated tomorrow..
Yeah,he would keep cheating because he knows there is nothing to lose,after all you are desperate and can take anything.
Nothing built with or on desperation lasts!
And wait,did you actually cheat from the above write-up? If yes,you both don't have any respect for each other,no self worth,self value,self esteem or self honour.
You both should leave the marriage plan alone for now,cheat while single until you have had enough fill(probably when you both are around 53 or thereabout)
Wish you both the best.
@MARTINS
Both of are truly compatible if truly you've slept with his friend.. So enjoy ur marriage and be ready because both of you will just be sleeping around..
ReplyDelete"My guy of 5 years proposed to me...The relationship was not really a committed one" 🤨🥴
ReplyDelete"There is none of my friends and even cousins that he did not sleep with...I really have nothing not to forgive" 😳😵
These are not the statements of someone who will have longevity in their marriage, should they decide to go ahead and marry their fiancé.
My advice:
The two of you need to go your separate ways! There is nothing admirable about promiscuity! Slinging your private parts to any and everyone because "they wanted it" and are "sweeter", screams - stunted mindset/ immaturity! This is further cemented by the fact that you're seeking advice from 'baddies'. Grow up! The both of you! You're too old to be foolish.
He confessed to you because some of them have been threatening him .... Let him know whatever suggestions you have to have his reaction, it appears that only few good people now live on earth.
ReplyDeleteYou saw the sign now, you better walk away or else you will send another bitter chronicle after marriage . He will continue cheating run ooo
ReplyDeleteMadam did you really slept with his friend or you just want to see his reaction?if no,then, think twice .
ReplyDeleteDon't understand the game both of you are playing
Did you really sleep…? Haba! English with tears
DeleteFor you to even still be considering accepting his proposal says a lot about you na wa .
ReplyDeleteStella sorry for the pain you are going through, may the Lord heals you completely.
ReplyDeleteMadam Poster that marriage is dead on arrival don't try it else you will forever regret your action. Move on, another man will find you.
For me oo since he opened up to you and explained everything go ahead and marry him jaree, what of most of them that play saints but if you open their nyash eeh
ReplyDeleteYou can as well tell him that you fucked his friend to know his reaction
Lastly check if you can handle the whole thing oo Maka future too far 🙄
Poster go ahead with your plans and please come back and tell us his reaction ooooo
ReplyDeleteYou are beyond desperate to even consider entering such a marriage. That marriage would be built on no foundation at all, it could not stand even the slightest of test and would just crumble and fall like Sodom and Gomorrah. There is nothing there, even if you were 100 years old and was a woman of the night all your life that would still be a garbage marriage.
ReplyDeleteAll I see here are two equally stupid people. You want to start a marriage on a very faulty foundation. One built on lies and deceit. A marriage of permissible cheats.
ReplyDeleteYou reduced your age because you are desperate. That desperation has made you have little regard for yourself that you are considering making a home with a man who has slept with everyone around you just like have with his.
Both of you are idiots and I'm just trying to be nice here .
The guy is a real G..
DeleteShe said the relationship wasn't really a commited one, so he was of course banging other people.. but as a real G, bow that he wants to get committed, he did what he is supposed to do which is to tell her the things that matters like he banging her friends and cousins.. but the chic is as fake as fake can be, she lied about her age and is still hiding the fact that she banged his friend..
She is even planning to still lie that it was a joke after opening up..
God forbid
The both of You Fit Each Other oooo..
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
The relationship is already very toxic abeg. You can test him, but I don't think you should marry him
ReplyDeleteYou two have no business being together. The foundation of the relationship is horrible kolewerk. There is no salvaging this relationship. My best advise is please don’t marry him because the whole relationship is a low down dirty mess which will only end in tears.
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