Hmmm....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CONFUSED
Please BVs, I need advice.....
I am of marriageable age and two brothers from same parents are asking to marry me but both dont know that they are both asking me.....
How do i know which one to choose from?They were both good looking and their parents have settled them well financially and will never be broke in this life again.....I am also from a comfrotable home and want to marry right financially so both of them are my spec in that aspect..
How do i know which one will make a good husband? I am scared that if i choose one, the other one might get angry and the brothers might fall out...
I am so confused......Or should i just forget them both?
Choose the one that makes you laugh, the one that has a sense of humour and lets you talk when you both are having a conversation...Choose the one that is kind...Choose the one that is not stingy...One of them might try to gbensh you to test the waters, choose the one that does not try to do so.....lol
Wait. Are you dating 2 brothers.??
ReplyDeleteThey play you hear!
ReplyDeleteHow do you think both brothers won't discuss something of that magnitude?
Your emphasis is solely on comfort, rather than seeking for the one that will align with your feelings, thoughts, energy and emotions.
The best fit is to jettison the two brothers, and give someone else the opportunity to love you.
DOZZYBEST.
Pray about it
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No matter how this double request is shaded, it is wrong.
DeleteBrother A says: "I want to marry you".
Then Brother B comes along with his request for marriage.
And Poster was not able to tell him that "your brother has already asked"?
Two brothers of the same parents?
Instead she was carrying them along to know their financial settlement first before wanting to know the secret person of their respective hearts.
#GreedAndSelfishness
Have you been dating two brothers? Nobody will ask you for marriage without dating you, except for arranged marriages and that's not the case here. I have no advice for you. Go and learn integrity first.
DeletePoster I'd say none of the above, search elsewhere.
DeleteLike she really needs to learn integrity.
DeleteI have adult sons with great jobs in corporate 🇺🇸, I used to encourage them to seek out 🇳🇬girls. Being active for the past 5 years ago on Nigerian SM, though anonymously has been a huge eye opener. Many of the girls have unrealistic financial expectations of men and I pray they have both genders so that their sons will slave away while the wives just shop & post it online.
DeleteThis poster is mostly concerned with their financial “settlement”😳. Do you love them both equally? I don’t know their family but I doubt my sons would have told each other. I hope you don’t end up losing both because the guys also deserve women that love them.
Ah Stella you finish work..Oya poster follow Stella's advise
ReplyDeleteI just closed my eyes and inagined if it was a man that said two sisters like him and he's confused as to which to choose.
Delete20:29
DeleteDating two or more men is acceptable for a woman, but not for a man.
Dating several men does not mean the woman is gbenshing them. Even if she does, she needs to be sure of their ability.
The woman may collect money from the men, but most of the men give without being asked. So, they are not being fleeced.
Women make the rules on man-woman relationship.
Their complaints are about men not wanting to obey and submit to their rules.
#Yimmu
Organise a wrestling match and marry the winner.
ReplyDeleteLol 😆 🤣 😂..
DeleteYou got mind that is the best way to settle this sister. But some women dey play too much. She knows what she is doing. I have not laugh like this for a while
DeleteMiss Aboki with the cruise
DeleteHahaha......
DeleteHahahahahaha..
DeleteI think she’s only interested in their pockets. Poster one must be richer than the other so find out and follow the richest one cos from your post it’s all about money money riches. Bye
Fan Emmanuel
Aboki has given a savage response 😄
DeleteHahaha 🤪🤣🤣🤣
DeleteHehehehehe
DeleteYou didn't talk about their character, you are just talking about physical features and financial capabilities...have you prayed about it? Well, first be friends with them so you can see each good or bad quality to an extend. The heart knows which it loves more. But please ensure you don't gbensh any of them, so it won't becloud your sense of judgement. All the best.
ReplyDeleteStella’s advice made me lol but she’s absolutely correct.
ReplyDeleteOne thing that made me marry my husband is his good heart. Even when we are having a misunderstanding, he never neglects me and is still kind to me. Lol.
Kindness is a big deal.
At first i was going to say abort mission. How can you allow two brothers ask you to date them or for marriage?? You have already caused enmity between them.
ReplyDeleteSo decide asap which one amongst them you want and tell the other one his brother is on your case and you are thinking about it and considering.
It should never have gotten to this point. Don't pitch two brothers against each other because of you.
Otherwise remain friends with them and pray for someone else not from this family.
By the way what is your real motivation fir thinking about them? They come from a wealthy home?? What about integrity, character and fesr of God. These are the main things you should look for. How does he treat his Mum. Is he respectful??
Money and wealth is not everything.
Your only concern is that,they are financial ok 👍 👌.
ReplyDeleteWhat about their character??
Look for the one that has the fear of God..
He communicates.
Attentiveness
Positivity
Good health and self care
Kindness.
Make your choice and tell him ,he 's brother is also asking for your hand in marriage.Let him go and sort it out with his brother.
ReplyDeletePoster, how can they not know they are both asking you for marriage? Thats absurd, my dear
ReplyDeleteIn this age and times? Where siblings discuss practically anything from relationships, finances and work life.
I think it's a case of who she prefers playing out here. If you ask me, they are most probably waiting for you to make a decision. To them, its a win win and not a do or die.
I think you should just follow your heart. In your quiet moment, whom does your heart beat or yearn for?
You will find the answers you need all within yourself.
Best of luck!
The brothers are convinced of what they want, and they may get it. Because you want money, they will both end up gbenshing you.
ReplyDeleteIt's not possible for them not to have talked about you to themselves if they actually want marriage.
Better look else where ,no matter the one you choose ,the other will take revenge ,more over you all will be seen each other as family occasions demands more over if you have any challenge in marriage tomorrow,it will be a recipe for regret .
ReplyDeletePoster look beyond the financial aspect as you have established that. Look for the one that is kind, loves God, respectful, responsible, and human. Don't be carried away. May God help to you to make the right choice.
ReplyDeleteI am also afraid for you poster. Whoever you want,most elicit jealousy from the other. Very dicey situation. I will advise you let go,of both. 🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm...both of them may just want to sleep with her & scram...Talking about financial benefits here, they must have perceived that's what she's after. Poster, pls be careful.
DeleteThis relationship is dead on arrival sef. You’re talking to two brothers to the point of marriage? There’s a chance you’ve even slept with both of them so there’s no way this is going to work. Two brothers? Una wicked o
ReplyDeleteThey are just playing you. None of them will marry you. They will just gbensh you and move on. Don't let them play you. They have planned and discussed who will sleep with you first. Do you think that two brothers would not tell each other if they have met someone they truly want to marry? Be there and make a fool out of yourself if you want just because all you can see is their "wealth". It might be something they do on the regular with different women just to use and dump them. It's a game for them and you have fallen into their trap but it's not too late. Block them and move on. The right one will come.
ReplyDeleteYou have strong points . For them to even let her know that their parents have settled them well financially that they will never get broke 😂 This is the pattern. I know some guys like that here, they are cousins but live in same vicinity , not same house.
DeleteAre you even serious at all ?
ReplyDeleteWhich one do u love?
ReplyDeletePray for directions
"They were both good looking and their parents have settled them well financially and will never be broke in this life again" this your statement is laughable. If their money is why you're so much invested in them, you need to have a rethink. Check for things money can't buy any of them possess, check their values if it matches with yours if you have one as well. Please, pray because there's one who knows the end from the beginning.
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Poster how are you sure they are not aware that both of them are asking for your hand in marriage? If you accept one, the other will be unhappy. Why don't you prayerfully follow Stella's advice? All the best.
ReplyDeleteMarry the one your mind wants to follow
ReplyDeleteHow long have you been going out with both of them? You are double dating. And brothers for that matter.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, follow Stella's advice.
Some of you are getting her wrong
ReplyDeleteShe never said she is dating two brothers
She said two brothers are interested in her.
They maybe family friends, neighbors, school mate , church members etc
You are getting her wrong, she said from the same parents. She get mind.
Delete19:07 she is saying the brothers may be people she knows as family friends etc
DeleteThey may not be strangers to get
Do they live apart?? How come you are dating two brothers and about to get married and none of them has not introduced you to the family members?
ReplyDeleteJust be deceiving yourself until they use you to settle fight.
She’s not dating them
DeleteThey have shown interest
This is uncommon when you know a family
You are happily dating two brothers from the same parents, na wao.
ReplyDeleteMay God Direct You To Marry Right
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
You don't have reasonable specifications, just money and good looking. Chai...
ReplyDeleteIs this even true?
ReplyDeleteshe should not marry any of them to avoid family feud.
ReplyDeleteYou sound too young thou, i just wish you can ask them to wait a little longer for you and know each of their response .
ReplyDeleteAnd both are aware of asking you to marry them, so be wise in communicating with them
Two brothers? I wish you'd find someone else and leave them alone. This can cause enemity between them for life
ReplyDeletePoster why do you get this far with two siblings? Like keeping two siblings in a romantic relationship is very bad,that might bring enamity between this brothers if you eventually agree to marry One,just quit relationship with them and look for another man.
ReplyDeleteProbably she knows both as friends
DeletePoster why do you get this far with two siblings? Like keeping two siblings in a romantic relationship is very bad,that might bring enamity between this brothers if you eventually agree to marry One,just quit relationship with them and look for another man.
ReplyDeleteIm just imagining the backlash if this chronicles were the other way round.
ReplyDeleteOne girl, collecting money from 2 brothers, dating both of them and probably gbenshing them.
Poster, you no dey fear God?
This week's chronicles surely show that the woman is a human being too despite the typical pretentious show and genderised gragra some put on here.
DeleteAbort mission pls
ReplyDeleteYou are a very greedy lady,it means you are double dating,if you have agreed for one before why did you agrree for the other one? Don't use two brothers head to jam, either you let dem know,tell them who came to you first or you look for love else where............ Josaria
ReplyDeleteHanty is this African magic you watched last night or for real 😳😳 hmm, check yourself, how do you think that choosing one person will not even cause problems for you eeh
ReplyDeleteConfused and greedy girl
ReplyDeleteMY DEAR, DEY PLACED A BET ON YOU! THEY ARE BOTH PLAYING U COS YOU SLEEPING WITH BOTH OF THEM. NO MAN WILL MARRY HIS BROTHER'S GIRLFRIEND. IF YOU CHOOSE ONE, AFTER SOMETIME OF CHOPPING YOU AND CLEANING MOUTH, HE'D NOW CONFRONT YOU ABOUT YOU SEEING HOS BROTHER AND BREAK THINGS UP. Na normal format
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts exactly, this has to be a bet. Be wise poster
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