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My friend got pregnant eight years ago. She had a fall out with her baby daddy, broke and hurting she decided to have an abortion. She took a lot of herbs and bled out but found out later that the baby was still in her womb.
Someone directed her to a doctor in a government hospital,this doctor happened to be the head of gynecology department when she told him what she wanted he told her since she was advanced in her pregnancy she would have to come to his private clinic so the operation can be done there.
She went with her cousin and her cousin was made to sign a document so the operation could be carried out. Just last year the nurse that was in the operating room with the doctor saw her cousin and told her the baby survived and is with a wealthy family .
She has been having dreams of this baby for years and now she doesn't know if she should confront the doctor. She was seven months pregnant.
JESUS!!!!.....This your friend can kill!!!
She has no right to confront the Doctor because she wanted the baby dead but he gave it life albeit via tricks...You have no right to even contact the child..move on, its your loss!
Taking out pregnancy that has advanced, not fearing for her own life, I raise 🙌 for her. If the child was with a not so wealthy family, would she confront the doctor??The nurse on the other hand had NO business telling her about the child.
ReplyDeleteSpot on!.
DeleteWhat poverty can not do does not exist. Just because the baby is with a wealthy family. Thunder your friend dier.
Nothing to add
DeleteWow, so your friend wanted to terminate a seven month old pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteShe should forget about the child.
please, move on and focus on something else.
OMG.. Who abort a seven months pregnancy if not wickedness..
ReplyDeleteShe should stay the hell away from that child..
But she wanted an abortion so what's she confronting the doctor for? People can be so dillusional
ReplyDeleteConfront the doctor over what??? As far as the she and the doctor are concerned the baby is dead.
ReplyDeleteLeave the doctor alone. At least the doctor has conscience. How could she want to abort a baby at seven months? That's a formed baby. What was she thinking?
God bless the doctor for not ending the life of the baby.
We need more doctors like that with a conscience.
The person is YOU
ReplyDeleteYou are the person who did this
Lmao
Delete7 month pregnant is a complete baby. Wowwwwww. Things dey happen. The Dr will deny her and all. It will be a very long ride.
ReplyDeleteThings happen !
ReplyDeleteIf she had a fall out with the baby daddy, did she also have a fall out with the innocent fetus?
She wanted the fetus out by all cost and sundry, even bled from herbal intake but the fetus stuck.
I just want to state that she has no claims to that child now, even if the doctor did otherwise. It was in the doctor's interest and discretion to preserve the baby. She should move on and heal because she signed a consent via her cousin.
As for the Nurse, the Doctor can decide to take legal sanctions against her. Even the new family of the child can sue her for beach of confidence.
No amount of legal case can make her win this case. It's a case of finders keepers
Never take a Life Decision OR make promises:
ReplyDeleteA) When you are very happy
B) When you are very sad
C) When you are not emotionally stable
Find a balance,think it through and always remember for every action you take in life,there are consequences.
Wishing you and "your friend" all the best as she lives with this trauma forever.
@MARTINS
ReplyDeleteYes, she indeed has the right to sue the doctor if she was deceived about the termination of her pregnancy. However, as you pointed out, evidence will be crucial for her case.
Gather Evidence: Medical Records: Obtain a complete record of all consultations, procedures, and prescriptions related to the alleged termination.
Receipts or Bills: If she was charged for the procedure, this serves as proof that a termination was claimed to have occurred.
Expert Opinion: Another medical professional can confirm whether the procedure was actually performed.
Communications: Any text messages, emails, or written communication with the doctor can help substantiate her claims.
Document Emotional or Physical Impact: If she experienced emotional distress or physical harm as a result of the deception, these should be documented, possibly with the help of a therapist or healthcare provider.
Legal Options: With adequate evidence, she can; File a civil lawsuit for malpractice or breach of trust.
Report the doctor to a medical board or regulatory authority, which could lead to disciplinary action against the practitioner.
By taking these steps, she ensures her rights are protected while holding the doctor accountable for any unethical behavior.
He had no right to give out her baby without her consent.
DeletePontificator, hope you know abortion is still a crime in Nigeria. There’s only one exception and the case in hand does not fit in.
DeleteDear Poster Everyone involved has the broken the law and all won't be spared if you or cousin decides to confront....
ReplyDeleteYour cousin or you: Carrying out abortion which equates to murder. You can be prosecuted for that.
Doctor Omenuko: Carrying out abortion under false pretense and selling off baby....
Nurse Eliza: Breaching private information and patient confidentiality.....
New Parents: Liable for purchasing a child which is child trafficking punishable with fine or imprisonment....
Poster you see the web of people involved.....If you try to confront anyone, see you see nga and every other parties involved....
Take your L and move on or blow the whistle and everyone goes down including your cousin or you...
Decide today what path you want to follow...
All the best
This got me 🤣🤣
DeleteConfront the doctor and get your child
ReplyDeleteWhat he did is child trafficking and the child is looking for her mother
She may not be having a good life where she is
And the doctor will gladly give the child to her. Oya let her go and open old wounds and start dancing, or you think it will end easily.
Delete16.24 how do you know the doctor snd the adoptive mother are not criminals
DeleteFind them and get yo the bottom of it. Where did the new mother get the child
Nonsense story
ReplyDeleteLol… you don see am.
Delete7 months baby is a mature human. Even some babies are birthed pre mature at 7 months and they survive. Let go of that baby. You never wanted him/her. Probably, the doctor delivered the baby, incubated it and gave it up for adoption to people who really need it. Your loss.
ReplyDeleteI had my son through an emergency C-section at seven months, he is a 22 old young man today
DeleteYour wicked friend,should face front 🤨🤨🤨
ReplyDeleteYou didn't want the baby, now you want the baby.
ReplyDeleteWhat do you even want?
Someone has done the job, she now wants the benefits coupled with the wealthy family she heard.
DeleteBetter move on if you don't want to end up in jail and the nurse that gave that information won't even show up for her as witness ,long throat you don't want someone and another person abouted ll
ReplyDeleteYou don't have any claim and don't end up in jail even police won't help you to arrest anybody for child trafficking
ReplyDeleteThey will
DeleteNa money
I hope the wealthy couple arrests you and throw you into jail if you attempt to make contact.
ReplyDeleteRubbish!
And how did the couple get the child
DeleteAre they innocent
They bought a child knowing fully well it was not a legal adoption
Am I the only one who thinks that the chronicles from last weekend and so far, have been somehow? This story is traumatic. And it has left me wondering how. Gravely, when a woman is seven months pregnant, the baby is viable, and what happened is not just an abortion gone wrong but could very well be an illegal act in saner climes. If the child survived and was placed without her consent, this is a grave violation of her rights - once again in saner climes. But having had the mind and will to pull through with the abortion at such an advanced stage gives her no moral right to be upset.
ReplyDeleteSince, her recurring dreams indicate guilt feelings, grief, and the need for closure, she doesn't deserve such kindness. And with our unique peculiarities, it’s best to move on, but if she is insistent on any form of confrontation, it must be supported legally not by emotions. But she lost the right to even contemplate this route, the minute she went ahead with the abortion - we are a people of moral standing.
Left to me, what she should be prioritising is seeing a therapist to process her cruelty, guilt and trauma. She needs a mental check. That way, she gets to ask herself what she truly wants: contact with the child, accountability for the doctor, or simply closure. Or the thought of being adopted by a wealthy family?
It won't be easy, but because we are a people condensed by religious beliefs when seeking refuge, retribution and restitution, so with the right support, she can get healing through prayers.
All parties in this story are somewhat sick.
Exactly. Your friend should make peace with the fact that her baby is fine and she didn’t commit murder. She should move on please. Next!
DeleteWho abort a whole 7months pregnancy? Jeez! People have liver shaa. Make all of una face front, didn't your friend want the baby dead in the first place?
ReplyDeleteThis is a dicey situation. What do humans really want. Tell your friend for every action we take in this life good or bad there's a reaction. She has to let go and focus more on her mental health
ReplyDeleteYour friend is bat shit crazy. Who aborts a pregnancy so advanced. She should take her case to God and seek repentance, leave the child she did not want alone. If she had heard the child was in an orphanage or with modest parents in some obscure village would she be twisting and turning. She heard wealthy family and now she is getting pressed about a life that she did not even want because she could not bear to be a single mother. Let her go cool her azz somewhere and let sleeping dogs alone. People like her peese me the hell off, when what they rejected did not crumble and has thrived they suddenly remember it and suddenly want it. The rejected has a right to their peace without the disturbances from those that rejected them on their quest of trying to ease their guilt and shame. Rejected people deserve their peace! Mtsscchhwww
ReplyDeleteReally! Rejected people deserve some peace. Somme people after rejecting you and they get to know you’re still managing your life without them, they will start looking for how to finish you off.
DeleteLet that child be please. Seek therapy to assuage whatever nonsense guilt you’re feeling but leave that child alone and don’t be a greedy thief before Chineke a kpo gi oku.
She doesn't have the right.
ReplyDeleteStella is right, the doctor saw her desperation and tricked out, birthed the baby rather than kill it.
I bet she was naive, that's why she went to a government hospital, where abortion is not allowed.
What changed now? The only thing she can do is to trace the doctor and beg him to allow her see her child, and if he refuses, that's her loss, after all, technically the child is dead.
You go dream tire. Oniranu. You'd be charged for attempted murder first. Ijiot
ReplyDeleteYes, she should move on.She never wanted the child and it was smartly given to someone else.It was a choice made.
ReplyDeleteUnbelievable
ReplyDeletePoster, you better tell your friend to just forget about that child. After all, she wanted the child dead.
ReplyDeleteHaaaaaa this matter is heavy, do you want the child back, the doctor can as well deny that...... I bet nothing will happen. The nurse might not be sure of what she is saying. Good luck to whatever you wish to carry out it won't be easy something
ReplyDeleteSeven months pregnancy?
ReplyDeleteShe's the devil herself. Tuehhh 🤮
I just want to vet my anger on the nurse, that is so unprofessional . Please let your friend ask God for forgiveness and move on. What if the Dr killed the child we will not be typing this chronicle today.
ReplyDeleteWhich Nollywood movie is this?
ReplyDeleteShe attempted to get rid of a seven months old pregnancy? She's a joke if she thinks she can just waltz her way into the child's life. She has no moral grounds & the biological hold she should have was lost when she went in for the abortion. She never wanted the baby. The 'dreams' about the baby probably started after finding out the child is in a rich home. She should let the child be. She nearly snatched life away from the child before, she shouldn't snatch a possibly great life from him or her now.
ReplyDeleteShe should let gooo
ReplyDeleteShe never wanted tte baby
God tturned the babyy's destiny around for good..
Anuty poster tell your friend to move on !!!!! Or else what happened in 1947 will happen again .
That nurse lack an etiquette of her profession tuee
ReplyDeleteConfront the doctor about what exactly, where's even her shame!
ReplyDeleteSome ladies don't even fear for their lives, aborting a pregnancy at 7 months? Nawaooo
Would your friend still look for the baby if she was told,the baby is a drugs addict or criminal?
ReplyDeleteI wonder how the Procedure was done without she knowing that the baby was Alive..
ReplyDeleteShe's Heartless For Removing a 7month old Baby..
As She no want pinkin
Person wey want am done collect am
Let her face Front
And Move On..
Hello iya Boys
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Hmmmm..... things are really happening. People really have gut to do so much Evil.
ReplyDeleteMay God have mercy on us all.
Why was she so bitter that she decided to abort a 7 month old pregnancy? The baby is now with the family he deserves. She should move on
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