Here are excerpt from the interview...
Toyosi: Let’s talk about the girls, let's talk about the women, year one and two were a bit rough, there was a lot of attention. You were getting a lot of attention from women and I was almost losing my mind then, remember when I was trying to go through your phone and then find out who this person is and then I will be asking questions and you will change your password and I will find your password because it is my work. You know I studied journalism, right? So, I know how to investigate.
It's probably not going to stop because there will always be women who are attracted to married men and who would want to talk to them and all of that but do you have measures in place to safeguard yourself from the wildness and craziness?
Etim: so, the simple answer to the question is yes, I have always had measures in place, but I guess my toolbox is getting equipped with better and better measures as I grow. I have learnt to have boundaries in place. I have learnt to deal with my savior complex but I can’t save everybody that needs help from me. I cannot be their lord and savior. I cannot be their emotional support. I cannot be the love of their life. I cannot be everything to everybody. As I grow and evolve, I am getting better at handling these things. Have I always been having this skill? Probably not and I am not claiming I am there yet; I am just saying that I’m learning.
Source: Toyosi Etim-Effiong YouTube channel
Etim: so, the simple answer to the question is yes, I have always had measures in place, but I guess my toolbox is getting equipped with better and better measures as I grow. I have learnt to have boundaries in place. I have learnt to deal with my savior complex but I can’t save everybody that needs help from me. I cannot be their lord and savior. I cannot be their emotional support. I cannot be the love of their life. I cannot be everything to everybody. As I grow and evolve, I am getting better at handling these things. Have I always been having this skill? Probably not and I am not claiming I am there yet; I am just saying that I’m learning.
Source: Toyosi Etim-Effiong YouTube channel
He had to change his password and you kept finding out what the new one is. Na big work be this. You try, you get time.
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Chai. Reading this interview was cringeeeeee. Unless this is publicity stunt. If not, she should pick her self esteem from the floor. Gosh.
DeleteIs he the only fine actor? His mates are putting boundaries in place and he’s busy being peoples savior
I have never looked twice at this bald head guy, is this guy really that handsome or na me no get eye because he doesn't come close to no 10 in my list of handsome actors
DeleteNot even top 20. I believe in everyone being happy and proud of their body and loving the human form they were given to live in this earth. We should all love our dearly beloved as though he is the most handsome man in the world. But let us not forget reality and truth. Handsome inside the house is one thing and handsome outside the house is another thing.
DeleteNo where near top 20. He is just there, still we won't hear word. One man meat another man pomo
DeleteGod bless their union
She's older than him by years. That's what ladies who marry younger lovers live through and through.
DeleteAll these Lagos boys; Ibrahim Suleiman and Linda Ejiofor, Osas Ighodaro and Her ex hubby. All of them na the same boat carry dem. Okoki,okomi trying to cover leaking bucket but for where?Lekki wives isonu.
Insecurity is pursuing them, morning, afternoon and night.
You expect a bomboy not to sow wild oats? For lagos?
Abeg abeg abeg.
We need beta interviews not all these ones.
She should direct her questions to her kayan mata seller, because definitely he'll do what Lekki boys do. THEY CHEAT. He's a boy not a man. Simple!
Sit near them in events and see how jumpy and fidgety these wives act.
Too much tension to hold down an active Bobo in his whoring years. Odiro possible na.
Awon Lagos blokes,una dey try sha.
Daddy freeze and his wife.
ReplyDeleteHappy wedding anniversary to them.🎉
Happy anniversary. God continue to bless your home. 🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on their 7th wedding anniversary. 🎉🎊🎈
ReplyDeleteMay the love Toyosi has for Etim continue to wax stronger and may Etim love Toyosi equally.
Amen
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DeleteHappy wedding Anniversary to the Ettims
ReplyDeleteThe emotional stress some women go through inside marriage is alarming.
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Na her cup of tea be that.
DeleteDem send them to shoot film,e kolobi the Bobo.
Same thing Linda Ejiofor do.
Now e dey hide gist, e go still blow up. Soon.
What man packs into his fiancee's apartment? Like seriously?🤨🙄
I will judge you once and move on from any further news concerning the guy.
XP Kee waiting for Linda Ejiofor gist, you will wait tire Oh you wish you wish, winch wish them luck and face your own
DeleteNice one 👍🏾 congratulations to your 7th year Anniversary,more love,more win
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteHWA to the Etims
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary to the lovebirds 💕💕
ReplyDeleteMay THE LORD continue to bless the union.
ReplyDeleteThe conversation and discussion was valid but could have been private.
ReplyDeletePeople saying Toyosi should calm down has she didn't Marry Idris Elba should know that's her own trophy. Toyosi loves her Etim
It can't be private because he's definitely cheating.
DeleteTension wan kill Toyosi.
After 3 kids? Her heart go race taya.
All these boys are not family oriented dem just wan cruise life.
Make one marry UTI come talk online,angry churen full internet,dem go flog am wotowoto.
Marriage is not an It is well matter.
Watch his background before jumping in. I never recover from wetin that Amata boy do innocent Mbong, small delicate babygeh like this. E still dey pain me.
Stupid Lekki boys.
Even background won’t change much. My husband and I grew up in the same church. His dad and my dad were best friends before his papa died; but he still cheated. I have cut off anything sexual with him. It’s hard, very hard but I need my mental sanity. Just there because of the kids and it’s easier to co parent in the same house. Only way a man can be discipline and not be moved by these women is if he’s a genuine Christian or maybe traumatized by what his mom went through so he wouldn’t want to put his wife through that. If there’s a marriage in the next world, I’ll marry a prayerful pastor. Not jekurede lukewarm pastor. Or better still stay single. Lord help us women.
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ReplyDeleteHappy wedding anniversary to them 🥳
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ReplyDeleteHappy anniversary to them, marrying a fine husband and a celeb is not a joke....
ReplyDeleteNope it’s not. I can’t do it. I just can’t.
DeleteHappy Anniversary
ReplyDeleteHappy wedding anniversary 🎉🎊🥂
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Happy anniversary
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ReplyDeleteHappy Wedding Anniversary to them 🎉
ReplyDeleteToyosi with the Insecurity
ReplyDeleteAll the time. She go cry taya.
DeleteDo you wish her bad? Why would she cry at all or more than she has done (if at all)?
DeleteLoll @ she go cry Taya.🤣🤣 such a pretty woman but self esteem is on the floor and I don’t blame her. Her husband is around beautiful women everyyyyyday and he doesn’t help the situation. Always posting them with ridiculous comments that a married man shouldn’t. So many cheating men out there whyyyyy. What’s really going on??? She signed up for this though so make she relaxxxxxx.
DeleteXp are you waiting for bad to happen?? See how you are everywhere jubilating already. Be calming down, you that married older don't tell me that you have it all,.
DeleteWhy are girls chasing after her husband? There are so many fishes in the ocean nau. Ladies, stop it.
ReplyDeleteBecause he enables them. He’s not the most handsome or sexiest actor. But na him we no go hear word for. The problem is obviously him, not really the fans
DeleteHer husband doesn’t help the situation as well. He’s a big flirt.
DeleteOmoo this woman’s self esteem needs to be revamped. That dude is NOT into her at all. She’s the one carrying the relationship. I’ve been there, done that. It IS EXHAUSTING. She should just focus on herself mann.
ReplyDeleteAnd the way this guy deals with ladies online is mind blogging, I would have left his a$$ a long time ago. But I know it’s tough. Especially when kids are involved and all. Goodluck to you toyosi. You deserve happiness. Stay married but find you, find your happiness. Get fit, lose weight, look damn good for you. You’re already a beautiful woman. And oh, your husband ain’t all that. I don’t know what’s the hype about him.🤷🏽♀️
The way she even hypes the guy will be making him think he is all that, thus increasing his tendency to cheat. And the guy is objectively not one of the most handsome, sexiest or richest Nigerian actors. I no even see charisma, no be say him too sabi act. The guy is nothing special. Even on the cast of TMC, your husband isn’t even top 4 most attractive and that’s in a cast of like 5-6 main men.
DeleteLook Toyosi, every married woman is fiercely protective of her man and home but the way you sing this handsome and women chasing thing every week online, like jeez, get some self awareness and self esteem. Your husband isn’t special and if women don’t let your marriage rest, it is because he has allowed it.
Is it not women that married Ramsey Nouah? Or RMD? How many times have they come out to tell us how desirable their husbands are? You’re too old for this ‘shit! This is 18-20year old behavior.
If you must remain in that marriage, go and take lessons from Chioma Davido. Also get a therapist to be venting to instead of coming to do so online.
That’s how she went to reject her insecurities on kunle Remis wife
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