Thursday In House News

 Hailings..........

IN HOUSE MEMO

I hope that your day is going well? Mine is but there is no Sun here and its cold and windy....

Have a beautiful rest of the day and stay on your lane..

xoxoxoxoxoox

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250k giveaway recipients

The last two Recipients for this category are

1-Poshscents

2-Bennycoco

They are getting this as top up because their businesses are doing well...

May God bless and blow your businesses more...

100k each for 20 people loading...will start compiling this evening..

After this, the Christmas giveaway will load as well...

Please the two of you should send your accounts to my EMAIL .

Thank you A-STAR

 

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HOW TO CHOOSE A HUSBAND:
Choosing a husband is a significant life decision. Here are some guidelines to consider:

*Reflect on Your Values and Priorities*
1. Identify your non-negotiables (e.g., faith, family, integrity)
2. Consider your lifestyle, goals, and aspirations
3. Evaluate your emotional readiness for marriage

*Essential Qualities*
1. Character: integrity, honesty, kindness, empathy
2. Communication: effective listening, expressing thoughts and feelings
3. Emotional Intelligence: self-awareness, emotional regulation
4. Responsibility: reliability, accountability, financial stability
5. Mutual Respect: valuing each other's opinions, feelings, and boundaries
6. Trust: loyalty, faithfulness, transparency
7. Shared Vision: aligned goals, values, and aspirations

*Desirable Traits*
1. Sense of humor and playfulness
2. Intelligence and curiosity
3. Ambition and motivation
4. Emotional support and encouragement
5. Physical attraction and intimacy
6. Shared interests and hobbies
7. Adaptability and resilience

*Red Flags*
1. Dishonesty, manipulation, or deceit
2. Emotional or verbal abuse
3. Lack of accountability or responsibility
4. Incompatibility with your values or lifestyle
5. Unwillingness to communicate or resolve conflicts
6. Disrespect or disregard for boundaries
7. Addiction or substance abuse

*Evaluating Potential Partners*
1. Observe how they treat others (family, friends, strangers)
2. Assess their emotional intelligence and maturity
3. Evaluate their communication style and conflict resolution skills
4. Consider their values, goals, and priorities
5. Reflect on your feelings and intuition
6. Seek input from trusted friends, family, or mentors

*Questions to Ask Yourself*
1. Do I feel seen, heard, and valued?
2. Are our values and goals aligned?
3. Can we communicate effectively?
4. Do we share similar interests and hobbies?
5. How does he handle stress, conflict, or challenges?
6. Is he supportive and encouraging?
7. Do I feel emotionally safe and secure?

*Questions to Ask Him*
1. What are your life goals and aspirations?
2. How do you handle conflict or disagreements?
3. What are your expectations for our relationship?
4. How do you prioritize communication and emotional intimacy?
5. What are your thoughts on [important issues]?
6. How do you manage stress and emotions?
7. What are your expectations for finances and responsibilities?

*Prayer and Reflection*
1. Seek guidance from your faith or spiritual practice
2. Reflect on your feelings, thoughts, and intuition
3. Consider seeking counsel from trusted advisors

*Remember*
1. No one is perfect, but character and values matter
2. Compatibility and communication are key
3. Trust your instincts and prioritize emotional safety
4. Marriage is a journey, not a destination
5. Choose someone who inspires you to grow and become your best self. 

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YOUR BIRTHDAY MONTH IS YOUR XMAS GIFT

 

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 WEIRDFACTS
----For oily skin, mash one banana with a teaspoon of honey and a couple of drops of lemon juice. Apply to face for 10 minutes, rinse.

----Don't treat people as bad as they are - treat them as good as you are.

-----In 2005, a psychologist and an economist taught a group of monkeys the concept of money - Soon, the monkeys began to engage in prostitution.

-----We ofter make the mistake that a male is a man. A male is a biological being, and a man is a product of maturity.
 

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