This is a long MUST READ post that might get some of you upset but the truth is thatthe truth hurts.....
An excerpt from the long posts says that ''Many Men are dealing with absolutely Stubborn, Arrogant, Unloving and unsubmissive Women who are so hard hearted and lack feelings.....''
An excerpt from the long posts says that ''Many Men are dealing with absolutely Stubborn, Arrogant, Unloving and unsubmissive Women who are so hard hearted and lack feelings.....''
He says
''MEN ALSO CRY!
It is not only Women that are Maltreated. But Men can’t cry out. But they cry silently inward!
Men can’t report Domestic Violence, no one would believe them,
they silently treat their wounds and report their cases to God themselves.
Many Men are crying behind the door.
Many Men are groaning in their homes.
Many Men are dealing with absolutely Stubborn, Arrogant, Unloving and unsubmissive Women who are so hard hearted and lack feelings.
Hear the Cry of One Man:
I feel some women are the cause of their own trouble because many times when there’s issues of domestic violence we are quick to attribute it to the man while not thinking the women are responsible for this. And your post about Men Maltreating there wives gives so much validation to some stupid things women do within the house.
“I have a wive that looks very innocent about all this things but the truth is when indoor with her she’s almost capable of some very very nasty attitude that sometimes trigger the devil in me. I don’t in anyway support maltreating a woman in any way or form but I feel both angles must be touched sir.”
Some Women are the cause of the Calamities as the family is facing.
Some Women are thorns in the flesh of their husband.
Proverbs 21:9 NKJV
“Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.”
Proverbs 21:19 NKJV
Better to dwell in the wilderness, Than with a contentious and angry woman.
THAT IS THE DESCRIPTION OF THE SITUATIONS.
Some Men would entered Heaven peacefully, if not for the type of the Women they had married.
BUT GOD IS ABLE TO TURN THE WORST SITUATIONS AROUND AND CHANGE THE BADDEST OF WOMEN''
Men can’t report Domestic Violence, no one would believe them,
they silently treat their wounds and report their cases to God themselves.
Many Men are crying behind the door.
Many Men are groaning in their homes.
Many Men are dealing with absolutely Stubborn, Arrogant, Unloving and unsubmissive Women who are so hard hearted and lack feelings.
Hear the Cry of One Man:
I feel some women are the cause of their own trouble because many times when there’s issues of domestic violence we are quick to attribute it to the man while not thinking the women are responsible for this. And your post about Men Maltreating there wives gives so much validation to some stupid things women do within the house.
“I have a wive that looks very innocent about all this things but the truth is when indoor with her she’s almost capable of some very very nasty attitude that sometimes trigger the devil in me. I don’t in anyway support maltreating a woman in any way or form but I feel both angles must be touched sir.”
Some Women are the cause of the Calamities as the family is facing.
Some Women are thorns in the flesh of their husband.
Proverbs 21:9 NKJV
“Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.”
Proverbs 21:19 NKJV
Better to dwell in the wilderness, Than with a contentious and angry woman.
THAT IS THE DESCRIPTION OF THE SITUATIONS.
Some Men would entered Heaven peacefully, if not for the type of the Women they had married.
BUT GOD IS ABLE TO TURN THE WORST SITUATIONS AROUND AND CHANGE THE BADDEST OF WOMEN''
Some women eh? I just avoid them.
ReplyDeleteLike how can God bless you with such a calm demure bloke as a hubby,an alpha male and you stay nagging him to stupor all year round? How?😲
Truth is, men have a one level brain processing unit.
He's doing one thing at a time,just give him space but no,women won't have that. "You must do this,you must do that,gbrrrrrrrrrrrrr🥴 and when you won't LET HIM BREATHEEEE, he either leaves your space, go get some fresh air in some place (probably starts cheating) or he beats you up.🤺🤼
Spare the son of man. Is it too hard to do?
*Hands akimbo*
My posts are hanging. Shioor!
Bye!
Hehehe xhirted p easy nah 🤣🤣 Choi you dey vex like this oo🙄
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Sorry about that but it baffles me how some women don't appreciate what God gave them.
DeleteYuck 🥴
The day a close colleague of mine who is a pastor told me what he goes through at home, was the day i knew men also cry.
ReplyDeleteHe told me it is over a year they had seggs. Even when she wants to allow him, he doesn't have erection again cos of fear...
The gbese wey dis man dey owe office cooperative no b here cos of this woman
He refused to share wat he goes through too to the lead pastors.
They eventually got to know the type of wife he married when he fell.sick and their G.O came for.visit...
His blood level don pass HBP.
I first blamed him to b d cause but i later got to know that his wife na devil's first born"
And many of these women married good and humble men
DeleteHope she got penalized by the church council.
DeleteWicked woman she is.
Learnt most of such women have childhood trauma they didn't heal from now heaping their sleepless nights on their husbands.
Did he just allude to having marital issues in his home? Dude has been singing like a lark lately.
ReplyDeleteI always maintain that a woman will always f(u)ck up within the boundaries you have set for her. If that birthday boundary is too wide or permissive, your days of chronicles will be long.
It is a rough and tough world for men out there. If you can avoid marrying, please my guy do. But if you must, be loving, respectful and caring to your wife but at the same time, be firm, decisive and uncompromising on your principles within reason.
Divorce should always remain an option. No man deserves to go through hell in the name of marriage.
No, he said "hear the story of one man" he was actually relating someone's situation.
Delete.... If THAT BOUNDARY... Ignore that birthday up there.
DeleteI don't think u meant himself, he's referring to someone else
DeleteToh.. men should simply avoid simping. Be a man in your home. Be firm, stop being whinny like a puppy. Rawbish!
ReplyDeleteThe devil will never stop troubling marriages because he's trying to win as much candidates for himself to hell.patience is a virtue and once we have that in homes,alot can be avoided.if a man/woman is equipped with the word of God and the holy spirit lives in you.He will guide both your words and actions,although trials and tribulation will arise but the word of God will stand as a solid foundation for such homes ensuring everyone is careful of words and actions during the time of crisis.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a beautiful thing.it was created by God not only for copulation but for companionship.we truly need one another.
"The devil will never stop troubling marriages because he's trying to win as much candidates for himself to hell"
DeleteMarriage is the surest key to HEAVEN?
Most of the terrible wives use the threat of their husbands missing heaven as their sticks on their husbands heads and backs.
Well, maybe your comment was misunderstood.
May God Help men in this Kind Of Situationship oooo...
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
It's well
ReplyDeleteSo, this person is just now knowing that everyone has a different spirit living in them? How is it possible or even expected for every woman to be the same? If heaven couldn’t be perfect and some of the being there were willing to wage war and happily leave the perceived perception of heaven, then why would a whole pastor expect that every woman could be the same and have the same peaceful spirit inhabiting them? That is why when two terrible ppl happily come together in marriage they can have a great marriage, even if it is filled with evil doings, because they are at peace in having a spouse who share their values and belief systems. Similarly, when two peaceful and loving ppl come together they too can have a joyful and loving experience because they are at peace in having a spouse who share their values and beliefs. The problem comes in when two people of opposing temperaments and spiritual orientation come together. Can evil and good coexist peacefully under the same roof?
ReplyDeleteSome of you want ppl to live forever in bad marriages talking about God hates divorce and God is the author of marriage so you sit and tell ppl to stay instead of accepting that if heaven couldn’t find peace for itself, then the idea that two strange ppl raised in different ways and inhabiting completely different spirits will find peace and live lovingly is always possible because they got married and took vows in a church is complete and utter malarkey.
Also, please stop justifying domestic violence. Marriage does not exist to placate men; Particularly those who could not attain earthly achievements, as the institution they go to feel worthy by having someone in total and constant submission to them. Marriage is a soul bond experience that transcends the physical world. There are obviously physical benefits but marriage is spiritual education where participants learn patience, forgiveness, kindness and other spiritual lessons. It can help someone to work out their spiritual perfection and can protect someone from their vices if they choose to honour their vows.
Points made.
DeleteBut funnily, only a handful of women do not want a submissive husband.
Yet before a man (or prospective husband) says "su..." to a woman, her hackles are up without waiting to hear whether he wants to say "surprise! I just got us a new and better....".
How many wives can live with non-submissive husbands?
#Yimmu
Marriage has become dangerously competitive these days. It has become something like a business transaction.
ReplyDeleteIt has always been a business contract. Do some research on the history of marriage as we know it today. It was never about love of God but survival of the species. My grandmother at 14 was married to my grandfather at 28 and it was not a loving marriage and who knows if such early life experience did not contribute to her eventual dementia. Marriage is hell if not done right.
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