This is sad but it has no way forward...A lot of üpeople are blinded by love instead of walking away from genotype incompatibility situations......
The only people who can stay together despite genotype ish, are those who have no intention of having kids together.....
Better o
ReplyDeleteBest decision. Though sad. 😔
ReplyDeleteHmmmm!
ReplyDeleteOh dear❗️but it better tho to avoid stories that touch later… why did they wait till now to do the genotype test? What were they doing during dating period? Na wah
ReplyDeleteOnce you meet any potential suitor, ask the necessary questions abeg
No mind them 😙
DeleteJust the question i always want to ask, why now? Genotype is the first question you should ask once you start hanging out with someone please...Heart break has made many people mad
DeleteSo sad
ReplyDeleteThis is one of the important tests and discussion to have during talking stage and courtship.
He smart like that.
DeleteThough it's painful ✌️
It's better oo. But they should have done the test before the invitation card. I already knew I was AA right from birth. I knew I can marry any genotype
ReplyDeleteBetter to be late than... Delay is not denial 😘😘 God knows the best
ReplyDeleteBut I think everybody suppose to know their Genotype even before dating talk more of marriage discussion 🙄
They will now be knacking even after marrying other partners. Such separation due to this , they don't cut off from each other, they cheat on their partners
ReplyDeleteTrue at times.
DeleteThis is usually very painful but it is the best decision
ReplyDeleteThis is suppose to be the first confirm information immediately he was interested in marrying her.
ReplyDeleteThe best thing they have both done for themselves because I know a family member who is suffering from having to deal with a SS child.
ReplyDeleteThey are divorced after 7 years of marriage with a sick child to cater for.
Painful but it's all good to avoid regrets later in the future.
ReplyDeleteIts really painful but better for them.
ReplyDeleteSad but best decision.
ReplyDeleteThose that went ahead after finding out their incompatible are regretting it. Love is not enough in such situation.
I fall into this category and it is not even funny, those who don't have this problem should be greatful for what God has done for them
ReplyDeleteDo you people know that Africa Americans don't have genotype issue but only Rhesus factor and GENOTYPE IS ONLY AN AFRICAN AND NIGERIAN THING?
ReplyDeleteHow many lives/relationship this wrench had wretched terrifies me and I hope that next generation scientists find a cure and complete eradication.
There are ways about it but we are not ready for the conversation, financial and the religious angle to the options available makes people to opt out but few people that could do the procedure continued with the marriage.
DeleteIt is well.
Mariam na abortions you dey use style talk?
DeleteThere is a cure for it already in most hospitals in Europe. A family friend had the opportunity to get some transplant done for her. She has not had isues for over a decade now.
DeleteRead up on it!
These are the questions they should ask when dating.
ReplyDeleteBut how will they,when gbenshing,sharwama,nkwobi and catfish pepper soup will not let them see road.
So sad
ReplyDeleteThis is for the best
I know of someone who had started selling aso ebi B4 they found out they were AS.The marriage was cancelled
ReplyDeleteVery painful
ReplyDeleteGenotype incompatibility is a significant issue that should be addressed before marriage to prevent lifelong challenges. While breaking up or canceling a wedding is painful, it’s often the wisest and most compassionate decision for both individuals and their potential children.
ReplyDeleteA marriage built on love can face immense strain when confronted with the emotional, physical, and financial toll of managing chronic illnesses like sickle cell disease. Watching children suffer, coupled with unending hospital visits and medical bills, can erode the love and peace in a relationship.
Taking the responsible step to prioritize health and future well-being demonstrates maturity and foresight. It’s a difficult choice, but one that spares both parties and their potential children from prolonged anguish. Love and compatibility must go hand in hand with practical considerations like health for a sustainable and joyful union.
Genotype did me strong thing too. I couldn't marry the man I love. If wishes are horses .........
ReplyDeleteThat's unfortunate. It is better to separate now, the pain of taking care of a sick child is unbearable.
ReplyDeleteThem no do test before printing out wedding cards..
ReplyDeleteBetter oooo
Hello iya Boys
The best decision for them if they desire to have children 🧑🍼 But why wait until wedding almiost done...
ReplyDeleteThis is painful but the best decision..
ReplyDeleteThis is so unfortunate 😔 but best decision 👍
ReplyDeleteHow do even print a wedding card before knowing your genotype, what where you doing with your time during courtship?
ReplyDeleteThis is sad, but it's better to end things now than be filled with regrets later in the future.
Ivf takes care of this
ReplyDeletePainful but best decision,but this should have been among the first things to talk about during courtship.
ReplyDeleteSo sad
ReplyDeleteBest decision
All the best to them.
Painful but best decision to avoid story that touches the heart
ReplyDeleteThey should have done the genotype before printing card na.
ReplyDeleteBetter for them both ...They will be okay las las
ReplyDeleteI didn't grow up in a culture where ppl did testing. A couple just come together, get married and start their life. I do not know any person who has a child with that disorder. However, there are ppl in the country who do have it. Even so, folks still just marry as they wish without any testing or thought about the disease.
ReplyDeleteIs genotype testing a strictly Nigerian thing or is it done as rigorously right across the continent?