Nigerian comedian and actor Okey Bakassi,says that polygamy is the best form of marriage for Africa because monogamy isn’t working.
Read to the end and tell us if you agree with what he said..
He said, “Forget all the lip services that we pay to polygamy here. I still think that polygamy is the best form of marriage for Africa. Monogamy is not working.
“We are pretending. Now, what’s the difference between polygamy and monogamy? Polygamy says you can marry two people at the same time. Monogamy says you cannot marry them at the same time, you have to let one go. What if you don’t want to let one go?”
Read to the end and tell us if you agree with what he said..
He said, “Forget all the lip services that we pay to polygamy here. I still think that polygamy is the best form of marriage for Africa. Monogamy is not working.
“We are pretending. Now, what’s the difference between polygamy and monogamy? Polygamy says you can marry two people at the same time. Monogamy says you cannot marry them at the same time, you have to let one go. What if you don’t want to let one go?”
-Interview with the honestbunch podcast
I agree with him but polygamy is horrible and i dont pray it on anyone..Most women in polygamous marriages pretend like all is well but na lie....And then all sharing one cucumber is disgusting, I would rather not to know!!!....
Absolute GIBBERISH 🤦
ReplyDeleteOriginal nonsense.
DeleteNonsense upon GIBBERISH
DeleteHello iya Boys
Practice what you preach! He is married to one woman, yet advocating for Polygamy. If this is not hypocrisy, I wonder what it is.
ReplyDeleteMaybe he's trying to tell his wife something, you never know..
DeleteWe all know they can not stay with one punna, like Stella said, we rather not know!
Lols @ all sharing one cucumber
ReplyDeletePolygamy is good for him, that's his thought or opinion though
Coming from a man that currently has no wife.
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
You say?
DeleteFan are you sure? i thought he celebrated his anniversary the other time?
DeleteFan, I thought his wife and children are based in Canada?
DeleteNa now I understand this man. He has a wife in Canada and maybe another babe to keep him bodi warm for naija
DeleteNa the rumor wey I hear
DeleteFan Emmanuel
Last I remembered, he's married to one woman. Does it mean that he's also pretending and all is a lie? Smh...
ReplyDeleteI like you Oga Okey, but this one no enter abeg.
E no enter.
DeleteOk oooo.
ReplyDeleteAll the best to the polygamists
Before my dad left this world,he regret involving in polygamy marriage,as ma'am Stella said up there,some women are evils but pretend to be happy with their step children,not advisable at all.
ReplyDeleteI married into a polygamous family. Father in-law had 7 wives, he died over 20 years ago, but the remaining wives and children are still fighting physical and spiritual battles over properties.
DeleteI support Polygamy but 7 wives is too much.
DeleteDo what you can handle!
Polygamy is good for him not me biko
ReplyDeletePOLIGAMY IS HORRIBLE AT LEAST TO WOMEN.. FROM EVERY ANGLE..
ReplyDeleteHappy Peaceful Week to us all..CHEERS.
Side eyes @sharing of one cucumber 🤣Very disgusting 🤢
ReplyDeleteHow come he still has one wife? Harbingers of deceit.
ReplyDeleteIndirectly telling women that African men are polygamous in nature right, but that's not true, rather tell us with facts and reasons why a man may decide to follow that route. Simple.
ReplyDeleteLICIOUS BABE
Why is he not practicing it?🤷🏿♀️
ReplyDeleteAbeg everybody should do what works for them.
Good polandry is not a bad idea too
ReplyDeleteWe need to import it here in Africa abi wetin una think my fellow women
All this culture this culture that were made by selfish men
ReplyDeleteWomen we can make our culture
Polyrandry wont be a bad idea
God created only eve for Adam
Buy selfish men said One woman is not enough for them
Well, if that works for him, it might not work for others. Them say one woman one wahala, you want to marry more than one ok oo🤭😜
ReplyDeleteI strongly disagree, beside the polygamy only benefit the men
ReplyDeleteExactly. Besides, every African male is not Polygamous. I once had a boss who religion & tradition allowed him to marry as many as he could afford but didnt, so i asked him what happened? He told me that what he enjoys with wife & children, he doesnt want to lose it, he told 'my wife could be crazy sometimes but i also get crazy sometime, he said that is not enough to get a 2nd wife & he has been like that for over 15yrs ive known him.
DeleteOga, practice what you preach
ReplyDeletePolygamy does not favour women but these selfish men don't even care how we feel. So bad
ReplyDeletePolygamy is not bad but it should be well planned. Any woman that decides to be a second or third wife should either know how to pray well or know how to hold on to her idol well, for the sake of her kids.
ReplyDeleteEven as a wife married into a polygamous family, I still face spiritual battles from my father in-law's wives and children. That was how one of my brother in-law was told during chuch prayers, that the juju his mother did against the husband's children is also affecting him
DeleteIn most polygamy settings, the first wife and her children suffers. Most second wife are there to secure their future and that of their kids. They are mostly wicked and goes diabolical.
DeleteMake I look for trouble this morning. Cucumber that is not shared is that one cucumber?
ReplyDeleteHoneypot that is not shared? is that one honeypot?
DeleteCucumber that they share is not sweet, seeing that you will still go and put it in another hole makes the love making very boring from the woman 😏
DeleteOga biko speak for your self.
ReplyDeleteHe should lead by example and marry at least two wives.
ReplyDeleteI don't not agree with him. Polygamy has many disadvantages.
ReplyDeleteMtsheeeew 😒
ReplyDeleteI hope sharing of the man's will won't be a problem when the time comes?
ReplyDeleteI hope there won't be envy of the the success of the other woman's children, there my causing them to go diabolical on themselves or even going physical all the time?
The sound of the word "'polygamy'' gives me headache. God forbid.,
ReplyDeleteHe should live his Truth
ReplyDeleteI think he’s subtly saying something while doing it ambiguously
I hope he preaches this when a man comes to marry his daughter😒
ReplyDeleteGoldenTulip ✍️🕊️
Oga. stand by this when it is your daughters turn. They will have polygamous husband's. Greedy much
ReplyDeletePolygamy and Monogamy is different. You see that polygamy is a no go area for me. Its called suffering and laughing, the laughter na the neck veins e dey destroy.
ReplyDeleteTo each his own. Polygamy is not for me
ReplyDeleteMy late mum is from a "very'' polygamous family. My maternal grandfather being influential and wealthy married 10 wives. My grandmother was the first wife and my mum the first child among other numerous step sisters and brothers. My mum is late but the recent experience with our maternal people opened my eyes to the evils of polygamy. I just hope whatever that's going on in that family is not spiritually affecting my siblings and I.
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