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Things went from bad to worse for my husband and I. We have 3 children by God's grace. The oldest is 10 years. I fell very ill, they said I matched poison where I sell things. 

I could not walk nor sleepl. I was in serious pains for months going from one hospital to another, one prayer house to another. My sister in-law came to the village one day and told me she will want us to relocate to her location so she will help us. She sent a transporter to carry us. We left with few of our things that could not enter the motor. 

We arrived and she kept us in a hotel and promised to come the next day. We did not see her for two days. I spent the small amount with me on feeding. I called my elder sister and she sent money and gave me description to come over to her place because she stays in the same state though a little far.

We stayed in my sister's place for two months, she called my husband to ask if he wants us to stay back or return to the village as my health is restored. He pleaded to allow us stay as he is working hard to get money to get us accomodation. 

My sister got a small accomodation for us, started POS business for me,, enrolled my children in school and bought small kitchen needs for us. Life started afresh for us. My husband did not follow us when we travelled at first. He asked us to go first so that he will join us later. When my sister got a house for us, he came over to stay with us but things were tough because he is not working.

 We depend mainly on my sister. He went back to the village to huzzle money for food for us. He shuttles between the village and our location. He brings small things from the village to sell here, stay with us for like a month and go back to bring things but transport fare became so high that he couldn't cope. He has not visited us since April this year.

Before I moved to my sister's place, I called my sister in-law to know our fate because she was the one that asked us to come and also she left us without any provision for feeding. she kept promising to come without coming. When my sister asked us to come, I told her and she said we should go that she will meet us there and drop food items for us. 

She came one day and narrated to my sister in my presence how badly my husband treated her, how she gave my husband goods to sell and he sold them and ate the money. She asked me where does my husband expect her to get money to take care of us when he refused to contribute to her education. 

She said my husband should be grateful to God she brought us out of village so that the children can breath fresh air and I in the other hand will not die from the leg posion. She said she will get a vehicle to take us back to the village when we are ready to go back. I could not say a word because this lady promised my children and I heaven on earth if we relocate.

 I couldn't believe she was the one talking. Why bring us here to punish us because of your brothers sins. What if my sister is not in this location. This my said sister vehemently refused my marriage to this man because she feels I deserve better but he was my first and only love.

I called my mother in-law as my father in-law is late. She saw Nothing wrong in what her daughter did. she said my husband is to be blamed. She said my sister should give us transportation fare to go back to the village. My mother in-law is not staying in the village. Her daughters opened a small shop for her at our LG headquarters and she is living there.

It's been two years, My POS business is moving small small. My children are looking better and doing very well in their school. My first son can now speak and write good English My health is fully recovered. My husband has been in the village, he gives excuses of transportation fare to come see us though he occasionally waybill foodstuff, talks to us daily. My sister said she will not renew the rent for us after it expires this December. What should I do please.

Ah this is a tough one...meaning you will be forced to go back to the village?If you have not saved enough please loan money from your sister, if she does not want you to stay at all, then tell her you want to use it to start business in the village and use it to renew your rent..Have a talk with your hubby to know if he is still interested in the marriage or not....Dont go back to the village as there is nothing there for the kids.....Maybe your sister in law planned with your husband to get rid of you cos you were sick...Send someone to check if there is another woman in the house with him......As for your sister in law, i dont beleive she acted alone in getting you out f your husbands house...