TIPS NEEDED TO TELLA MAN OFF
How do I tell off a man who despite knowing I'm married keeps disturbing me...?
I have made it clear severally and he says he'll keep trying.
He's also flaunting money and abroad opportunity.
I told him in clear words that I like money but I don't worship it.
One day, he appears sober, another day, he's sending flirting vibes again. I'm tired.
He's also flaunting money and abroad opportunity.
I told him in clear words that I like money but I don't worship it.
One day, he appears sober, another day, he's sending flirting vibes again. I'm tired.
First off, having that convo alone with him is flirting with him..
You noticed the flirting vibes, this means you are looking... Thats also flirting....
You told him you like money so hes flaunting it.....
He says he will keep trying because your words and your body language may be saying two different things...LOL
how do you tell him off? END THIS TALKING stage if you know that you are really not interested...
Maybe him Baba don tell am say make he use married woman for him next ritual...LOL
Why are you still communicating with him?
ReplyDeleteBlock him everywhere.. Or u like him too?
DeleteMrs Sharon, I think she is enjoying the attention, cos I don't understand why she complains but does nothing about it.
DeleteBecause of the attention and the money. 🙄🙄🙄
DeleteDon't mind her
DeleteMtshewww
Aunty I will not advise you cos you no be small pikin. Just say you’re enjoying the attention.
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
You get am,beautiful Fan. 😌😌😌
DeleteIf u like him you can have him as a side boo
DeleteAbi men have side chic too?
Once e reach woman turn everyone go want guilt trip you
If u like him run your things codedly life na once .
Dear Poster, you are not serious at all 🥱🥱 You think say we be small pikin...Have you not heard you should not smell what you can't eat? You are even indulging him talmbout I like money but I don't worship it...You dey whine? You are entertaining his conversations about his offers, shows that you will fall yakata to his demands very soon....He know how to bait you very well....
ReplyDeleteYou would have blocked him since if you truly don't want to have anything to do with him....Voice of Jacob and body of Esau is the game you are playing here...
All the best
You're a not firm with what you don't want when speaking with him.....if not he would have stopped asking you out knowing fully well that you are married.
ReplyDeleteAbi you sef dey interested nii.
Stella has said it all.. really you are enjoying the attention. Let your No be No! and blunt!
ReplyDeleteHanty carry style dey arrange backup. She never serious. Shebi if dey guy na gateman abi vulcaniser somewhere she go dey ask how to tell am off?
ReplyDeleteMadam you never ready.
Ignore him.
ReplyDeleteIf you keep talking to him, you will eventually date him. Cut off every means of communication and contact.. and be stern and firm, when next you say NO
ReplyDeleteTell your husband to give him a call and warn him sternly.
ReplyDeleteIf you don't want to get your husband involved, then your brother or a male friend can pretend to be your husband and warn him on phone to keep away.
You can also block him everywhere.
This is it.
DeleteThe man na broke guy if e pour you that thing wey you like wella you go fall like iroko tree
ReplyDeleteIf you are not enjoying his engagement, you would have blocked him, so stop pretending.
ReplyDeleteIf you wanted to end it, you would have reported him to you husband by now. You wouldn't be sending this chronicle and his number would have been blocked on your phone so what advice do you want? For your information, no serious right thinking man goes after a married woman.
ReplyDeleteGold comment, no right thinking man runs after married woman.
DeleteSis, stop and shut down all forms of communication.
ReplyDeleteDo that ASAP
Gbam!
DeletePoster be careful. This kind of people are the people that use married women for ritual. He will not stop until he gets what he wants.
ReplyDeleteAre you the only woman in this world. They are several single ladies out there
All the best
Lead us not into temptation, flee from him with the speed of light
ReplyDeleteScreenshot the messages. Then charge him with harassment. And tell your husband.
ReplyDeleteAll of them using abroad opportunity to lure who is desperate.
Charge him for harassment? Just like that? If she screenshots his messages, she wud also be implicating herself cos the chats would show that it is communication between two willing adults. Not a harasser and a harassed.
DeleteYou're enabling him.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you chatting with him in the first place.
What you won't eat you don't smell it
ReplyDeleteJust cut off the convo
ReplyDeleteSo why are you here asking for advice when you're clearly the one leading him on?
ReplyDeleteMadam block his numbers, if he uses another number to call and you notice he is the one end the call and block that number again, trust me he will get frustrated and stop that rubbish.
Madam chop his money and bonce.
ReplyDeleteThe question is how did he even get ur number? How did u start chatting with him to the point of familiarity that he even told you he loves you. Forget all this gra gra, men are typically scared of a married woman, it is the way you carry urself around them that dissipates or enforces that fear they have.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteTell him off and block him everywhere!
ReplyDeleteContinue to enable him,it will end in premium tears. 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteTell your spouse about him..... By the time he talk to him, he will flee and never return
ReplyDeleteAre we supposed to clap for you when you said you like money but you don't worship money, u dey deceive yourself
ReplyDeleteREPORT HIM TO YOUR HUSBAND
ReplyDeleteBlock him,keep blocking him
ReplyDeleteWhat's this all about, really? So what you are trying to say is that you are continually being disrespected and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it? Why are you sounding so helpless?
ReplyDeleteYou appear to have a very loose boundary because I don't understand why a filthy man who is bent on desecrating your womanhood is daily allowed in your space. This is someone who believes your dignity, when weighed on a scale, is on par with the ladies of the night; hence the reason he has the guts to demand such filthiness from you over and over. What's the full story?
This is something you should have handled by yourself from the very first day he tried you. I think you know what to do, though I believe you would have told your husband rather than kept this to yourself (if you are a couple that tells each other everything)
You are actually giving him the opportunity to keep saying trash to you.
ReplyDeleteIf you see the number of married men that hail me anytime I pass my street, I don't need any suit sayer to tell me their intentions. These same people also sleep around with other married women around here, I have seen them severally. They were able to get down with these married women because they allowed the nonsense conversation . They can't try it with me after a first try. Even if they want to repeat it, it will be strictly on "Slim Shaddy, how are you, you passed and you didn't greet me today? What happened na? If they want to give me their children's dress to make, it will definitely be where people are around. I don't give them the comfortable atmosphere to start saying trash. Not putting up any serious face , I always smile while telling them what I need to tell them.
The moment you start allowing them to assist you in doing certain things for you, they'll want to collect back by asking you out. Young guys will do these things for you without ulterior motives but these married men, tufiakwa.
Poster, stop allowing him to buy anything as little as sweet or biscuit or even juice, meat, etc. They'll definitely come back to take a share . If you are doing it, you should stop.
The funniest one I experienced was one papa, any time I pass , he'll say "Adam, kedu?" I always humble myself around him because he looks respectable.
One fateful day, he brought some forms from the local government headquarters here, it was a government grant and it seems he has slot there, I already knew of the grant a month before he brought it but I pretended as if I have no idea of it, so when he gave one of the forms to me to fill my details to him and return, I collected it and thanked him, as I turned to leave he pulled me back and held me close in an unholy way, in my mind "see this one, him think say him don do what no man has ever done for me now." I looked at the form and told him, oh, if it's this form, someone already gave me one two weeks ago. lie lie, I didn't have any form with me .I Said that so he will know that people can actually give the form without asking for something else , unlike him that wants to trespass because he gave me governor's form.
If the assistance people get in this life must pass through him please I'd rather soak garri all my life.
Some of these men self, if I want to use them, I will do it without them having access to my body even for one day, but I no want do them bad thing. Them for run errands for me taya.
You're the one indulging him. Stop replying and he will back off
ReplyDeletePoster you know the right to do if truly you don't want him.
ReplyDeleteI hope your hands are not paralysed?
ReplyDeleteYou can't block him?