STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SPIRITUALLY INCOMPATIBLE
I just thought to share this....
I just thought to share this....
Over 20 something years ago I got married to my first husband, everything was fine with us, we lacked nothing materialy, we were both doing business and doing really well but what we lacked was a child of our own and we both wanted a child.
There was nothing we didn't try, medically and traditionally yet nothing happened until I stepped out one day to meet a powerful seer somewhere in ogun state who I was referred to and he told me that even if I spend eternity with my now ex husband, no child will come out of the union because we are spiritually incompatible.
Then I started thinking of exiting because we both badly needed children.
Long story short, we went our separate ways and I'm remarried with two kids while he has three with his wife.
I am sharing my story with you so that you would learn a thing or two about life. It's been almost 5 years now that we separated, everyone is happy and doing fairly well.
You are also sharing it to alert some people who are trying to conceive that they may also be spiritually incompatible right? Honestly, this is the first time I am hearing of this word usuage but i do know that some couple spend years trying to get married but the minute they seperate or try different people while stil together, it results in pregnancy....
Thank you for sharing your story....
I suspect this poster is a herbalist practicing in Ogun state.
ReplyDeletePoster 1bottle of olive oil will destroy your shrine.
Fan Emmanuel
1 bottle of schnapps for you Fan.
DeleteTrying to justify what I don’t know.
Thank God for IVF , surrogacy and adoption. Nobody has to follow this advice
Make them band you from commenting on chronicles.
DeleteDon't mind the poster. He/she separated 5 years ago but is already married with 2 kids while the ex husband is remarried with 3 kids. If this isn't an example of Fabu... I don't know what is.
DeleteDid the Doctors confirm that the ex husband is not sterile?
DeleteWhat if the man is sterile and his second wife took matters into her hands in ways different from Poster's ways?
Please only questions were asked o!
Hmm Fan, fan.
DeleteAlways suspicious of everything.
It is just a chronicle not a news headline that needs to be investigated.
Fan eeh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteBut to be sincere, Ogun state dey filled with herbalist o 😂😂😂
Life is deep
DeleteI don't argue anything anymore
@ Fan you too funny. Na herbalist advert..
DeleteHypocrites everywhere..@ Fan, just pray you don't have any reason to visit an herbalist for solutions....most times people go to this people out of desperation. Pls stop mocking people. He get somethings wey Olive oil no dey solve
DeleteWow this is a food for thought.....The important thing you knew the truth, went to the right source, acted on it and it worked in your favours.....May God continue to bless your unions...
ReplyDeleteAll the best
Right source?
Deleteyou people are jokers...which God? you went to a herbalist then got divorced and you say God continue to bless them? yes not all good is Gods perfect will. good can be happening to you but you on your way to hell...nothing like spiritual compatibility, if anyone is born again then you are his child and everything promised his children is accessible to you..
DeleteThis is an eye opener...
ReplyDeleteStella 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteYou're absolutely right. Spiritual incompatibility can show up in many ways, and it's not just about childbearing.
ReplyDeleteWhen two people have different spiritual beliefs, practices, or values, it can subtly erode the foundation of their relationship over time. The way they approach life, their priorities, and even how they handle conflict can be influenced by their spiritual worldview.
In marriage, peace is often tied to shared values, especially when it comes to things like communication, conflict resolution, and life goals. If partners don’t align in their deeper spiritual beliefs or how they want to grow together, small issues can snowball into bigger ones. Constant disagreements and unresolved conflicts can strain the relationship, leading to frustration, resentment, or even a sense of being emotionally disconnected.
It’s important for couples to understand each other’s spiritual backgrounds and find common ground, or at least mutual respect for each other's journey. If they can do that, even when differences arise, they can face challenges with a sense of unity and peace. It’s about having a shared vision for the relationship and being willing to compromise and grow together in a way that honors both partners’ values.
Akiko. Tinubu wife is a pastor married to a Muslim man, you no progress pass them.
DeleteFan Emmanuel
@Anon Fan Emmanuel, read through my messages again, don't be like a typical African.
DeleteIn any conversation, especially written ones, it's important to carefully read through and fully understand the content before jumping to conclusions.
@MichoHay those are some deep thoughts. Thanks for sharing.
DeleteHahaha Fan oooh, no be small akuko. Even Fashola married a Christian woman. Btw l read about a herbilst that married many wives with plenty children. Poster that seer or prophet is not a true man of God.
DeleteLICIOUS BABE
she became a pastor after marriage to Tinubu....you cannot already be born again and then go marry a Muslim and think you are in Gods will..even as born again you can still live a lifestyle that will take you to hell...
DeleteMichoHay what you are explaining is not the same as what the spiritualist is saying...babalawos have their own interpretation of spiritual
DeleteCongratulations that you both have kids now....
ReplyDeleteI have heard and seen this happened to some people, it is very true.
Hmmmmmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteInteresting. Another insight
ReplyDeleteHmmm..
ReplyDeleteNkan mbe. End time spirituality. 🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteLife is sometimes a mystery. You never know until you know. That's why before you enter marriage, you have to seek spiritual counsel. It's not that with Faith,it cannot workout. It might.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm,God ooo spiritual things are real. God you said in Genesis 2 vs18 that is not good for man to be alone that you will give me a helper suitable for me oo and I am holding you with your words I don't want stories abeg🙏🏾 as I no get strength like this 🙄
ReplyDeleteIrony of life.. Interesting
ReplyDeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteLife and mystery
Some people are biologically incompatible for kids
ReplyDeleteYup.
DeleteYeah I have read and heard something like that.
DeleteA very close friend of mine was married for 16yrs but they had no children. Their first major quarrel, the man threw her things out. She moved back to her parent's house. That week, she met a guy and they gbenshed. She is presently carrying her 3rd pregnancy for the new man and has stayed put in her parent's house.
ReplyDeleteDoesn't still sound right! Did the mam not marry her ? Nawa
DeleteThat week!
DeleteThrown out on Sunday.
Met a guy between Monday and Friday.
Gbenshed on Saturday.
Yimmu!
Abeg, that major quarrel was over the gbensher man.
Just flip the parties and imagine responses to this comment.
#yimmustory
She must have been sleeping around before. Someone that's sent out after marrying for 16 years should, normally be sad and sorrowful. Having something with another man within same week indicates she has always been adulterous. Stop reinforcing bad behavior. This monster called adultery that you ladies are comfortable to feed would destroy everyone when it grows up.
Deleteanonymous 23:54 sad and sorrowful indeed...you must be very immature. if there relationship has deteriorated over time then that is possible. men do all these but its ok with you chauvinistic pigs. let a woman move on and you start weeping she must have been sleeping around..
DeleteYes,this same thing happened to the man that used to fix the A.C to my husband's car.
ReplyDeleteThey were told they were not compatible and they agreed to go their separate ways with a condition that,if it was still same after 3yrs with other partners they would come back together. They are both with children but with different partners.
I do hear about this
ReplyDeleteIt manifests in different ways including financially too. The couple will not do well financially but as soon as they go their separate ways, they start processing financially.
May God come through for all TTCs. True, some TTC has spiritual problem that only God and spiritual activities cab resolve. I experienced it for a while, I tried all medication, yet nothing. Pastors failed me, I spent so much money on prayers.
ReplyDeleteThen I decided to take the bull by the horn myself and stop waiting for people to assist me in prayers. Me and hubby prayed, fasted, gave seed,I did personal spiritual work for myself by myself, and God came through.
Indeed some TTC has spiritual problems as the major factor
I missed this blog, infertility and life issues made me stay away, I was occupied with them. I thank God I'm back.
What I can never understand is paying for people to pray for people.
DeleteTheir prayers are only activated with money?
This is wrong on all levels gosh.
people who pay people are not believers themselves but want a quick fix. that is why they fall into the hands of charlatans....spiritual work is not a Christian practice...except if it is all just prayers with the word of God and fasting you actually mean
DeleteWhat DNA will uncover in this life ehnnnn. Ahhhhhh.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteSame thing happened to someone i know.
ReplyDeleteHmmm...May God always be with us when trying to make huge decisions.
ReplyDeleteLife is a mystery only God can explain many things that is happening here ,it is beyond human understanding.
ReplyDeleteThis life is SPIRITUAL! FACT
ReplyDeleteYes, there's a man for every woman.if you master the act of prayer, the holyspirit will work with you and reveal to you your better half.He will never leave you in a state of confusion.He will make a way for you and give you directions to guide your path.
ReplyDeleteWhen it's comes to marriage, please take your time,go to God in prayers.Until you hear from him, do not stop.The giver of life is compassionate,he will reveal to you that which your heart desires.
Thank you. This is very valid.
DeleteIt happened to someone very close to my family... They weren't compatible biologically, but spiritually? I haven't heard of that before.
ReplyDeleteMay God help those who are waiting in line for their miracle babies.
ReplyDeleteIssues like this can be so dicey.
Many times, you people repackage rubbish to us, just to validate your bad way of doing things. While I don't trust anything that has to do with herbalist way is because their solutions and sacrifices are usually with sinful undertones. For example, the poster did not tell us other things the "powerful herbalist" recommended for the couple.
ReplyDeleteSome times, the herbalist may ask their customers to sleep with virgin, mad persons, their own children, parent, among others.
Anything God cannot do should remain as it is, please.
It's the way you people so quickly undermine your one at the expense of what oyibo told you. Until you take what comes from inwards seriously, nothing you see outwards will take you seriously too. Slave mentally. Na wa. Our gods are rubbish, but what the white man's god cannot do doesn't exist. SMH!
Deletenothing like slave mentality....like it or not Jesus was an Israelite cos God choose it that way...if the white man brought him to us praise God. the important thing is he is stil redeeming and will continue to redeem us. give your life to him or you suffer eternal damnation aka hellfire....lol
DeleteI don't think it has anything to do with spiritual. Maybe it's just medically. I'm happy you all are doing well now
ReplyDeleteOhhhhhhh,you done get child
ReplyDeleteYa Ex too done get child
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