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''Thank you, Stella, for creating this meaningful platform. My story is long, but I will try to make it as short as I can. This chronicle is an update to the one I sent 4 years ago. A lot has happened during this period. I am the lady who lost her husband to the cold hands of death, a pain I pray no one should go through.
After making that post, you reached out to me, asking my permission to be contacted by a blog visitor. I agreed. This lady was an angel in human form. Often, after funeral arrangements and rites are performed, people move on, and you, the bereaved, are left to face your demons. Losing my husband is a tragedy I am yet to recover from. I hit rock bottom, and my mental health was a mess. I was depressed and hallucinated often. In reality, I was losing myself, as I couldnt function properly. It was at this sad stage in my life that I got a message from this lady, who for this write-up I will refer to as ES and MT as myself. She introduced herself and asked how I fared. We spoke every day as she kept praying for me and sending comforting messages.
She was there in my weakest moment; she cared so much about my child and gave suggestions on how to care for her. My parents are great, they were also there for me even though we were all mourning. They were grieving too and are emotional people, so I tried moving away from them, as being closer to them gave me a constant reminder of our loss. On this fateful day, in December 2020, ES asked me what help she could render to me. I had no answer to give, so I just sent a smiling emoji because to me she was doing more than I could have imagined. I had someone who was like a sister and to whom I could pour out my heart. It was a blessing.
A week later, I received a message on WhatsApp; it read, ''Good morning, MT; I guess you had a good nights rest. I think the best way I can help is for you to relocate. Your surroundings keep reminding you of your loss. It will be good for you to experience a new environment.
This was unexpected. I replied with a smile and a good morning. She told me she was serious, and I was to write my IELTS. I took the test and passed. She was excited and happy for me. ES was there every step of the way to make sure I got the required documents for my application. She helped fill out my forms and made all the corrections. She supported me both emotionally and financially. All this time, I couldnt believe what was going on. Everything was happening too fast; it amazed me. To be honest, I was never serious about the application process, but this woman was determined to support me despite my nonchalant behavior.
The day I sent the chronicle to Stella after my husbands passing was an abnormal day. I had this strange urge to write my story, but I kept dismissing it. I tried reading myself to sleep, but I couldnt. I heard this voice saying, ''Get up and write'';. After tossing and turning and no sleep, I succumbed and wrote my story. Only after that did I fall asleep. It still amazes me to think about that day. It was strange...
Because my IELT result was delayed, I missed the application deadline. This woman cried oh and told me not to give up and that we would try again. Fast forward to 2021; she made sure I applied. It was successful, and my application was approved. With medical exams and a police clearance report sent, I was given a visa to Canada. We held a video call when I received the package of my stamped visa from the Canadian Embassy. We opened it together, and her excitement was out of this world. I have never seen someone rejoice over the success of another like this lady does. Chai, she is an exceptional beauty and a rare gem. The real definition of "Women supporting women" . Shes happily married with kids and holds a reputable office in Canada. To me, this was all a dream I was trying to wake up from.
When I took the leap and moved to Canada, I knew it would be challenging, but what I didn’t expect was how meaningful it would be to have a friend like ES by my side. Moving to a new country is a daunting task, but having a supportive friend makes all the difference. From the initial stages of planning to the final
moments of packing, she was there every step of the way, offering guidance, encouragement, and endless patience. She even helped pay for my ticket. Her husband has always been behind the scenes,supporting and sometimes stepping in to make things easy. Finding such people in this world is a blessing for which Im grateful.
ES helped me navigate paperwork, gave me a place to live, and helped me settle into a completely new environment. More than just helping with logistics, ES gave me the confidence to pursue this dream, reminding me of my strength and resilience. Her family gave me a warm welcome, and they;re very
supportive in helping me settle down.
moments of packing, she was there every step of the way, offering guidance, encouragement, and endless patience. She even helped pay for my ticket. Her husband has always been behind the scenes,supporting and sometimes stepping in to make things easy. Finding such people in this world is a blessing for which Im grateful.
ES helped me navigate paperwork, gave me a place to live, and helped me settle into a completely new environment. More than just helping with logistics, ES gave me the confidence to pursue this dream, reminding me of my strength and resilience. Her family gave me a warm welcome, and they;re very
supportive in helping me settle down.
They are a kind and wonderful family. Her kids are amazing and fun to be with (I love them so much). ES made sure I got a job.
Last month, I signed a job contract. Their kindness and willingness to help made me realize how lucky I am to have someone like them in my life.
I speak to my child almost every day and I miss her a lot. ES wanted me to travel with her, but I thought it would be too burdensome for her. I will hopefully bring her over after I get my PR.
Today is her birthday (ES); please help me wish her a happy birthday. She is a calm and private person; (she is that Proverbs 31 woman) a true queen. Ive learned so much from her and keep learning. The other day we went to the store close to the house to get some items for my apartment. She was specific about telling me what I should get; upon reaching the store, she told me ''today you will shop alone''. That was my first time in that store. I got the wrong product as she waited in the car. Upon seeing me come out of the store, she got down and said I got the wrong product (We burst into laughter). Both of us are naturally shy people who don;t want attention, so I was surprised when she got into the store and asked the sales lady to give me the correct item. It was funny and interesting. She is highly intelligent and organized.
She plans and is a hard-working woman. They are a Christian family and have proven to be true followers of Christ. Im proud to have met them. I help the family in the best possible way. I can not repay their act of kindness.
Thanks to God for making it possible. My encounter that night before writing my story, I believe, was the voice of God. Thanks to ES and her husband for creating a path of success for me and giving me a new beginning. Thanks to you Stella and all blog visitors.
Thanks to God for making it possible. My encounter that night before writing my story, I believe, was the voice of God. Thanks to ES and her husband for creating a path of success for me and giving me a new beginning. Thanks to you Stella and all blog visitors.
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY ES. I know you are reading this.
Please be kind with your words; they make and break.
Please be kind with your words; they make and break.
All i can say is that GOD YOU THANK YOU FOR USING ME to dry her tears, I will always be ready and available to be used oh you God
Happy Birthday ES babe geh, me too wanna come to Canada....heheheheheheehehe.
Thank you for taking her in and loving her like shes blood..I saw the photos and my eyes watered.......Thank you letting God use you to remove her tears, even though she is not Nigerian, you still reached out to her and treated her like blood sister........Tight hugs to you both!!!
God bless ES and thank You for using her to locate MT.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless Stella for creating this platform and connecting people.
God bless MT for being a strong & receptive person that appreciates and give back. God bless everyone who has helped you take care of your princess.
God bless everyone who has contributed in various ways on this blog to assist and help others grow. May y’all continue to prosper and live up to ripe old age in great health,Amen π .
This is the real definition of destiny helpers. May we not be missing where our destiny helpers will locate us π
DeleteHappy birthday MT, may God bless your new age. This blog is indeed a ministry, may God keep using you Stellz and other God sent Angels.
What a nice ending
DeleteMay God bless her family and keep making ways for them
God bless and preserve ES and her family a million times. Amen.
DeleteCongratulations to you
Stories like this gladden my heart π ES happiest of birthdays to you ππ₯³ May God fill your life with joy as you have done to another ππ₯°
DeleteStella, you're a blessing indeed π₯°π€
Poster, God bless you for coming back to testify to the glory of God's name π€
Sometimes when you read some stories you would wonder if ppl like ES really exist in this very wicked world? God bless you Ma'am and happy birthday ππ
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God Bless you ES! I Pray God would reward you till your 10th generation for this act of kindness you have done! May you continue to be an instrument of God's love! Have a Blessed Birthday
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES π
ReplyDeleteLive long and prosper ππ
GOD bless you π
Awww. I'm glad you are smiling again, may your joy be permanent. God bless ES richly.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES, God will continue to bless you for your kindness.
ReplyDeleteFinally I have a blog ID!
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Congratulations
DeleteAwwwwwπ₯° this is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES, may your light continue to shine. You will never know sorrow in Jesus name π
Hmmm... I was in actual tears the whole time reading this, my story is similar to yours, just that the ES here is SDK herself. I'll write in due time.
ReplyDeleteES and family, I'm very grateful to you for bringing so much redemption to this woman , possibility and positivity to the SDK community with this one, I thank you deeply for what even her close household members could not have done, you have allowed God use you to do.
I pray that your light that attracts favors and blessings will never diminish in Jesus name. Amen.
Thank You and God Bless You.π
God richly bless you ES! He will send helpers even before you ask. None shall be found wanting in your family in Jesus' Name. Amen!
ReplyDeleteThe most beautiful update ever! God bless you ES and all the other ES's on the blog and the world out there. You will not miss your rewards.
ReplyDeleteYes, I agree. This is the most beautiful update i have read here ❤️
DeleteThis is so emotional. Happy birthday ES,God bless your new age. Thanks for helping total stranger,who is a widow. God bless you and your amiable family. God bless you SDK for creating this platform to enrich and bless many. You're a star,like your name implies. God bless you SDK. ππΏππΏππΏ
ReplyDeleteWow.
ReplyDeleteGood bless you abundantly ES and happy birthday to you π
MT may Canada continue to be a fruitful land for you ππ½
Stella this your blog is saving lives o
You no go understand.
Even in my depressed state, immediately I log on here, I’m happy.
Thank you!
Amen and amen. Thank you. May God come through for you
DeleteGod bless you ES and happy birthday to you, Stella thank you for this platform you are a life saver.
DeleteCan someone post a link to the chronicle?
ReplyDeleteGod bless you angel ES and your household. You will never know sorry over your husband and children. God will continue to enlarge your coast π.
ReplyDeleteOn behalf of MT,we say THANK YOU
DAALU
NAGODE
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Oh Wow this is quite emotional...We have real angels here...This is so soothing to the soul.... Happy birthday ES and I am so happy for you MT ππ May God continue to perfect all that concerns your endeavours...
ReplyDeleteWow! Wow!! Wow!!! Stella you are truly from Delta state because you have a BIG beautiful Heart....What you do for us will always outlive this blog and you... God bless our angels in human forms...
Father, we ask that You will bless ES. May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit rest and abide with her. Amen
ReplyDeleteWe pray Lord that, You will be her reward, she is delivered from the scourging tongues of men. She is the blessed of the Lord, blessed in the city and out of the city. No weapon fashioned against her shall prosper. Terror is far from her dwelling. Her children will never be stranded, we ask Lord that the Oil of favour will rest upon her. Above all, her place with You will not be lost.
Thank You Lord for ES, may Your blessings remain with her in Jesus name Amen.
Happy birthday. Grace multiplied.
Amen to your prayers. Thank you
DeleteThis was a wonderful update to read. There are ppl in this world that have the living spirit of God alive in them.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday ES. Thank you for showing us how to truly live on this Earth.
Awwww, God is really on this blog. Stella, you are godsend to this generation. Thank you so much for this beautiful platform.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Mrs Es. God continue to bless and be with you and family.
Poster, congratulations on your relocation abroad.
Happy Birthday ES..
ReplyDeleteMay God bless you and always comes through for you..
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DeleteHappy birthday ES π€π€π€.God bless you for being there for MT when she needed someone.
ReplyDeleteEh God!! This is so so touching... I was really teared up while reading.. God will continue to bless you and your family ES, thank you so much for allowing God to use you to uplift this woman when she hit rock bottom.. Happiest birthday to you π
ReplyDeleteThank you Stella for this great platform, it has been a blessing to so many people and will continue to be..
MT God will continue to be with you all the days of your life π
Thank you Stella for posting. God bless you and all BVs
ReplyDeleteWow!wow!wow! This is touching!Happy birthday ES,your generations on this earth are blessed,God rewards your beautiful heart. wishing you more fruitful years of celebrations.may the Almighty God answer all your secret prayersππ½πΎππ₯°πΉ ma'am Stella God bless you with more wisdomπ₯°πΉ
ReplyDeleteOh wow for real. This is just awesome. please let try and be organised here. They are real angels helping others that are not even blood here. Very thrilling to read this
ReplyDeleteHappy blessed day EVERYONE
ReplyDeleteYOU'RE a true definition of a Christian,
God bless you so much,
I'm greatly encouraged.
Wow...Happy birthday to her. We really appreciate you.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES. God Almighty bless you richly
ReplyDeleteWow
ReplyDeleteThis can only be God
Thank you ES for taking MT like your own sister and wiping away her tears
This is rare
It is only God that can repay this kindness
Happy birthday MT and may God continue to bless you ES and be with you π
Happy Birthday ES! Thank you for showing up for the poster and allowing God to bless her through you in these days where trust is scarce.
ReplyDeleteES, God will never depart from you and your family. You will forever be rewarded positively and abundantly for this help that you rendered.
Poster, may God continue to bless you and your own family.
Stella, what a lovely update.
This is so heartwarming, Happy birthday angel ES
ReplyDeleteGod bless you ES,God bless you Stella for creating this platform and blessing lives,we truly have angels here.
Angels exist and some are in the gift of men.
ReplyDeleteThank you Lord.
One more thing, don't go and repay her good with evil by carrying over some Nigerian ungrateful spirit "is it because you helped me". Don't repay her good with evil by destroying her family. There are many women like ES, helping or willing to help , some have helped and were burnt.
I pray you will be different.
Thank you ES.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
I hope so too!
DeleteHappy birthday ES. God bless and keep you
God bless ES! Angelic helpers are real.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations and thanks to ES.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you ES, may you never know shame all the days of your life.
ReplyDeleteWhen you call for 1, a hundred will come to your help, your generation shall be blessed. Your family is preserved and protected all the days of your lives.
This story filled my heart with so much joy. Happy birthday ES.
This 100% Amen!
DeleteHappy birthday ES. May God bless you and yours and raise helpers for you in your time of need .
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES. May the world forever be kind to u and urs and may you find favour even in the most unfavorable places possible. Have a great year!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES.. may the good Lord bless abundantly, may ur kids find helpers at every point of their life.. Thank you for being a good person..
ReplyDeleteStella may God strengthen you too.. And use u to do exploit.. Amen
Happy birthday to you ES. God bless you real good. Thank you for allowing God to use you to wipe away tears from this life. May God always come through for you whenever you need help. MT God will be with you and prosper you in your endeavors.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday, Es. May God always be with you and show up for you. A lot of people are desirous of helping others but get scared due to how they end up being treated by those they have helped. So I say, you are not only kind but also courageous.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you too, Mt, for not repaying her with evil.
Happy Birthday ES...Ah!!! God Bless you nyafu nyafu!!!
ReplyDeleteIt will come back in ways you can't imagineππππ
Stay Blessed
God bless you and your family ES for letting God use you to wipe a sister's tears.
ReplyDeleteA very happy birthday to you also, God will continue to lift you and your family higher.
I'm very happy you're grateful keep being that way. I know some ingrates. I steer clear of them. Happy birthday angel ES. God bless you more.
ReplyDeleteI read this with tears in my eyes. Thank you to ES! May you also never lack in the day you need help. May you always have a helper in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteMay he multiply from the well you draw from, and may that well never run dry. Praying that you remain evergreen, in the land the Lotd has planted you.
MT, may he continue to comfort you, and may he enrich you on all sides.
I wish both of you well, in your friendship, and in your individual journeys. There remains light and salt in this world. Don’t forget to pay it forward.
Happy birthday Es, May the Lord continue to bless you. You will not know a better yesterday. You will move from glory to glory in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES. God bless your your generous heart.
ReplyDeleteOh wowπ what a beautiful and spirit lifting readπ₯°. God bless you Stella for this platform ❣️
ReplyDeleteES, you're loved and highly favored. God continue to bless and keep you. Thank you for loving MT, even without meeting her, your type is rare.
MT, the beloved of the Lord π₯°π, keep basking in the goodness and grace of God.
Happy delightful birthday ES, you will never know a better yesterday. Thank you so much maππππ
Thank you so much angel ES, God will richly repay you, happy birthday to you, I wish you many more years celebration. Thank you Stella for this wonderful platform.
ReplyDeleteWow!!! Amazing story. Feels like a movie. GOD bless ES. GOD bless you aunty Stella for your platform. It has been a huge blessing to us all
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES, may God continue to bless your good heart and fill you with all round happiness.ππ
ReplyDeleteMay Es and family continue to be watered by God
ReplyDeleteHappiest birthday ES and may you never lack at your point of need. God bless you Immensely
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES, May you Shine And Prosper Always
ReplyDeleteGod bless you now, Always And Forever ooo..
May Our Destiny Helpers locate Us oooo in Jesus mighty name Amen πππ
God Bless Iya Boys Richly you are An Angel ππ
Hello iya Boys
This is good. Thank God for destiny helpers. God bless those who avail themselves to be used in touching people's life positively. Amen!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to you dear, may your joy be permanent
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday ES God bless you and may you me never see pain, shame or reproach. As you have helped may God constantly send helpers to you.
ReplyDeleteThank you ES for being a blessing to MT. May you always have your needs met by God. May He bless and keep you and your loved ones always. Happy birthday to you.
ReplyDeleteMT, congratulations to you. God bless and increase you in every area.
Stella, God bless you for this amazing platform of yours. π
Happy birthday ES, God will continue to bless you and your generations, you will never know a life of sorrow, thanks for always being there for the woman.
ReplyDeleteI'm very happy for the happy ending of this story, poster you shall continue having good tesmonies.
Wow beautiful ending
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES. May God reward you abundantly for all you did and still doing. Thank you so much.
ReplyDeleteAngels abound here. Thank you SDK.
Happy birthday ES, and may God bless and reward you and your family π
ReplyDeleteAngels in human form. Happy birthday ESππ₯³God bless you real good.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sweet
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES. God will continue to favour your household.
Thank you Stella, for all you do for people, especially those don't even know nor have association with.
God bless you Stella for this wonderful platform it such a great blessing to people.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Es may you keep basking in the euphoria of your answered prayers you such a huge blessing ♥️
Happy birthday ES, God bless you, thank you so much for your love
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES. May Allah bless you π
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES MAY GOD BLESS YOU.
ReplyDeletemy destiny helper locate me in JESUS NAME AMEN.
Happy belated birthday to you,you are an angel in human form. May God bless your new age with good health of mind and body in Jesus name amen.
ReplyDeleteChiloving
Feedback like this makes the blog owner a believer.
ReplyDeleteSuch a heartwarming story.
This is one of the most touching and inspiring story I have read. May God bless you both. Stella you are already blessed in Jesus name π
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday ES. May God bless you for what you're doing in MT's life.
ReplyDeleteWow! Big STELLA may Almighty God bless you, mightily for all you do on this platform. Happy birthday to Es and I pray before you knock the door, multiple doors shall open for you.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations OP and goodluck
God bless ES abundantly, and thank you Madam Stella for allowing God to use you.
ReplyDeleteTo God alone be all the glory, for He connected two amazing women. May the bond continue to grow and flourish between you. Happiest birthday ES, may the light of God continue to shine upon you and your family.
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