I will only guide. My son wanted to do Civil Engineering but when I looked at the prospects and the people around us who did the course, I advised for Mechanical.
Even at that, he is not even practicing. Just go to school, do you thing and find your level in the society.
I will guide them in choosing . I will look out for their passion, interest and what I have observed they are capable of doing..because some children will change their mind ten times before age 18 on their future career path.
It is not wise to vehemently insist on a career path for your kid, it is better to guide them and at last let them decide what they want to do and you give them your full support.
The fallout with my mum started after secondary school, when she wanted to impose a career path for me, I refused and did what I wanted (with the later support of my Dad) which today I rate myself very successful and fulfilled. However, she hated me for the guts, did all sorts to make sure I didn't succeed. I think so she would say I told you. My dad tried to settle us after many years, we settled but with comma, we were able to manage it. Then the full hatred came back at the demise of my Dad (late last year) and I cut her off temporarily, till I figure out how to resolve this, wish things were different with her but then I have to survive at least for myself anyways.
Eeeeya, your mum didn't do well in that aspect of training. Forgive & open your hurts to her, also try and visit her more. Am sure she regrets too...all the best dear.
I wish I can decide,but I know better,I will only guide them to make the right choice,gone are the days we force careers on kids,even though some still do it.
Both, they will choose and I will guide. My first daughter wanted to go food management and we quoted her , encouraged her to study pharmacy. Now, she has graduated, working in one of the Lagos State Hospital.
Back in Secondary shool then, Baby geh was soo art inclined but cos of her brilliance and academic perfomances, the principal wanted and adviced she go the science line . I refused o. She has to follow her. Choice and passion and thank God she did and still execeling.
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They decide... it's their life...I just light the way up and provide guidance..
ReplyDeleteI will pray for them, guide and support them, and trust God to steer them in the right direction.
DeleteI would guide.
ReplyDeleteI will let them choose their career path but advise and guide them appropriately.
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They should decide for themselves.
ReplyDeleteThey will choose and follow their career path.
ReplyDeleteWe can only guide and mentor. My parents didn't choose for us.
I will only guide. My son wanted to do Civil Engineering but when I looked at the prospects and the people around us who did the course, I advised for Mechanical.
ReplyDeleteEven at that, he is not even practicing. Just go to school, do you thing and find your level in the society.
Civil engineering has a great prospect.
DeleteIn the present global dispensation, they will be intentionally guided
ReplyDeleteI will let them decide and support them wholeheartedly.
ReplyDeleteThese days its not always advisable chosing for them, best to guard and guide in what they choose to do...
ReplyDeleteI will guide them in choosing . I will look out for their passion, interest and what I have observed they are capable of doing..because some children will change their mind ten times before age 18 on their future career path.
ReplyDeleteThe Kids decides their career, while i support and guide them.
ReplyDeleteIt is not wise to vehemently insist on a career path for your kid, it is better to guide them and at last let them decide what they want to do and you give them your full support.
ReplyDeleteThe fallout with my mum started after secondary school, when she wanted to impose a career path for me, I refused and did what I wanted (with the later support of my Dad) which today I rate myself very successful and fulfilled. However, she hated me for the guts, did all sorts to make sure I didn't succeed. I think so she would say I told you. My dad tried to settle us after many years, we settled but with comma, we were able to manage it. Then the full hatred came back at the demise of my Dad (late last year) and I cut her off temporarily, till I figure out how to resolve this, wish things were different with her but then I have to survive at least for myself anyways.
Eeeeya, your mum didn't do well in that aspect of training. Forgive & open your hurts to her, also try and visit her more. Am sure she regrets too...all the best dear.
DeleteI believe your mum was only looking out for you, most of our parents did it, they believe they know better. Forgive her and get close to her please.
DeleteThey Should Decide ooo
ReplyDeleteI will Just be there to guide, Direct and Support..
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Hmmmm I will choose for them... e get why
ReplyDeleteParents and their kids over ...🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteDefinitely letting them start their careers with guidance
ReplyDeleteI wish I can decide,but I know better,I will only guide them to make the right choice,gone are the days we force careers on kids,even though some still do it.
ReplyDeleteWill guide them the best way I can.
ReplyDeleteLike this ehn, if I had my way, my son will play a sport professionally but then, man proposes but God disposes.
I would not only advise, but also make appropriate suggestions where necessary.
ReplyDeleteI lead. They heed. ✌️
My children decides their choice of career
ReplyDeleteMy own role is to guide and support them
I will let them decide their careers and pray that they carve a niche for themselves in whatever career they choose.
ReplyDeleteThey will decide, we can only guide, pray and support them.
ReplyDeleteThey choose their own career, mine is to guide and provide necessary resources for them.
ReplyDeleteBoth, they will choose and I will guide. My first daughter wanted to go food management and we quoted her , encouraged her to study pharmacy. Now, she has graduated, working in one of the Lagos State Hospital.
ReplyDeleteI'll let them decide
ReplyDeleteI will let them decide.
ReplyDeleteThey will decide for themselves.
ReplyDeleteI'd let them Decide whilst Guiding Them
ReplyDeleteI will choose for them.. In this present Nigeria.. I will so discourage u from choosing any useless career..
ReplyDeleteIf they want to become an underwater basket weaver it’s their choice.
ReplyDeleteEnlighten them in their choices or give other options if they wish 🤞
ReplyDeleteBack in Secondary shool then, Baby geh was soo art inclined but cos of her brilliance and academic perfomances, the principal wanted and adviced she go the science line . I refused o. She has to follow her. Choice and passion and thank God she did and still execeling.
ReplyDeleteI will let them decide
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