Wednesday In House News

 Hailings......

IN HOUSE MEMO

How is everyone doing? How are the women crushing on their special day?

Something confuses me and i need to ask....The Bible says that Sarah got pregnant at 90 years old.....Does it mean that at that age she was gbenshing?

Na wah oh.....

I can see that some people have refused to leave this Blog, please my people let them add to my traffic by commenting as Anonymous.....May God punish anyone who still complains on why i have refused to forgive the thing.......You cannot insult someones children, call the person ugly, a loser, blackmailer,wicked person and a witch and all other names, and the person forgave you and gave you a Job and you still went back to the insults after begging severally? 

DONT TRY TO CONTROL HOW THIS REACTS; NOBODY SHOULD !!!!!....

Nne IR dont keep talking about this thing to me either here or inbox, let me move on that i can Forget and heal....let whoever wants to react do so, we are all one family here and everyone saw the insults and repeated apologies and insults...

Nne IR, stop any talk whatsoever about this thing....I hated you so much when you came up with the CHILD defence but i have forgiven you and love you again despite your dramas, thats who i am,please rest it.....

People come into our lives for a reason, the IR came to show me that toxic people are real and can never change...

I am done, this matter drains me and leaves me angry......

Shootergal insulted me and my kids but she repented genuinely and despite her sometimes nasty self, she is a sweet person......I doubt she would ever insult me again but if she ever does, dont involve my kids, I dont forgive that!..LOL...I am open to be insuled but face the matter at hand oh.....

Today i am cooking minced meat rolled into balls, fried in buttered pan with onions and lots of green,red,yellow pepper with onions and some other things i dont know the name and then cooked slowly in white sauce to be eaten with salad by the side and Fingel nudels *Tongueclick*

Enjoy the rest of the day....Its really getting cold here...Abeg how much una dey sell Sun?....

Hugs

Happy Woman crush Wednesday...

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PINKYS CORNER

I don't know why some people go just see peace of mind and decide to look for war instead. As a man, even if you want to have a side chic (Note: I'm not advocating for such act but trying to pass across my point) , i believe one is enough since you think you are not satisfied with your wife but having 3,4, 5 or 6 is so annoying but wetin concern me. Na him get him life and I can't tell him what to do.

My neighbor at the shop, the guy whose shop is right beside mine to my right hand side is married with 3 children, infact, the wife just gave birth to another few months ago. This guy sells oil and okada parts. He has an elder brother who is also in his late 40s. Both stay in their mother's house. Having their room just opposite each other (got to know when I went for the naming few months ago). This guy has over 5 girlfriends and I keep asking myself if it's not a waste of time and money.

One thing he does that I hate most is, he brings them to his shop and do nonsense in that same shop. On Tuesday, one came and it was raining, you need to see what they were doing in that shop that is meant for business. You never do nonsense for shop sef, sales dull let alone doing such. His elder brother who is also married will also bring in different girls into his shop and lock themselves up once its 7pm. The brothers own sef worse, he is always dating under 20. 

He loves those young girls of 17,18,19 . What happened on Saturday made me give up entirely. 

Another lady came around 7pm and it was raining, they locked themselves up and me dey inside shop they wait for wify to come back from church. After a while, they installed the light and I think that was the same time wify was crossing to the shop lane. I think she saw the guy and the lady right in the shop gbenshing but they never knew, the guy only rushed to put off the light because they never expected the light to come at that moment. They didn't lock up the shop properly. When she told me what she saw, I was so pissed and this same person will be complaining about sales.
Anywhere you do business, you don't bring in strangers and do rubbish with them. I grew up to know some few facts about business. As a woman, if you have flourishing business and you bring in men to do nonsense with you in there or you add the nonsense money to that business then the business is moving towards destruction (vice versa). Why joke with your source of income? I no pity am at all if anything happens to the business because at 40, if you're faulty then no one can repair you again. What I just said about Biz up there, some people will tell you it's a lie. Ok, I pray you won't regret your actions. I only pity the wife because she is a full house wife, she doesn't work at all, you will only see her on Sunday when going to church or afternoon when going to pick the children in school.
Guide your source of income jealously .
No free puna
No go enter wahala
Ti e baaje no concern them
You fall they run
Ire ooooo
Ire oooooo

WOW!!!!:..... you are right pinky omo mi....why gbensh inside shop?not just strangers oh, even with your spouse, dont do it at your place of biz....

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BV QUESTION

''In as much as parenthood can reshape one's identity I don't believe it can erase individuality.
Growing up, I noticed a common tradition in our society where parents are affectionately addressed by their child's name, such as 'Mummy Ella' or 'Mummy Andre.' However, yester I witnessed a woman being addressed in this manner, and someone commented, 'Why can't you call her by her own name, Doesn't she have an identity beyond her child?
In her words "that's how you make people lose their identity"
I was taken aback, wondering how addressing a mother by her child's name relates to losing her identity. Some of my married friends even find it disrespectful when I address them with their first names. Not like I'm stopping it anytime soon sha...
What's your opinion on this...''

Everyone and their opinion..just respect everyones wish...I get to get tagged as well with certain names and pray that people respect that..I hate to talk to someone and you do ''MA'' for me...
I hate to be talking with someone or be in contact with and you keep making me feel i am older than you with 100 years, you keep acting like a child...Please if you are over 20 you are a FULL BLOWN ADULT.....I hope that i did not deviate from the topic? Its all about the tags.

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48 LAWS OF POWER - PART THREE
---Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.
---Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.
---Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.
---Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.
---Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.
---Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.
---Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.
---Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.

--Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.
Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.
---Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.
--Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.
--Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.
-Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.
-Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.
-Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.
-Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.

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WEIRDFACTS
-----Regular farting can be a sign of good intestinal health.

-----Erotomania is a psychological disorder where the sufferer has delusions that another person is in love with him or her.

----Before you give up, think about why you held on for so long.

----Nearly 1 billion people will go to bed hungry tonight.

----The truth does not mind being questioned. A lie does not like being challenged.

------Friendship isn't about who you've known the longest. It's about who walked into your life, said "I'm here for you" and proved it.

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