Wednesday In House News...

Woman crush Wednesday Hailings....

BIG MAMA COVERS IN HOUSE NEWS
''Good afternoon Stella,
Thank you for all you have done for me.
My business is flourishing all because of you. May God bless you.
What a wonderful walk down memory lane!
Looking through old photos can bring back so many emotions and memories. It's beautiful to see how my journey began and how far i've come.
Happy anniversary to me and my darling.
Attached is one of my beautiful memory and little recharge cards
BV BIG MAMA''

Thank you so much beautiful woman...Belated happy wedding day once again....

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IN HOUSE MEMO

I dey salute oh...comments just full everywhere.....Una well done oh..

Let me say one thing...Dante you earned my respect yesterday with the way you chatted at that wahala Eka Joy to wish you get well soon...show your bolokos here more often instead of behaving like woman yansh most times, men dont keep grudges, thats for women...My prayer is that one day, both of you will become besties and unite una blog fans or unite to fight your blognemies...hahahahahahahahha 

Una both be A list celebs here nah....I am sure that some BVs like it when you both fight?Well, i sometimes like it cos una fight dey sweet, but i hate when it escalates....
Thank you both for entertaining us on Sunday......Onyingate please do not recap the fight cos it might re-ignite the brouhaha....Abeg...
The last ten names for the giveaway will be out on Friday in house news and by then all these orange bank wahala would have been resolved..... I tire!!!

I just heard of a man whose wife beat up because he eat the last food she was saving...isnt that DV?

NAWAH!!!

Enjoy the rest of the day, i wanna cook Spatzle with chicken mede mede and farm salad.........google spatzle to see what it looks like

hugs..

xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

lemme post Stella the dog

 

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PINKYS CORNER
Who is deceiving who?
Someone referred me to her friend because I take her son free of charge. Like, I teach that boy once or two times in a week depending on how available I'm. I do this to just keep my brain fit and the boy is so encouraging. He is always thirsty for knowledge. He keeps disturbing once he is back from school or if he is free at weekends. The boy's mum gave my line to her friend and she called me on Saturday.
We spoke at length then I began to ask her several questions about her son. Note: When I was still in lagos, I do home lesson but I don't give price to parents except I have one or two physical contact with their child before I tell them my price. Why? Because I need to know the child better and also need to know his/her weakness coupled with the parents answers to my questions. These are what I will work on to determine my price.

The woman is a single mother. We spoke at length and I asked her several questions but she lied thinking I'm a fool. (A boy of 16years still in jss2. He can't spell 5 letter words without error. He doesn't have any idea on basic calculations let alone laws of indices). I kept quiet. She asked me to name my price for home lesson in a month(3 times a week). I laughed and told her, I will need to meet the boy like two to three times before saying anything. 

We both agreed. 

I met with the boy and I began to test and teach him and brought up topics like whole numbers, laws of indices then we moved to the planet(orbit, distance and numbers of planets etc). I need not say much. This is a boy the mum told me, he is intelligent but she doesn't want to rush his education but I smell something when I asked her the class he is and she replied saying Jss2(Omo 16years).

As I'm typing this, I'm presently in their house waiting for his mum response because today makes the second appearance just to test him. I asked him few minutes ago to define Noun and also give me 7 doing words but uncle can't give me a positive response. 

I began to ask him about his ways of life and how well the mum has been available for monitoring right from lagos. His response to my questions swept me off my feet. He said, his mum goes out early and comes back so late at night. Like, they just moved to Ibadan not up to a year. They were staying in lagos before. You need to see the boldness. 

He said and I quote "if this was how they taught me in lagos, I wouldn't have had issues with my studies, please sir, can you help me out?" (Funny enough , this boy speaks good English, at least he is better in speaking English but he can't write or pronounce some simple words e.g Abscond, atmosphere, regimental, etc, make I no waste una time Shaa). I smiled and told him to be calm. This boy said a lot but I can't type all. All in all, the mother doesn't have time for him, he leaves school anytime and join some people in lagos to walk around aimlessly

Now, I have been waiting for his mum's call, so we can finalize and tell her my pay. I have decided not to collect anything less than 90k (I
note : won't do it alone, would have to do it with an English teacher and he/she must be paid from that 90k). Why? Because, from my place to their house is 2500 to and fro and I'm to appear 3times a week and if she won't be needing my service then she will have to pay my the tfare I used in coming two times based on our agreement but if she will, then the 5k will be deducted from the pay.

You don't have any excuse for spoiling your child's life. Being a single mother or father is not an excuse, going to work or hustling to make your child a better person is not also an excuse. That a child succeeds making it in life without any supervision doesn't mean yours will. 

This is one of the mistakes my parents made. Non ever checked on me while in secondary school to know if truly I was in school or not. No checking of notes or to know if assignments was given but they were both lucky because at some point I decided to be serious with my life. Up to university level, I have never been lucky to have improvising from any of them. Was neglected to do what i like and I hustled out my fees but God's grace kept me and my hunger for education keeps me going but are we all the same? Ask yourself this. Have you as a mother or father done the following:
*Impromptu visit to your child's school (both primary, secondary and tertiary)?
*When last have you checked you child's note to see if he/she is really writing notes in class?
*When last have you sat with your child to do assignments? The only thing you do is to tell them to take it to your neighbors.
*When your child is on holiday (tertiary), have you ever found out while he/she stays back in school while on holiday or you just accept all excuses given to you?
A lot of questions to ask but let me stop here.
The ball is in your court
Ire ooooo

Ah this is a very good topic and a lot reading this are guilty of it....Some read and do not understand and rush to respond, some cant spell at all and use google...Me i run away from any Maths....lol.I told my bambinos my hateed for maths and anytime i tried to check up on them those those, they just tell me not to gift them my olodo for maths.....Pinky asked very important questions....You are o intelligent and smart pinky.....I am so happy for you and cant wait for your son or daughter to be born so that you can teach us all together.....

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MADAM AMEBO CORNER.....
Stella, good evening Ma'am, it's been raining on me but my God is bigger, the other day my daughter slipped and hit her face on the edge of a tiled pavement, she almost kpaii'd, her lips became time 10, we were still recovering when my friend begged me to follow her to the market to buy goods she intends to sell,
She wants to start shoes and pams business and I have done that business years ago, so i decided to help, we bought from shops, her bag was already big but not so big,
We got to a very big shop, she requested some designs and the young man there said they have it in their other shop,so he went to get them, i got a call and stepped out cos the music in the shop was quite loud,
By the time I came back cos I wasted a lot of time outside, I noticed that the bag she left outside was now beside her and it looked bigger, so i asked her if she bought more goods when I left, she said yes, so i relaxed, she asked why i wasted so much time, I told her that I went inside the market to buy textbooks for my daughter, she said okay, but i noticed the uneasiness with her, she wanted us to leave already that the guy has wasted time....
After I tried my best to dissuade her from leaving, we got up to leave but was stopped by the guy opposite the shop, Ahhh wetin happen again? He took his phone and called the owner of the shop, the guy came immediately, the next thing I heard was "search their bag, they stole from you, Ahhh me? 

I never thief for my life oo, na so her mouth de run like spoiled tap, I told them that I stepped out immediately after the guy left, na so them daze me slap, everywhere come black for my eyes, I slumped on the floor, they emptied her bag and brought out the shoes she stole from the guy, my ear was already bringing out mucus,hmmmm I begged this girl to say the truth, she refused, they dragged us to market security, it was there that the guy opposite brought out the video he made.
He was videoing the entire time, they put it on loudspeaker (MP) to hear our conversation, they heard when i was telling her to buy me food that I was on my own when she begged me to follow her to the market to buy her goods and we left quite early.
They also heard and saw when I walked in and asked her if she bought more goods when I left cos her bag was fuller and she said yes, it corroborated with my statement, na that time this ugly woman tell them say i no follow, that i am innocent, na so them take leave me to go free ooo, they bought me pain-relief and gave me 3k for transport fare, i left in tears..
Until now she's not yet back, I guess they arrested and probably jailed her, if you see the expensive shoes she stole eeh, na so I for take go oo, my good no go kill me, mg children for wait taya say them mama de come, na help I help ooo, please let's all be careful this ember month, some people are desperate and ready to reap where them no sow, i will attach videos for your eyes only Stella..

Honestly? I am short of words!!!....You are lucky that they didnt set you both on fire!!!!....YOU ARE LUCKY!!!!

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WEIRDFACTS

-You will get better quality pictures from an iPhone if you take the picture and then zoom, instead of zooming in first.
-January is named after the Roman god Janus. Janus was a temple god who could look forward and backward at the same time
-Seek respect, not attention. It lasts longer.
-Having large breasts can take five years off a woman's lifespan.

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MOTIVATIONAL
Staying positive during tough times can be challenging, but here are some tips that can help:

1. Focus on the present moment: Instead of worrying about the future or dwelling on the past, try to stay present in the moment.

2. Practice gratitude: Make a conscious effort to think about the things you're thankful for, no matter how small they may seem.

3. Reframe negative thoughts: Try to look at challenges as opportunities for growth and learning.

4. Connect with others: Reach out to friends, family, or a support group for encouragement and connection.

5. Take care of yourself: Make sure to get enough sleep, exercise, and eat healthy foods to boost your mood.

6. Practice mindfulness and self-compassion: Be kind to yourself and try to stay calm in the midst of chaos.

7. Find the lesson: Try to find the silver lining or the lesson in the difficult situation.

8. Keep things in perspective: Remind yourself that tough times are temporary and that better days are ahead.

9. Practice positive self-talk: Encourage yourself with positive affirmations.

10. Hold onto hope: Keep a positive outlook and know that things will get better.
Remember, staying positive doesn't mean ignoring the difficulties, but rather facing them with courage, hope, and resilience.
Keep shining your light
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