Tuesday In House News....

 Hailings....

IN HOUSE MEMO

How una dey?..I am doing just fine, just hungry and about to go buy things to make spaghetti Bolognese and spinachi sauce......All this Oyibo food sef...I honestly cannot wait to eat that red, big shiny crayfish as snack when i am working...I hate the head though...  Anuty hurry begin return to EULOPE abeg...LOL.

I saw all the giveaway adivce and thank all those pointing fingers upandan giving me advice...I appreciate you all......Style when asawo wan do when e see customer dey em mind...Hahahahahahahahahahahahahha
Nne IR you break internet yesterday with your comments eeeeh, I am still trying to decode......

Before i post this, let me let you know that if there is anyone in your life that is staining your white, please do not wait for them to change, change them!!!

Please Ladies remember that being beautiful does not get you a husband in case you are searching, modify your character and how you react to things, when you get husband you can become a lion again...LOL

Have a nice day and stay loved and blessed.

xoxoxoxooxox

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GIST FROM A BV
''My family friend has been a tenant for years, the first son started building their house a few years back. they have only been able to complete one flat downstairs and moved in while the other three flats are yet to be completed.

Just their parents and two siblings moved in....

Not up to a year after they moved in their father died ,the daughter relocated to another state and before one year anniversary of their dad's death, their second son died last year..

 Now I just heard that their mom died last week Thursday.
In the space of three years father,son and mother who moved into their own house have all died''..

This has nothing to do with the house like your words imply OK?...They may have had different ailemt that you dont know of..

My big brother Bigi died in 1999, i was still crying and still in shock when in 2000, my mum died.....We were still crying over both when my big sister passed on in 2001...The shock of these deaths, sent my dads blood pressure overboard and he suffered stroke....He is gone now to rest......Dont tell a story from outside of the banana until you take off the skin......Rest on in peace Mama, Papa, Bigi and Rez... ..May all those of you who have lost someone be comforted as well...

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48 LAWS OF POWER - PART TWO

--Do Not Isolate yourself: Loneliness Weakens you; Engage yourself in the Web of Influence.
---Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.
---Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your Independence so you don't get Caught up in other People's Affairs.
---Pretend to be a Fool to Catch the Sly: Let others think they have an Advantage over you.
---Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the Right Time gives you the Advantage.
---Focus your Forces: Keep your Energy Focused on what really Matters.
----Be a Master at Simulation and Disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.
----Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.
---Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.
----Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.
----Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.
----Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.
----Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.
---Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.

WOW!!!...I love these!!!

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HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE BEING USED IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE:

Here are signs to help you identify if you're being used in a relationship or marriage:
*Emotional Exploitation:*

1. Partner only reaches out when needing emotional support.
2. They dismiss or minimize your feelings.
3. You're constantly reassuring or comforting them.
4. They use guilt or anger to control you.
5. Your emotional needs are ignored.

*Financial Exploitation:*

1. Partner spends your money without consent.
2. They rely on you for financial support.
3. You're forced to cover expenses or debts.
4. Your financial decisions are controlled.
5. They hide financial information.

*Physical Exploitation:*

1. Partner only initiates intimacy for personal gratification.
2. You feel pressured or coerced into physical activities.
3. Your boundaries are disregarded.
4. They prioritize their physical needs over yours.
5. You feel objectified.

*Manipulation and Control:*

1. Partner uses gaslighting or emotional blackmail.
2. They isolate you from friends and family.
3. You're constantly walking on eggshells.
4. They make decisions without consulting you.
5. You feel trapped or suffocated.

*Lack of Reciprocity:*
1. Partner doesn't show appreciation or gratitude.
2. They don't contribute to household responsibilities.
3. You're always initiating plans or conversations.
4. Your efforts are ignored or unacknowledged.
5. You feel like you're carrying the relationship.

*Red Flags:*
1. Inconsistent or unreliable behavior.
2. Disrespect or disdain for boundaries.
3. Selfish or egotistical behavior.
4. Lack of accountability or responsibility.
5. History of manipulation or exploitation.

*Self-Reflection Questions:*
1. Do I feel valued and respected?
2. Are my needs and feelings prioritized?
3. Do I feel trapped or suffocated?
4. Am I consistently sacrificing my own needs?
5. Do I feel happy and fulfilled?

*What to Do:*
1. Re-evaluate the relationship.
2. Communicate your concerns.
3. Set boundaries.
4 prioritize self-care and well being
5.Seek help or therapy,talk to friends and family about it
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