Reality TV Star Karen Igho who cried out a few days ago concerning how her marriage hs broken down, has come back to give update that she is on supervised Child visits with her kids and also revealed that she has been married for 18 years......Her story is shocking and messy and from the recent videos she posted, she appears mentally drained...
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''Hello Please I need your honest opinion
have you ever heard any one who have been divorced or going through a divorce where by you are been appointed a guardian of alitem (GAL) from the new York supreme Court with no mental diagnose, the divorce court got me evaluted and the result came out no diagnose but yet they still went ahead to appoint me a guardian of alitem ((GAL), especially when the divorce case is been settled,that's why I have a divorce lawyer and mind the children are not even included in the divorce hearing.
my Question is why are they giving me someone to think and make decisions for me??? when I'm not a kid or mentally challenged. I'm a 40 years old woman who have been making decisions all my life,now that my abusive husband wants a divorce all of a sudden I'm mentally sick and that's not all they are trying to push for another guardian of alitem for me in the family court custody proceeding with no diagnose either ,just baseless lies and accusations from my husband .
We have been married for 18 years from 2006 September 23rd in London st Mary magadaline church bermonsery close to London bridge we did the white wedding in London before big brother Africa,what you saw in the news was the traditional wedding in 2014 I have my marriage certificate to prove it,I wasn't crazy all those years but now that he wants a divorce so he can take my children away from me.
All I want is to be part of my children's life,I'm their mother once or twice a week for two hours supervised visitation for the past 1year, it was once a week for whole year for two hours they just added an exra day last week to make it twice a week for just two hours that's not enough,
I keep asking what's my crime who did I kill or hurt? With no child protective services case,I have been a good mother and I love my children to the moon and back and I will gladly protect them from harm and evil.thank you all for reading this God bless you All ..''
Why can't most divorce peacefully? See all the stress she is going through. May God help her.
ReplyDeleteI don't know o, i just don't know! *sigh*
DeleteWhite people have no empathy so they don’t fight, they destroy, they annihilate, so those clamouring for white spouses try to understand the people you will be dealing with. This is exactly what Korra Obidi is also dealing with…
DeleteYou read them right about no empathy cos that is how I see them over here. They can be nice but it is usually the superficial kind of nice. I know African can be too emotional but their own lack of emotion is to the extreme.
DeleteIf you are not born and raised alone side them, then you do not know their ways at all.
DeleteThey seen the black brits marrying their own, even going as far as marrying directly from Nigeria but no oh, they want to put head.
Please manage your problem, my prayers are with you.
The racism in these your comments is just really sad. Please inform yourselves a bit more , knowledge helps reverse bigotry.
DeleteOh...this is so sad for a young mother
DeleteIt's quite saddening, she need a good lawyer to prove her case.
ReplyDeleteEya, I can imagine the pains 😢😭
ReplyDeleteOh dear 😩😩 this is too much for her, I hope help comes to her speedily… I thought something like this can’t happen in a saner clime ? Kai
ReplyDeleteShe's been talking from the two sides of her mouth.
ReplyDeleteI saw her post where she said that she and her husband are good and doing great. She even posted her nursing practice after that.
Hope say she no get mental problem True true.😎
so the first thing is to side with the man?...weldone aunty
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DeleteBrother, I no dey follow una side nonsense all in the name of say na woman.
DeleteMy own na to dey talk truth, e no matter whether na man or woman.
Does she sounds coherent to you??😣
AOG, I saw a follow up post from her that it should be disregarded and she wasn’t the one that put that out. She backed it up by showing the room she stays in at some shelter.
DeleteIt is well. I pray God comes through for them.
YES, @ Lora, just last week here, two days after she cried wolf.
DeleteYou obviously don't watch crime movies cos the first thing that came to my mind when I saw those posts was that someone took her phone and was trying to damage control. The only way I was going to believe that was if she did a live video or posted a photo holding that day's paper
DeleteI feel sad for her
ReplyDeleteMay help come to her
I really Feel for her oooo
ReplyDeleteMay genuine help come through for her🙏🙏
Hello iya Boys
So sad
ReplyDeleteI can imagine what you are going through
ReplyDeleteI feel so bad right now
May God come through for you
Please be strong 🙏
I wonder why you all cant see that she is mentally sick...The husband was right to remove the kids from her custody..I dont know what has happened to her but if you go to her page, the differences in her posts is an eye opener.......she is definitely sick and needs help......The man may have tried his best with a lot of resistance from her....you cannot be crying out suddenly after 18 yrs....
ReplyDeleteMay she be healed
Anon 09:58, I have gone through her posts and I don’t see any sign of mental illness or incoherence there. It is rather you, a wicked and twisted soul without empathy that I am concerned about. I pray that when you cry out for help, you also get the same accusations and judgement you are passing on her. #devil
DeleteI also don’t think she’s well. Looks more like the long term effects of drugs. She’s probably still on drugs.
DeleteOnly God and time knows what any union will transpire into. No marriage of 18 years that has produced new life should end in such a way. Even if the parties are dissolving their union they should work out their terms together on their own without the need for the law. I am happy that she has some fight left in her. I can only imagine how draining the process is. May God replenish your strength
ReplyDeleteAlso possible he just has a darn good lawyer, which she obviously can't afford. A darn good New York lawyer can get him custody
DeleteAmen, if she's truly sick
ReplyDeletei thought she said she was okay the last time. Whatever it is I hope you get the needed help
ReplyDeleteI pray help comes for her
ReplyDeleteShe’s either sick or truly on drugs.God will help her
ReplyDeleteEnvious witch, you are the one who is sick and on drugs. No wonder Nigerians are suffering so much, your hearts are too WICKED!!!
DeleteAnon 11:15, do you have proof?
DeleteGod's speed beautiful 🙏🏿😔
ReplyDeleteFrom this write up, a GAL isn’t a bad thing. It’s someone that reports what is going on to the court. I don’t see how they restrict you in any way. How will she ask for custody when she is homeless???.
ReplyDeleteShe needs to get a job, rent an apartment and the GAL will feedback to the court and take it from there
May God intervene in her matter.
ReplyDeleteGod will help her
ReplyDeleteSince I have been seeing her posts on IG...Its either she is hooked on Shrogs or she is having some mental breakdown...I just pray she gets the needed attention to get this resolved and May God come through for her.....
ReplyDeleteMay God see her through
ReplyDeleteHer children should be older by now. Because in my experience what the children says overrides whatever the parents said. Social workers would be involved who would speak to the children in private. Whatever they said would be taken into context, and most times they are removed to foster parents and a guardian would be appointed. And parents are not allowed to visit them without supervision. And in the court process the children would have their own barrister provided by the government. If she has been working she may be provided with solicitors through legal aids because I doubt if she would be able to afford barrister costs here in the western world which are very expensive. All in all if she reaches out there are lots of charities that can provides her with the needed supports in term of counselling and all. But the process would only favour you depending on what the children wants, because in this society they prioritise the safeguarding of innocent children.
ReplyDeleteOh God help her out of this situation.
ReplyDeleteI pray she gets the help she needs.
ReplyDeleteHer story reminds me of Mrs. Chatterjee vs Norway movie. God be with you Karen
ReplyDeleteFelicity
May God step into the situation and help the family. Even people with a diagnosed illness have decent access to their children excluding serious circumstances. A marriage ending should not mean that a person becomes homeless.
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